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Thanks for your help on this site! I had decided early on that I would be happy to correspond with her so long as there were no requests for money. When the last letter finally arrived this morning, I knew something was up. 
Thanks for assuring me that this was a scam after all.


Scamming may not be a crime, but stealing money is. I am going to nail these guys, if its the last thing I do. Thank you for fighting the good fight. We should all stand together to rid the world of this scum.

Adriaan (South Africa)

I would like to thank the creators of this site and especially one contributor to the site, namely Shane, who wrote a profile on a Miheeva, Marina aka Margo. You have saved me a lot of money and a lot of grief. The thing to remember about dating site scammers, and this one in particular, is that even though they may correspond with you for weeks - they are essentially lazy. They may respond to the general gist of your e-mails but generally do not respond to specific details, such as questions, comments or photos. They also have a tendency to re-use a lot of the same material that has worked for them in the past.


I did some more digging and found this website which made my decision a no brainer. I replied back to her with an article that I found about scammers being arrested in Russia. I haven't heard back from her since. She's good...almost got me to go "all in"... Thank you to this website and whoever started it!


Anjella first contacted me through We have been emailing for about 5 weeks now. She made no mention of money until last week. Thanks to you I was wary and di not send any money. She asked for help with tickets after the visa cost her more than expected. I found her IP address and did a google search and found your site with almost identical emails. Copy and paste with some personal questions answered at the top. Thanks for saving me some grief.


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Yana Davletbaeva


Hi #&$*@*$ ! Thanks a lot for your answer!
I am from Russia. But its impossible to send any email on the site from "Russian" profile at all. Excuse me please for this misunderstanding. Telling from the beginning that profile wasn't mine, I know a woman who who let me find someone from the dating site from her profile. I don't know how to use the site, I'm not sure what could I write for the first time, I'm sending my photos... I have many photos, sorry I don't have any professional one, just usual photos. Let me know and I can send more pics! I'm looking forward to visiting your beautiful country and I would like to find a man over there who will be interested in meeting me! I've never been abroad before and I would like to visit it so much! I'm looking for a friend, lover or maybe even something serious... I'm a free bird now, I don't have a boyfriend and I'm open to anything!!! Please send me your photos and write me about yourself!!!! I would like to have a serious relationship although I don't know if that's possible in internet so I'm looking just for a good man who can show me over there and....... we will see!!!!!!!! I hope you like my pics! I’m 27 years old, I hope my age is ok for you?? My height is 5.6 I live in Russia in small town. I hope that you will write me back! Also I hope I'm your type of girl, I'm not sure you like Slavic appearance!!
OK, I will wait for your answer. When I hear back from you I will write more things about myself and send more pics!

Yana (this is my real name)

Hello #&$*@*$!!! This is me again!
It is my first time I try to correspondence with man in internet world. The thing is that I will work abroad for six months or so and I would like to meet a nice man to be my guide or just be good friend to spend time with. I think that it is hard enough to live in foreign town without friends. I am from a small town here in Russia, I don't want to be alone over there without any relatives or friends! I want to see the real life over there and maybe you will be able to tell me more about your culture and life over there and give me some information in general! You know, life in Russia is rather difficult, especially in small towns. I don't want to live in Russia because I have not any chances here, it is hardly possible to explain but I want you to know my plans. I saw many stories in news on TV about girls who started a new life and decided to work abroad... So I decided to do the same and to try to find my luck abroad. I started to register my documents about 2 months ago, so I will travel soon and I will be allowed to work! You see I already started to register documents and now I need to decide in which city I want to work. I’m 27 years old and I’m a hardworking lady! (I will work as a dance teacher). You know, I’m a professional dancer, I dance in group on festivals, wedding celebrations etc. But when I will arrive (I will travel alone) I will work as a dance teacher (instructor), I have an international certificate. I can teach ball dances and sport dances. I want to work hard and change my life! You see that maybe I'm too naive but I still believe in miracles to come! I decided to find a friend and make his city to be my destination. I think it is great chance to change my life. I am full of plans and dreams! My hair is blonde and I have mixed color of eyes (it depends on lightening)... I think I'm somewhat pretty, but first of all I want to be beautiful inside. I do hope that you will be not disappointed to meet me in the real life when we meet. I will leave my town in a few days or so (I can't tell you everything exactly right now) and I would like to be sure I have a man who is waiting for me over there. I will work hard and I would like to find a man to spend my free time together to get to know each other better and have some fun together. If you have any interest to meet me I will be more then happy to meet you too. If you want I can call you when we get to know each other better it would be nice to talk to you.
Sorry I really have to go now. I will write more next time, my sister is waiting for me and I have to go!

