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Scamming may not be a crime, but stealing money is. I am going to nail these guys, if its the last thing I do. Thank you for fighting the good fight. We should all stand together to rid the world of this scum.

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I was not in the pursuit of buying a bride much less love and had never heard of mail order bride until now. I honestly felt I was doing the right thing because I believed still in all the good things in life. It was my belief mail order brides was all part of old westerns but not something that existed this day and age. Now after research I have discovered that some vile evil persons use that concept to prey on honest singles whose only real interest is to find other serious minded singles in the pursuit and fulfillment of life long dreams and steal their money by making misleading and false promises.


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Ekaterina Romanova (Bryansk, Russia)

I am a divorced father, 40 years old, of a teen daughter employed as a production supervisor for a hose and tube manufacturing company. On August 1st, I decided to give internet dating a try and submitted a profile for approval on Right away I received a few interested parties, none more interested than The first email message was as follows:

Date: Wed, 09 Aug 2006 18:06:47 -0500 
Subject: Hello! 

Hi! I could be that special person you are looking for and I would like to
get to know you. I'm an honest and trustworthy woman. Here ' s a little about me. I'm 28yrs old. I enjoy the outdoors. I love children but don't have any. I can have a good time no matter what I'm doing. If you want to know more just ask me any questions of what else you want to know about me. I hope to hear from you soon and have a great day..... my email kattymoon78 at y a h o o dot com I ll glade to receive ur email. my name is Katty

Upon first observation of the individuals profile, I recognized the fact that the individuals profile indicated that they lived in Boynton, Va. I was a little surprised that I received interest from someone from another state and in the next couple of email messages I indicated that I was living in Ohio and them in Virginia. Finally, the truth was told that they actually lived in a small town in Russia called Bryansk. Although a little bit shocked, I was also intrigued by the long distance interest. We continued to email for several weeks providing each other with personal information about families and such. She indicated to me in an email that she lived with her parents in a cosy apartment and that her fathers name was Alexandr (51 years old) and her "mum" Julia (49 years old). I also mentioned to her about the substantial difference in age (her 28, me 40) and the individual indicated to me that they prefer men of age because we are wise and mature. I also indicted about me being of American decent and her of Russian decent and the individual indicted that they found the American way of life interesting because of our different culture, thinking and traditions. After about 6 emails back and forth, the email messages began to play more on my emotions because for the first time the individual sent me "gentle kisses" from them and they indicated after every email message how much they missed my emails and how close we were becoming. The money issue came into play after about 3 weeks of correspondence and it was written as follows:

Tue, 29 Aug 2006 05:34:45 +0400 
Subject: Hi miss you 

Hi my dear! I am glad to welcome again you and I with impatience wait, when I can tell to you HI - personally. Thanks for your message. Don, my day was very intense and is very tired. I reached in office of agency and signed with them the contract. In conformity with the contract, the agency will prepare me for all documents for travel, to buy for me the ticket and to deliver me to the plane. From my city there are no planes to you and consequently I all
over again will need to reach to Moscow, and there from already to you. My agent needs some information for a route of the plane, inform me dear, the address and the nearest airport to you to which I shall arrive. This informationis necessary tomorrow that the agent could develop route and to establish all cost of travel. Today I paid in him the first part of money, for the visa and other documents for travel. It was in sometimes more, than I thought. I planned, that the visa will cost for me about $200, but because of difficulties for its reception is was forme $700. dear, it is possible, that to me you will be required thehelp for payment of other part of cost of travel. I have some money still, and also took some money at my parents, but it is possible them will not suffice for payment of the second part of cost, for insurance and tickets. It will be known after the agent will develop a route. The second part of cost I should pay under the contract, before to take away the visa. I shall inform you Don, if to be necessary for me the help. I hope, that it will not be a problem for you and I can not worry about it. I informed you all news about promotion of our meeting and now I go to have a rest, I am very tired today. I hope, what I can soon embrace you Don. I wait for your messages my favourite . My kisses and embraces! Your Katty. P.S. Do not overlook to inform the address and the near airport.

The following email messages contained information in regards to flight information for our first meeting. I confirmed all the flight information on the internet and it was all authentic. The individual indicated to me that they incurred unexpected expenses in getting the visa and travel documents and requested my help in payment. The amount of money that was requested was $1250 dollars. Initially, I was hesitant because for one thing I didn't have the money available and I was a little bit weary thinking that the individual was just using me to get into the United States. They reassured me that they were not using me and that their intentions were genuine. Instead of wiring them money via "Western Union" (as instructed) I recommended that I purchase the tickets and send them to them or I even suggested that I send them my credit card information and they pay for the ticket with my credit card. They said that a credit card would not be accepted at the travel agency from an outside source and the only way that they could get the money was through a wire transfer. I decided to wire the money on September 6th and the very next day the individual proclaimed their love for me and that they appreciated the money andthey would be on a flight to the United States on September 17th. 

