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By Elena Solomon,
Professional Dating Coach: www.DatingCoach.com.au
You only have honeymoon once (with this partner, anyway), so building
romantic atmosphere is essential as this will create wonderful
memories you are going to cherish (hopefully) forever. It is a new committed
relationship for both of you and you are starting your life as a
married couple. Make sure that the word "honeymoon" reminds
you just as much about the matters of the soul as about the heat of
your bodies - this is especially important for women who are emotional
in their nature. The emotional high means a world to women. Candles
are the time tested way to add romance to just about any setting - and
it will cost you only a few dollars to buy a set of tea-lights and a
couple of minutes to set them up, and voila! - you've turned an
ordinary hotel room (or even your own bedroom) into a honeymoon
playground. Here are
some more ideas for you to spice up your honeymoon and make it truly
memorable (if you are a man reading this, implementing these ideas
will score you tops with your newlywed wife - most men's romantic
ideas exhaust themselves on having clean sheets for their wedding
night!).
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Become a sex
explorer
Buy a sex book with pictures (or pick up a photo edition of Kama
Sutra) and try every position possible. If you never done it in
your life, I highly recommend it - it's a lot of fun and you both
are going to love it! Great sex is the first thing most people remember
when you say the word, "honeymoon" (they would be fools
not to), so do it the way that will make those memories truly
special! Now that you are married, you can do it legally... no
restrictions.
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Swap houses
If you don't want to splurge on a 5-star hotel, get yourself a
home exchange buddy through ExchangeHomes.com and live in an
exotic destination some other folks call home! Whether you are a
prince or pauper, this can be something really different from what
you normally do in your everyday life, and this way you are not
just enjoying your honeymoon, but also learning something new
about life!
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Create a
honeymoon video
The days of photo albums have passed! Nowadays people create their
history on DVDs. Get your camera with you and remember to record
the juiciest parts of your honeymoon. Make sure to include
background comments as you are recording - this is like
commentaries when you watch a football game; they help you to tune
in and enjoy the moments when your team have scored. A nice memory
for your future grandchildren!
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Get spiritual
It's not all sex and fun - you can do all of those and be
spiritual, too. If you haven't done it before the wedding (you
should), sit down now and talk through your life goals and
aspirations: finances, careers, children, your dream house, the
place you'd love to live when you are 80, where you see yourself
in 5, 10, 20 years, what you dream about and how you can help each
other make your dreams come true. Get a free coaching session with
a life coach (they always give the first session for free) and ask
for help if you get stuck.
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Write a
"Personal History" book
While you still remember that, go over the first time you met, the
first phone call (or email), the first kiss, the first night you
spent together, and remember all the feelings and fears you had
back then... incredible, how far have you advanced from these
times! Write it down, how it was for you, and your partner should
write how it was for him or her, and then compare the notes. You
can then cut them off or re-type and paste into an album; include
photos if you have some, or simply draw funny pictures. Give it to
your future home guests when you are too busy to entertain them.
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Go parachute
jumping
Nothing can get your blood boiling faster than jumping from an
airplane cruising at some 30,000 feet above the ground. The
experience will make you soul mates forever.
-
Write a New Year
resolution together
It doesn't matter if the New Year is in 11 months. Write it
anyway. You are going to be still together by then, right?
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Take a quiz
Do you really know each other? Create "true or
false" quiz with little-known facts about yourself, and let
your partner guess whether you really were expelled from school
for kissing a boy during a geography lesson at the age of 8. (Tip:
make the answers match the question; i.e. if you asked the
question whether you were expelled from school for kissing a boy
during a geography lesson at the age of 8, the answer can be: (1)
No, I wasn't expelled; I was just suspended for a week; (2) No, it
wasn't a geography lesson, it was an English lesson; (3) No, I
wasn't 8, I was only 7; etc - you got the idea.) Pick the
funkiest and most incredible facts from your life and share them
with your chosen one. This will make you even closer!
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Create a
honeymoon blog
You can get yourself a free blog at blogger.com, which will
allow you to post online videos, audios, photos and comments. If
you are away and your family and friends miss you, they can always
check what you are doing and turn green with envy with all the
honeymoon fun you are having (and they have to work! ;-)). Let them.
They love you anyway.
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Sponsor a child
Whether you already have children or just plan to start
making babies as soon as you pay your mortgage in full, you can
make a child smile by sponsoring a kid through WorldVision.org.
For mere 30 bucks a month a child in an underprivileged country
can have clean water and school supplies. You love each other.
Now, share your love with the ones that don't get much - and you
will make your love last in the world. Sharing is multiplying.
You have taken the wows
and cut the cake, went through all the planning and rehearsing for the
wedding, entertained dozens of semi-strangers (and family members
you cannot stand) - now it is time for you to stop doing
what everyone else expects from you and simply have fun for
yourself! Enjoy
your honeymoon - and make sure you have plenty of lubricant! :-) Lots
of love,
Elena
ABOUT THE
AUTHOR:
Elena Solomon is Australia's leading Dating
Coach, a Certified NLP Practitioner and Best-Of-The-Best dating expert
of AllExperts.com. For more dating tips and free relationship advice,
visit http://www.DatingCoach.com.au
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