Bye-bye!!! Yana

Hello #&$*@*$!!! This is me again!

Thank you very much for your photo! I think its very important to know how a person looks like with whom you are corresponding! I think I should write you more things about me, I hope it will be interesting for you to know me better! My birthday is 18 of June 1983. I am cancer. I'm 167 cm tall (5.6) and 51 kg weight. I don't know exactly my bust-waist-hips measurements, I don't have a reason to measure it because I think it's OK and my body is proportionate )) I am Christian but I am not really religious. I have my own faith inside. And I go to the church but do it seldom.  I am not fanatic about this. I like nature very much and it is always a please to go somewhere to the country-side and to spend a day there. I like picnics, camping a lot. It is great to spend a day on the fresh air, especially when you are with friends or family. I try to enjoy it every time we do it but sometimes I feel very sad as I miss not having my second half near. Well, I am not going to be sad, as I am sure everything will be fine. I've never been married, don't have kids but I  love them and they love me! I don't smoke, drink occasionally. My favorite color is blue. As for my family - I live with my mother and my brother. My mother is 48 years old, her name is Valentina, I love her very much. I have a sister, her name is Zoya, she is already married and she lives with her husband. I also have a younger brother, his name is Maksim. He is very clever and he wants to be a naval officer like our father. My father was a great person, he was courageous and brave. He is an ideal man for me. My father died in auto crash 7 months ago... My mum cried but now she is ok, she will never meet another man because my father was the only man in her life and now her aim in life is to grow up our brother. It was my mother's idea to try to work to another country. She loves me very much and she thinks that its impossible to earn good money in Russia. My mother read many stories about girls who found their happiness abroad and now she wants me to do the same. As I wrote you I live in Russia, the name of my town is Achinsk it is situated in Krasnoyarskaya Obl. (District). It will be great if you also tell me some interesting facts about your city. I don’t remember if I told you or not but I graduated from Krasnoyarsk University two years ago, Economy faculty but I don't work on my specialization because I can't find a good job here in economy sphere, my city is so small. I don’t use any translators and I can speak and write English well. I write my emails from Internet cafe, we have a computer but no Internet. If you want I can call you when we get to know each other better it would be nice to talk to you. Today I'm going to tell my mother about you, I'm sure she will be happy I've met someone over there who can show me around! I hope you are not getting bored to read my emails? It's a pity there is no messenger here, so we can talk only using e-mails... My address here is Russia, Achinsk, Lazo street 23, flat 31. So now you have a representation of who I am....I just can tell you I enjoy life and I try to live to the fullest, I like to try new things. I'm very tender, caring, artistic, faithful, decent person. Sometimes I can be not well organized, I think everybody had it's own minuses and pluses. I don't look any special qualities in a man. I just hope he will be faithful to me and ready to create a happy family with me and I will do everything to make him happy. I'm looking for a soul mate! Do you look for any special qualities?

P.S. Forgot to say I'm sending a pic with my sister, my father and me (2 years ago).

Hello dear #&$*@*$ I think I'm a lucky girl to meet such good man as you in Internet!

I like your photo very much and I can look at you without any stop!!!!
I hope I will be lucky enough to meet you in the real life soon! Yesterday I told my mom about you. She said that now she doesn’t worry about me as before because now she knows you are a kind man and can help me if I need your help. You can show me your city and tell me more about the life over there! I think I didn't write you I like cooking. I can cook some Russian dishes for you! Pelmeni, vareniki, blini, borsch, okroshka! You will like it! Besides Russian cuisine I like Italian and Mexican. I love spaghetti and pizzza!!!!! mmmmmmm! I can't live without it! I like Mexican food because it's very spicy, although I don't cook Mexican dishes too often. I've been told my cooking is very tasty! I like to cook cakes. My favorite is cheese-cake with raspberry! You know... when I talk about food I'm getting hungry ))) I eat everything and I don't like any diets but usually I don't eat after 7 pm. This helps me not to be fat! I can cook many tasty things for you when we meet! Sometimes I like to listen to music. I like almost all kind of Music and my favorite one is pop music and classical. You know almost all Russian men are like bears! They are so rude, they can't be nice and polite, they don't want to have a family. I think you are not like them. I like to go to the cinema! I really like to watch a good movie with my friends. 50 percents of movies in our cinemas are Russian and about 50 American. Actually my favorite actor is Johnny Depp and I like all movies with him. I've watched Pirates of the Caribbean (part 3) some time ago! I think the third part is not as good as the first part. Have you seen it? Could you recommend me any movie so I can watch it? What is your favorite movie and actor? Soooooooooooooooo......... what else could I say? Sometimes I go to the theatre but not often. There is only one small theatre in my city and there is nothing interesting. If I want to watch a good play I should go to the nearest big city, there sometimes can come some famous Russian actors and dancers but I can't go there often because it's quite expensive. I want you to know small things about my life, because it will show you who I am.
Ok, I think I will finish my e-mail for today and I should go home to cook some food for my mom and brother!

