Ways of attraction

How can you tell whether 2 people fit together in the long run? There are different fittings

Intellectual attraction
You vote for the same political party, you read the same books.
 
Esthetics/Art attraction
You share the same taste of music, you like to go to the theatre, you like the same kind of furniture
 
Sexual attraction
You waaant to have sex with each other. 

Experience attraction
You just feel that the other person has the same level of experience/life wisdom.
You survived a dangerous car accident, she survived a dangerous car accident.
You suffered because of loneliness, she suffered because of loneliness.
Now there is an experience affinity. 

Age attraction
Have you ever wondered why old people dont like to date teenies? And why teenies dont like old people? Lets take a man at age 45. He will not automatically be fond of teens. He will prefer women around his age. Yes, of course there are BOYs who like grannies and vice versa. But normally the ideal picture of a partners body CHANGES with age. You as a man suddenly start to like women with wrinkles the older you get. 

Empathic attraction
You understand each others feelings without words. You can duplicate why the other reacted how he reacted. You can feel each other from a distance. 

Input-Output attraction
You have matching amounts of input (impressions) every day. You have matching amounts of talkativeness. You could talk/listen for hours. 

Intelligence attraction
You react with the same speed. Somebody tells a joke and you start to laugh in the same second. In talks nobody has to wait for the other to understand. 

Genetical attraction
Your bodies match. You like each others smell. You will have healthy children. 

Outfit attraction/Beauty attraction
You think the other one is pretty. 

Bacteria attraction
You have the same diseases and infections. 

You can find more attractions than those above, but I want to make a point here: One single of those attractions can be so strong that you may lose the whole picture (= the importance of the other attractions). In a long lasting relationship some of initially strong attractions may become less important while some other may become impertinent. Usually at the beginning of a relationship the sexual attraction is strong. When it cools down (after 1 month or 1 year or so) then youd better have another strong attraction running. Otherwise you may lose the interest in each other.

Yair Czitrom is the owner and webmaster of www.jaters.com - An experienced online dater that took his dating knowledge and web skills to help other daters/singles in today’s cyber world. He is an expert writer on ezinearticles.com and searchwarp.com 

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