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was very successful with my ad; and there are three women I want to meet
on my trip to Russia. I am going to spend a few days with each lady.
My question is, how
do I tell two of the women I visited that I made my proposal to
another? There is no way to avoid hurting feelings. I believe that even the women I will not visit have serious interest in me. What I want to do is minimize damage. You wrote several times about Russian women having low self esteem. All of the women in question seem to be very high quality. I believe there are men who will want them, even if it takes some time to find those men. My concern is some of "my" ladies might give up when I tell them.
I understand your feelings and fears. What I can suggest, if you see that the lady is not right for you when you meet her, tell her about it as soon as possible.
Arrange something romantic like a fine restaurant, take her hand in your hand, and say what a wonderful woman she is. Say her that you like her, and will always be her friend, but you don't think you two can make it as a couple. Tell her that it is very difficult for you to say that to her, but you are sure there are many men who will be happy to be with her. You want her to be happy, and wish her all the best, it's why you are saying that to her NOW.
Then you will have to announce sad news
to two of them afterwards, but also - do it personally, at least by phone. Do it yourself, do not use interpreters. You must just be open and honest. It is always difficult to tell such things, but when you've done, you feel that you did the right thing.
Make sure you brought special gifts for all ladies, and handle the presents in the very beginning. At least they will have something out - you probably think it's funny to think about getting a perfume when your possible future marriage is ruined, but for women it is different. For them your relationship is NOT REAL, even after a few months of correspondence and personal meeting. She still thinks it too good to be true, and is internally ready to accept it will fail. Honestly. I managed to believe in what was happening to me 2 months after my marriage!
Q: Many women on the various agency sites advertise the fact that they have a child or children. This may be a generalization, but I think it most probable the child or children would have little, or no comprehension of the English language. I am concerned that introducing a foreign child to a new country, and to what would invariably be a totally new and alien schooling system, is bound to have a detrimental effect on their educational and social development, due to a simple lack of understanding (at least in the short to medium term). I would be pleased to hear your thoughts on this particular aspect.
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