PS I'm sending more pics this time! They were taken in Sochi one year ago.

Hello #&$*@*$! I don't have enough time to write a long email I'm in a hurry....
Please write me the name of the closest Airport to you (possibly International) and it's code (if you know). For example the closest Airport to me is Krasnoyarsk and it's code is (KJA). I already started to pack my things and I want to start my trip so I will go to Yekaterinburg from Krasnoyarsk. I have so many worries and I'm so afraid to start everything but if I don't start it now I will never do it!!!!!!!!!!!! I will go to airlines office now and will buy a tickets to Yekaterinburg, its very expensive, but I have some savings so I have money to pay for plane ticket to Yekaterinburg and to pay for renting room in Yekaterinburg. As soon as I will arrive to Yekaterinburg, I will finish my documents to travel, as work permission, medical insurance etc. I’m waiting a confirmation of airport from you, so I will buy ticket to your airport. I know it won’t be cheap, but my mother will receive a salary for last 6 months (her work detained wages) and will send me money when I will find out the cost of tickets! I will know this info in Yekaterinburg. I asked my sister to take a naked photo of myself because I didn't have any naked photos and I thought I will need them and it was my choice. Also I didn't want all men to look at this pic.... and now I know you little more and I will cross my fingers I'm not wrong in doing this and I will make a show of trust and send you my naked pic to you hoping it will be for your eyes only and you will not show it to someone. I was not comfortable to pose for such pic and I tried to smile, I think the pic is nice. I  don't want to chat about sex or something like that, I just wanted to show you how my body looks like... and that's all. Maybe I shouldn't  do this but I will click "send" button and close my eyes! I hope you will be not mad on me because I sent this pic for you, I'm a good girl, really!!!!!!!!!! Please don't show my pic to anyone and please don't ask for any naked pics in different poses or something like that. I'm a good girl and I'm not info taking naked photos! I really apologize if you think now I'm not a good girl... I hope you don't think so.
I'm impatiently waiting for your answer! AAAAAAAAAAAh!!!! I'm so ashamed to send this pic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hello #&$*@*$!! How are you? I'm ok!!!
I just returned from my work. It was my last day at work, they tell that there are so sorry that I leave them and they have great hope that I will return back one day soon I have told not any promises. My boss is very nice woman and she is really sorry that I leave them she says that I am very good worker and she thinks that she will have problems to find different girl like me to work. But she understand that I want to leave this country because of so many problems for young girls here and every days there are new ones because of finance crisis here a lot. I told my friends about you and everybody said they will cross one's fingers for us and they hope you are a good man and we will like each other! to be fair I feel myself so sad... I will miss my work... I almost cry now... anyway I don't want to make any steps back and I want to continue my arrangements. Please forgive me but today I have not time to write long letter again. After sending this email I will go home, take my packed bags and go to Krasnoyarsk! It is a nearest big city and there is an airport. From there I will fly to Yekaterinburg! I’m really afraid to fly on a plane! I hope my plane will not fall down! I'm really afraid! It is several hours from here to Yekaterinburg. I've never been to Yekaterinburg before and I'm so nervous now...I had such great desire to start my trip already.. and now I feel myself like a newborn kitten who has even didn't open it's eyes...I just want to hug my mom and don't want to go anywhere... but I know that's my dream to start a new life and I will try to turn in to reality! Soon you will hear some news from me from Yekaterinburg!!!!!!!! I do hope you are really kind man and will not make me sad!??!!?!?! Right!??!? I’m so exited we will meet soon! I will be able to find a work as soon as I will arrive to you, so I won’t have money problems. You know I sent documents for visa to Yekaterinburg about 2 months ago, so when I will arrive to Yekaterinburg my visa will be already ready!! well, I have to run, I think I will be able to send letter from Yekaterinburg tomorrow but if not please don't worry I m not sure how long I will need time to find rent room and cyber cafe. Please wait for me and don't look at different girls, you know I am the best!!!(joke) and please forgive me that every time I have not time but when we meet we will have a lot of time to talk and you will know all about me then!
I hope I'm the one for you!
Your Yana