I received my final email on September 13th and it was as follows:

date: Wed, 13 Sep 2006 02:42:52 +0400 
From: "katty" <> 
Subject: Moscow 

Hi my favourite Don! How has passed your day? I - OK, have reached up to Moscow well, only I have small exhaustion, because I not could fall asleep in a train. I was prevented by this awful noise from wheels. Now I in Internet - cafe, was good, that it near to my hotel. This hotel small, but here it is cosy and inexpensive. Only the airport is on other side of Moscow from here. I shall reach tomorrow there behind my ticket. Today I feel tired for this purpose. To me it would not be desirable even to go in the center behind purchases today. Now I shall take a walk on shops near to hotel also I shall go to have a rest in hotel. If I not I can fall asleep, today later again I shall come here, that to check your messages. I shall write to you in more detail about all later, lovely. I very strongly wait for that moment when we shall see each other for the first time. I present as I fall in your embraces. I always dreamed of the man, courageous, strong and not afraid of difficulties. I at last have found this man, it you. Now I need to have a rest. I wait for your messages! I LOVE YOU !!!! My gentle kisses for you Don!!! Yours Katty.

I emailed them for a few days and received no response. I actually thought that something awful may have happened to the individual or that they had changed their mind. I finally called Western Union to see where the money was actually received and that's when I found out it was in Yoshkar-Ola. That's when I knew that the scam was on! The individual that I was dealing with was a pro and at no time was I under the impression I was being scammed. Unfortunately, I didn't discover the scam report website until it was too late. I don't want the same thing to happen to someone else that has happened to me.


Elena (Yaroslavl, Russia)


My name is Hermann I am a 54 years old single living in Giessen , Germany .

I am employed as technician for housing administration.

Through I was looking for a female friend, activity partner or even marriage I made membership in LavaPlace. # KD 68719

There I have found many contacts, among those there is one contact I have to tell you about.

I became suspicious when she told me from Western Union , therefore I had never heard before from this system I started investigation in internet. This has confirmed my suspicion.

I write this to beware others of damage because Elena’s profile is still active. 

See the facts:


1st letter 9.12.06

Hello my dear Hermann!!! How are you? I am glad to receive your letter, I want that you wrote to me as it is possible more often! I think that we can begin our correspondence! I really want to communicate with you as much as possible, if certainly you not against. I want that you have told to me as much as possible about yourself! I with impatience shall wait for your following letter!
With the best regards, Elena.   

Send with picture


2nd letter 9.12.06

Hello my dear Hermann!!! How are you? I am glad to receive your letter, I want that you wrote to me as it is possible more often! I think that we can begin our correspondence! I really want to communicate with you as much as possible, if certainly you not against. I want that you have told to me as much as possible about yourself! I with impatience shall wait for your following letter!
With the best regards, Elena.

2 min. later than letter 1 – picture was changed


3rd letter 9.12.06

Hello my dear Hermann!!! How are you? I again am glad to see that you have written to me! Consider that you already have found the friend! I as want to communicate with you! You seem to me that very good person! Your English not too bed on mine it is rather normal for dialogue! What your native language? Inform me please more about a place where you live? If you that will interest that about my life know that I am ready to answer all your questions! It will deliver me a lot of pleasure! I with impatience shall wait for your following letter!
I kiss you, Elena.

2 hours after letter 2 – 2 new pictures


4th letter 9.13.06

Hello my dear Hermann!!! How are you today? I am glad to receive your letter again! Which you have sent a photo are simply wonderful!!! I liked your city! It looks as medieval European city! I live in Yaroslavl , it is fine city, certainly architecture in it not such oustanding as in yours but it as is fine! My city is not so far from Moscow , approximately in 300 kilometers, very clever and educated people live in it. Yaroslavl is one of the largest and cultural centres in Russia . I would be glad if you could visit me sometime. I shall wait for your answer together with your photos, and the greater information on!
I kiss you, Elena.

1 picture incl.