Hello dear #&$*@*$!!!!!!!!!!
I'm so excited to write you again!!!!!!!!!! I'm in Yekaterinburg! You can't imagine how happy I am because I already started my trip to you! I still cannot believe I've done it! Wow! As I wrote you I was scared to fly on the plane but everything was OK and I'm still alive )))) Yekaterinburg is a really big city! I've been told the population of Yekaterinburg is about 1.5 million of people! From the Airport I went by bus... it was so long way... about 1 hour and 30 minutes. I've seen so many nice places in Yekaterinburg while going by bus! When I got off the plane in the Yekaterinburg Airport policeman asked me about passport and he looked at me like I am an enemy ))) I think all people here are a little crazy because of terrorism. Everything here is very expensive, not like in my city... and everywhere are big crowds of people! Everywhere is so many people! I feel uncomfortable because of it but I hope I will be OK soon. I couldn't find a cheap hotel, everything is so expensive in Yekaterinburg. Finally I found a place to stay, I rent a room from an old woman. She is about 70 years old. She said her husband died 2 years ago and she doesn’t have money to live, so she gives in rent rooms in her apartment. She is very nice woman. She said I have to be very careful. You know... she said many girls from small cities come to big cities, they are looking for a better future and fortune but because they are from small cities they can’t imagine their way to find the happiness can be not so easy as they thought... and some of them can end up as prostitutes or something like that. She said I should be careful when I meet you!! But I don't worry about it! I feel with all my heart you are really nice man! Sorry I wrote you about my worries.. I have nobody to write about it. My mother is worried enough about me and I don't want to make her worry any more. I think that's really good I've met you! I can write you about everything. By, the way, one more thing about my trip. Agency will help me to rent a room to stay near my future work in your area. I will share this room with a few girls yet, it is usual procedure and it helps to pay the rent (it will be cheaper). And I have a question, is it normal if we will like each other may be it is possible to live together? Of course if you or somebody doesn't mind. Do you have a big wide bed? (joke). Anyway, if you will not want to stay with me it is ok for me to rent a room, don’t worry!!! As you know I will stay there for three months and later if I want I will be able to prolong my trip. I will arrive by my Work visa, so I won’t have any problems with law while I will be working. I think I will be able to improve my English and I think it will help us to learn each other better, who knows. I miss my family... but I'm getting better with every hour )) Now I'm very hungry and I will go and eat something. I hope everything will be fine. Please write me as soon as possible! See you soon! Big kiss from Yekaterinburg!!

Hello dear #&$*@*$!!!
Here is the info, about my flight, that I was given in agency:

Information for Yana Davletbaeva
"Masta Travel", 620000, Yekaterinburg, Vaynera 23,
office 25. e-mail:
Please use our service. Manager: Aleksandr Nikitin
Flight, March 21, 2011
1.  Yekaterinburg/Moscow  S7056 Flight duration: 2h 35
Siberia Airlines
20:50 Yekaterinburg (SVX), Russia , Koltsovo
21:25 Moscow (DME), Russia , Domodedovo
 Change of plane required. Stop duration: 10h 00

2.  Moscow/Madrid  S74809 Flight duration: 5h 10
Siberia Airlines
07:25 Moscow (DME), Russia , Domodedovo
10:35 Madrid (MAD), Spain , Barajas terminal 4S
 Change of plane required. Stop duration: 1h 25

3.  Madrid/Quito  LA6151 Flight duration: 11h 20
LAN Airlines
12:00 Madrid (MAD), Spain , Barajas terminal 4S
+ 1 day
Quito (UIO), Ecuador , Mariscal Sucr

Price: foreign passport, visa, tax, consulate fee, ticket Eco. Class. USD 1590.00
I've got all the information and I'm resending it for you!! I am here after my visit to the consulate and to the agency I am so happy to say we will meet in few days!!!! I am really lucky girl to meet you. Honey the thing is that I booked the nearest possible flight but I have a little problem and I really hope you will be able to help me. You see I never expected I will ask you for such help but I have nothing else to do. You know my mom promised to send me money for tickets by western union as soon as I will find out prices but she was told on her work that because of economic crisis she will receive all the money she saved from every months salary only in a few months. So that’s why she can’t send me all the sum for tickets now and she was able to send only 200$ I have got it today. I was sure my mom will help me because she promised but now she sent a letter explaining it is possible only in few months or so because of economic crisis. I was in the bank to try to ask them a loan but they said I need to have a registration in Ykaterinburg to get a loan from their bank and I don't have it! I think it is not great problem for you to help me. I even hope maybe it will be pleasure to help me because you are my knight, right? I wanted to ask you to help me to pay for my tickets directly but they tell I can't use your help or ask you about sending me tickets because I have a permission to use the help of the travel agency only because they do all travel things and it is their business to arrange all travel things for my trip, such is the law. It is not possible to get a work visa without the help of the agency, they have too strict rules of getting visas. After all payments here and my flight from Yekaterinburg I have about 700 dollars of my own money and I need about 950 US dollars from your side because I have to pay for my tickets and few more things, and I have to pay in advance about 1590 dollars. This price includes all arrangements of documents and everything.  I have to be sure that I will be able to book my tickets or I will lose all the money I gave them in advance. I'm not going to ask one more time for your help, you see I am in such situation... I will be waiting for your answer. I know it sounds like I am a poor outsider but you see I don't have enough time to find the money I need and find somebody to help me, you know my mom gave me all she could collect for my travel. I hate to ask but now I don't have any other choice. I need some help from you, please help me to leave Yekaterinburg and it is all I ask now. Kiss you, counting days and minutes before our meeting. You know it is only money, and I think it is not too hard for you to help me, you see I have such chance only once in my life. I know you are a kind man and I hope you will be able to help me. I promise I will return all the money and I will earn money because I am ready to work as hard as I can! You know my rent address here is Russia, Yekaterinburg, Kuybysheva 50, flat - 88. Remember my full name is Yana - (first name) Davletbaeva - (last name). It is right writing in English, and you should put it on Money Gram or western union list and you can choose any bank in Yekaterinburg, they tell it is international service and I can pick up the money at any bank of Yekaterinburg. They said I can get only Money Gram or western union transfer because I have not any bank accounts in Yekaterinburg and I have only passport and it is enough to get it!
If you need the address of Money Gram or Western Union in Yekaterinburg is
Kuybysheva 12
Yekaterinburg, 620000

Actually I've been told you can send it to any of their offices. I can call you as soon as I receive the transfer to let you know about it. And please after you complete a transfer write me the number of your transfer, I'm not sure how it's call but they will give you a number of your transfer.
Million of Kisses,
Your Yana
P.S. I am not sure I should tell this but I want to let you know if you don't like me when I come I will not bother you and it is only your choice to spend time with me or not. I know you may be too busy, and in any case I will return the money back. I can have a room for rent if I want, a job and I want to say please don't worry I don't want to use you just to reach my goal. I am sure when we meet we will have no regrets about it, I promise. Please, don't leave me alone I've done so much to start this trip and I don't want to give up. And I can stay more than six months, I can stay longer and I can prolong my visa. I want to get to know you better..... to learn more things about you, to touch your hand.. look in your eyes..