5th letter 9.13.06

Hello my dear Hermann! You are compelled to leave? Well I shall wait for you! If you can write to me from Berlin , I shall be glad to see your letter on my letter box! Your picture is quite normal, so all sleeping people look! As speak at us, in Russia : " That is natural, is not ugly! " I shall wait for your answer I hope that it will reach me soon!
I kiss you, Elena.

4 hours after letter 4 – 2 pictures incl.


6th letter 9.14.06

Hello my dear Hermann!!! I again am glad to see your letter on the letter box! You write very good letters!!! I want to receive from you letters as it is possible more often! Your messages are simply wonderful! I have not much understood from that that you have written in German, but I think that it that that incredibly pleasant! I with impatience shall wait for your following letters!
Whole to you, yours Elena.

1 picture incl.


7th letter 9.17.06

Hello Hermann!!! I am glad that you again have written to me! I so waited for your letter! I am sure that your short letter is caused only by weariness! I understand you, and I shall not write the huge letter to not trouble you! I with impatience shall wait for your answer!
    I kiss you, Elena.

1 pict. Incl.


8th letter  9.18.06

I shall be glad to arrive! My dear Hermann, it will be hard for me to pay one all charges, but I think you as my beloved and as I think, the future husband, will help me! I am right my loved? I think that you true gentleman, and will not give up to me! I adore you Hermann!!! You the best the man, I want to be at you faster! I agree to pay the visa, and you please, find out how many there is a ticket! I with impatience shall wait for your answer!
    I love you, I kiss you, Elena.

1 pict. Incl.


9th letter 9.18.06   15 min. after letter 8

I am glad that you have gone towards our dream!!!! How I have understood, you want to pay and the visa as? It so is unexpected + you is fine! I counted you very good person, but that so good! I am simple outside of myself with happiness! I think that it will be the best way to take advantage of services Western Union, it is very fast, convenient, and is practical! I think that you will agree with me! All that to you is necessary, it to come in office to give them money, and then to send me essential elements which they to you will give! All is very simple! I shall order tickets and the visa in travel agency! As soon as you передашь to me money I at once shall go there and I shall make all! Soon we at last that shall be together!!! I am happy!!!
I kiss you, I adore you, yours, Elena.

1 pict. Incl.


Here my answer to this letter:


it will be wonderful to have you here and so we shall find a good way to
make the businesses in a good order. Please write me all information’s I need
to reserve the flight at the wished times and your name on which they have
to  reserve. You can get your tickets when you go to the counter. For me it
is much easier to pay direct. Also my safety systems block working with
Western Union .
(This I lied)

When you arrive in Germany I shall give you the money for
visa, and if you do not agree to my person, I shall give you enough money
that you will be independent from me. If you want so.



10th letter  9.18.06   1 hour after letter 9


My dear Hermann!!! You spoke that will make all that it was convenient for me, it is much more convenient to me to order all in Moscow itself because this agency gives the action of registration of the visa for two years, at the price of the visa for two months but provided that tickets will be paid in the same place, and payment will be made by cash! It is fine! I shall live at you 2 years! Therefore Western Union very convenient! I think that you will agree with me!
    I go to sleep and I shall answer you in the morning as soon as! I kiss you, and I wish you good night! I love you Hermann, yours


No more contact: 9. 20.06


Lyudmilla G. aka Sofiya Kozhinova - Yoshkar-Ola, Russia

My name is Hermann I am a 54 years old single living in Giessen, Germany.
I am employed as technician for housing administration.
Through I was looking for a female friend, activity partner or even marriage I made membership in LavaPlace. # KD 68719
In follow of a contact with scammer now I check all my contacts with black list.
So I have found the following letter in my Mailbox. After a short study in Elenas Black List I have found nearly the same letter written from

Sofiya Kozhinova - Yoshkar-Ola, Russia

Republic Mari-El
City Yoshkar-Ola
Sovetskaya street
house 150 Room 312
Sofiya Kozhinova

LyudmillaG is still present in LavaPlace, therefore I want Lava Place beware of response I give this information to knowledge. They know how to handle it.

I am glad that Elena's black list has avoid me of further damages now two times within 24 hours. Therefore many thanks. The search is going on. 

See the facts:

From: "Lyudmila" <>
Sent: Sunday, September 17, 2006 3:45 PM
Subject: Hello my friend Hermann !!!!!