Hello #&$*@*$, I’m so disappointed, I don’t know what to do. I asked for help all my friends and family but their answer was "no". I thought that I will never ask you for such help, but I don’t have another way...I do hope to get your letter with words that you will help me because if not I have to cancel all travel preparations and collect things to go home. I can't imagine I am at home again, without any result with canceled documents. I want to be with you so much...Please take me from here, I will work hard to earn money and I am sure I will be able to return all your money and return your kindness. My poor english is problem to express all my feelings I only hope that you can read between words and I very much hope that we will meet each other. I’m not a gangster or a mafia, I’m a usual girl which just wants to be happy. I don’t know what to do. if it was possible to send me tickets I would have asked you to do that. I checked all ways and that's not possible. I applied for a work visa because it's easier to receive this type of visa then for example tourist visa. You country has quite strict rules on receiving visas. Many people all over the world consider your country to be the best place in the world and many people want to go there, that's why the rules are so strict. I should pay for my tickets by myself and bring a check from the travel agency to the embassy to prove them I'm financially stable to make this trip and pay by myself. If you buy tickets for me and the embassy will learn about it they will ask me many different questions as who is that man? Why do you want to meet him? And if they learn that I want to meet you and have a relationship with you they could not give me my work visa. I know its difficult to believe a person who is so far away...But I feel that its something special between us, I’m sure I’m the only girl who can make you happy and I can be happy only with you.. My heart is in your arms...We just need to make the last step to each other....Today I had a dream at night. I dreamed about our meeting! Oh it was so realistic! We laugh and we both were happy. I never had such dreams before I want it to happen in real life soon...I was so disappointed when I woke up in the morning and understood that it was just a dream. But I hope it will happen in real life. I need 950 usd to buy tickets and my only wish is to be with you. I can’t delay my flight and my mum will send us money in two months and I will return it back to you!! I'm sending you a copy of my passport in case you need it. I have my pics on documents!!!!!! I look so surly there....and ugly... I like to smile! It's a pity it's forbidden to smile on photos for documents.  I hope you can trust me more now, I swear I'm not going to do anything to hurt your feelings, I'm an honest girl! You are my only hope and my only wish is to be with you!
Your Yana

Hello dear#&$*@*$,
How are you today?  Please, tell me do you really want to see me? Do you want me to visit you? Do you want be together in the future? Please, be honest with me and tell me the truth. You wonder why I have such a big desire to move from here. The reason is very simple. I have nobody and nothing to stay here. I will miss my friends, but they already have their families and they live with their own lives. I have no stability. I have no family. It is very hard to live in Russia and I don’t think it will ever be better and I am really tired from this life. That’s why I have such a strong desire to come there, to settle down and have a family. I hope that you understand me and that you support me in my decision. I feel shame and offended. I just want to tell you that I am completely serious. I have serious intentions to come to you and I am not going to lie to you. I am not a silly little girl that plays games to get money. I understand that I should settle down already and that is why I am going to move to another country. I know that in Russia I will not be able to have a strong family and good job. I will be unhappy. I asked you to send me money and I feel shame for this. But I had no other choice then to ask you. I went to all my friends and acquaintances. But all refused to me. They don’t give such a big sum of money. My mom should support my brother and herself. I asked my sister to help me, but she had not such money. She is married and has a child. And recently they have bought an apartment and took it in credit. I also went to the bank to check there but they even didn’t listen to me. I understand that it is very difficult for you to trust the girl you have never seen before. Lots of Russian women lied to foreigners. But I am not the same and I am not going to lie to you! I know that it is not such a big sum of money in your country. And I ask you this money not as a present to me, I am going to give them back to you. As soon as I come there and start working I will give you money back. You are really a very dear person to me and I want to be with you and if you fall in love with me, we can get married in the future.  If we are together, we will build our future together. I am not the one who wants to get everything in at once. WE will work together and pay our bills. I understand that family is for the rest of the life in joy and sorrows. I will understand if you decide not to have a family with me, and we can just be friends. I will understand if you fall in love with another woman. You can’t order your heart who to love. I understand that you can like me through the letters but in real life you may not fall in love with me. I ask you one more time, please, understand me and help. I wrote you all the truth in this letter. I am sincere and open with you. I hope that you will understand me and decide to meet with me. I will miss you.
Your Yana           

My dear #&$*@*$,
Like I told you I was interviewed at the Embassy about my visa. I was asked a lot of different questions, like my background, salary, the aim of my arrival to Ecuador and other form questions. Thanks God the interview went well and my visa is ready to be issued. I was so happy to hear such wonderful news, since in fact it means that we have to wait just a few days to be finally together. I would finally kiss you and give you the warmest hug and it would be for real indeed. But I was also told about one stupid thing which I must do. Now they have new rules this rule is not official. I am so nervous and I even don't know how to tell you that. You see I have to show 2000$ at the Customs here in Yekaterinburg and in your country. As I was explained that each person from former republics of Soviet Union arriving to your country should have this amount of money. It is necessary to prove my "financial stability" and ability to travel In Ecuador and to pay for all charges. It is necessity, because many people especially single women arriving to your country do a lot of crime or something illegal. Now the rules to pass the Customs are harder especially after terrorist actions which happen in your and my country.
Now I can pass customs only showing this money to prove. I understand that it is a good rule for your country from the point of view of safety. But what shall we do now? I even couldn't imagine this will be such big sum of money 2000$. My dear, if only we knew about this stupid rule, we would prepare for that. We are so close to each other but we need to solve this problem. #&$*@*$, please understand that I do not need to spend this 2000$, I only need to show at customs to pass it. Unfortunately for example your support letter will not help me. I am now far from friends and I can not expect for their help. And even if I were near my family and friends now they would still not help me because they don't have this sum of money. My dear, now I hope only for your help. I shall pray God about it. The happiness is so close, but I cannot make anything. It is not in my power. if I don't pass the Customs now as planned my visa will become invalid and I will not be able to enter Ecuador during at least a few years. I am shocked and you are my only hope in this situation. We cannot lose each other #&$*@*$, especially now. The positive moment in this situation is that I repeat again I don't need to spend this money, I will only show it at the Customs. I need only show money, I shall not spend it. I am very much worried. You are my sunshine in the darkness because in this world full of cruelly you managed somehow to get deep into my heart. You are really a man and I ask you not to give up. Maybe if you don't have this money you can borrow from your friends for a few days and I will give it to you as soon as we meet at the airport. Please try to get the money.
I know you are a strong man and you will not give up!!!
I need in your moral support!
I am all alone in this cold and angry city and only you are my hope and support!
With all my greatfullness, respect and heart
Your Yana           

Hello dear #&$*@*$, I was in the travel agency and they postponed my flight on next Thursday, March 24, the same flight and the same time of my arriving! I know that probably I am a trouble girl but I really didn't know about this stupid rule. I want to thank you millions of times for everything you do for me and I promise, that you will not be disappointed. You do understand that I am not going to spend this money I need only to show the money at the Customs, right? Please try your best and don't give up on me. I know that all our sleepless nights of excitement are not useless, and our meeting in person is worth it. I hope you feel the same. I knew that you are the right person for me because you are the man with strong wish to love and be loved, the man who does not give up. I know that we are meant to be for sure. You are really  the man of my dream and everything will be wonderful between us. You even don't know how much I was shocked after the Interview. I went out and I even couldn't cry, since it was really a great shock for me. I was just walking and walking.... I started cry when I thought that we might not be able to meet. Crying and thinking of you I found myself near a small and very old chapel. It is very beautiful inside. An old woman standing near the chapel and asking some food or money for food stopped me and said that all problems can be solved and she said that if I go to the Church, I will feel much better. So I came in there. The beauty of this small church is indescribable. You should see it one day. It is very quiet and beautiful. I was there for a couple of hours and I prayed. I went out of the Church and somehow I already knew that we shall meet and everything will be fine. I was smiling already. There was no that old woman whom I wanted to thank for her moral support, but I still remember her words: "You believe in God and He will never leave you!!!" I think I will remember these words forever. I think one day you must visit this church, I am sure you will like it. You are my hope, my everything, darling. In a few days we will be together and I am very happy!!! I will write you tomorrow, please come to kiss me in my dreams tonight!!!
Your Yana           

#&$*@*$ dear, there are too many young people want to leave russia and embassy make many barriers on this way! They think that I want to stay forever and don't return home, my visa is ready but not approved, because I need to show to the custom service and to the visa passport service living minimum for this period of time, it means that I have to have the money with me. The amount is $2000. It is law of passport visa service and they require it to make sure that person have enough money for living needs and will not stay illegally. I have told them that I will work and earn money but they said that it is not their business and it is very strong rule for all persons who wants to leave Russia. In other case if i don't have this amount with me visa process will be canceled. Honey I know that it sounds ugly but again nice thing that all the money will be with me and I will only show cash and I will save it with me and when you meet me in airport I will return all amount to you, maybe I spend few dollars to bye any small gift for you, only 10 or 20 dollars! Do not worry this is our last step and we will be together. I'm not going to ask something yet, this is the last time. They tell it is all I must have and there will be not any problems on my way. I will be waiting for your answer. Remember I do not pay this amount just show that I have. I will wait for your info and I do hope it is last problem on this way, I hate politicians, they imagined so many barriers and borders, why simple people can't just meet each other? I can't understand it! They fly without any problems and we have to pay so much, I can't understand why Please, please, please don't leave me here we have done so much we can't stop now!

Your Yana           

Hello dear #&$*@*$, as soon as I pass have the money for the CustomsI will go to the agency and arrange the nearest flight! I was in Travel Agency and they said that if it is tourist visa the support letter will help but I am going to Ecuador with working visa. And if I don't use this visa I will hardly get any other kind of visa to your country. I am ready to give you my heart and I’m waiting for the same from you! It's so pity that we need to wait for our fist meeting, first hug and first confession… may be if we were strangers on the streets we would not even notice each other? How do you think? If you just saw me on the street would you recognize that I am the one for you? Would you say anything to me or would you just pass by? It seems to me that we must be very happy that somebody created this internet site and gave us a chance to meet each other! I believe that we must be very thankful that through the letters we started opening our hearts and souls without any fear! It is really great that we have such an opportunity to learn more about each other's inside world that is very deep! When you see a person somewhere on the street, firstly you are attracted by the cover, by the beauty or by something indescribable but definitely not by the inner world. That is just with some period of time you are able to find out more facts about the inner world of this person, and start liking it or not.  My dear if I really had the opportunity I would doubt none minute and would come and stay with you, but unfortunately it's not in my power to destroy this distance between us at once and appear near you. I am living here in Yekaterinburg with the hope that we will meet soon, very soon....We are both serious people and we both know that one meeting is much better than millions of letters. You are deeply in my heart and I begging God to give me a chance to meet you. Maybe then we will want to create a family and to be together...

Your Yana           

Hello dear #&$*@*$, I was trying to find some money and I had some luck. I swear I called everybody I know and I was able to find some money but not all. I'm still desperately want to see you! My mother sent me some money and I sold my golden things!!! I need about 1500 dollars now...I swear I called everybody but I can't find more money! You came into my life not too long ago and I didn't think anything of it. At first I thought we will be friends only, I didn't believe in having special feelings to someone I have never seen. I never imagined I'd be falling so hard for you. We became very close but yet we were so distant. The more I got to know you, the more I wanted to be with you. Your letters always made me smile even without writing something funny and without you I'd be very different. I smiled because I was happy to receive your emails. You have changed me in so many ways. You make me want to wake up in the morning to see what life is going to throw at me each and every day. Your emails mean so much to me. I can't help but think about you all of the time. Every morning I wake up, during the day, and before I go to sleep you're always on my mind and even in my dreams I see you. I don't know how it happened… it's so strange for me....I am sitting here in internet cafe and writing this letter hoping you will get to read it soon... I'm listening French love songs on my CD-player and it makes me feel more sad I can't be with you now... The songs really sound so nice to me but I don't know what they mean. It's like my feelings to you....I feel so nice when I think about you but it's so strange because I've never met you...I have built my world around my dreams of being us together and I really like this world... I always want to stay in that world and never want to come back to reality and I hope that you feel the same way too.. I'm not sure.... I really want to come to you but you know I have never traveled so far away and I was not smart enough to set up all things for my trip. I still feel I need you in my life so much. When I was a little kid I believed in Santa Claus (in Russian it's called Ded Moroz - to translate by words it's called Old Man Frost))) I was waiting every Christmas for presents. And when we were going to meet each other I felt myself like a kid waiting for Santa Claus... I was waiting for you.... I remember when I was 9 years old I understood there is no Santa Claus and all presents are brought by my mom I was so disappointed and I began not to believe in fairy tales...And now when I think I may never meet you again I feel my worst disappointment and I don't want this fairy tale to be over...... I pray it will be possible for you to help me somehow. I really like you a lot and I guess there is something more, it is a sympathy for a man from a woman. I wish I knew that everything will be so complicated. Sometimes destiny plays bad and hurtful games with us, but this is life. You are something special for me and I even don't know how to explain and maybe I shouldn't say that. Please let me know if I have chances to get your financial help or not. I need to know this as soon as possible. If nothing works out with my trip, then I will be here in Ekaterinburg for a few more days because I need to try and return some money from the agency and then I will go back to my home town. I have never seen you in person and now I guess I will never see you if you don't help me. I'm still hoping like a kid this may happen... I wrote you so much and I understand I have to finish this email, but in my heart I don't want to do that. I wish that time became frozen this minute before I say my words of good-bye...I want to enjoy every single moment with you, to talk about all of the things we like and dislike...... If I had my own computer I would write you 10 times a day... May you feel the part of me wanting to be with you now and may I have the honor to touch your heart and let you feel my special feelings to you..
Your Yana

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