Ř Hello my friend Hermann !!!!!!
> I am happy, that you again to answer me.
> I am very close to read your letter and to understand 
> Almost all. It was very interesting to me to read it and
> I to learn a lot of new about you. 
> You to me very much like! I very much want to find out about you more and more and more. 
> You that man about which I dreamed. Even my girlfriend approves you and speaks, that 
> To me very much was lucky. I want that you wrote me the big letters, wrote to a thicket that I was pleased
> To your each word, each letter. 
> I think, that it will be interesting to you to learn better about me. As I wrote earlier, I live with together 
> With mum. She very good mother. At us with her very much good relations and she
> My best friend, the assistant. She the most dear
> The person for me. I very much to love and respect her. 
> We always with it may find common language. I to think 
> That you are good to understand it. My mother to know, that we are copied with each other. I have told her, that from 
> You the letter has come still. She as well as I is very much pleased, that I at last have found such person as you.
> But she speaks me, that I should be very cautious, that me have not deceived. But I see, that you
> Serious and I believe you. At me is not present from my mum of any secrets. We to live together with
> My mum. My father has left from us 5 years back. I long 
> May not go through it. I very much to love it. But at them with 
> Mother recently were disagreements. 
> I guessed, that all goes to divorce. 
> I now to not see it. I to not know at all 
> Where he now. But I very much to miss on it. 
> I do not have brothers. I to have only one sister. 
> She now to live in Moscow, together with the husband. 
> I to not have the computer of a house, therefore I to write 
> To you from the Internet of cafe. There to work my best 
> The girlfriend. I to know her from the childhood. 
> We with her together to grow. I to come to her and there
> To use the Internet, it is very convenient for me.
> At me is much hobbi. In free time from work
> I to like to spend time with friends. I to like to listen
> Classical music. To me to like Bethoven and Chaykovski.
> To listen to what music you? To me to like simply good 
> Modern music which to cheer up. 
> I very much to like to be on a nature. I to like to be in 
> To wood and on lake. To me very much to like camping. 
> I to like to float. Each Sunday together with 
> The girlfriend I to go to pool. I very well swim. 
> In the childhood I always borrowed prize-winning places. To float me 
> My daddy has learned. You to like to float? 
> I very much. I very much to love animals. I have cat Barsik 
> This very beautiful and clever animal. I have brought up her from birth. 
> At her the same character as at me.
> I love itself to think out any tasty dishes and to prepare for them and at me
> Well it turns out. Today I prepared for a pie with apples and with raisin.
> I have thought up the recipe. To love him all my relatives and friends.
> They speak, that better me nobody may prepare for him. It is very a pity to me, that you
> May not try and estimate him. I to think, that he too to like you. And you too
> Would approve my culinary abilities. I very much to love Russian kitchen. I to want 
> To know what dishes to like you? You prefer what drinks? And than you to like 
> To be engaged at leisure? What kinds of sports 
> To like you? To me to like to look the big tennis. And still I love basketball. 
> I to want to learn it is more about you. You may tell to me about the life are more best? 
> I shall finish the letter. If you may, send to me some more a photo. 
> I soon to hope to receive your letter and shall try to answer faster. 
> Bye Bye. 

> your Lyudmila!!!!!!!

Letter copied from Black List:

I am happy, that you again to answer to me. I very closely (very attentively) to read your letter and to understand almost all. It was very interesting to me to read it (him) and I to learn (find out) a lot of new about. I wrote yesterday to you. To me 23 years. My Birthday of January 10, 1983. I want to inform you. Why I search for the man from behind border. Half a year ago I had a boy-friend. But we interrupted our relations. The reason is alcohol. At the beginning everything was wonderful. But then he began to drink alcohol. If he did it only at holidays I would not be against. But he drank constantly. I don't know as for your country but in our country the problem of alcoholism is a great problem. At first I thought that only I had such problems with a boy-friend. But I talked with my girl-friends and they told me that they had the same problems. That's why I want to find a friend not from Russia. I don't want to spend my life with an alcoholic. May be you think that I want an easy life. No, I don't want an easy life. I am not afraid of work. All my short life I work hard. Even when I studied at school I tried to earn the money. During holidays I worked at the post-office and carried post. I don't hesitate of work. The only thing I want is to have a near
me a beloved and strong man. I think, that it will be interesting to you to learn (find out) about me. I live with together with the mum. At us with the mum the very good attitudes (relations) and she (it) my best friend, assistant. She (it) the most dear (expensive) man for me. I very much to love and to respect her (it). We always with it (her) can find general (common) language. I to think that you are good to understand it. My mother still to not know yet, that we to write each other. I for the present to not know its (her) reaction to all this. But I to think, that she (it) to understand me. I to think, that it (she) all the same should tell all. Today I to tell it (her) about it. At me is not present from my mum of any secrets. My daddy has thrown my mum when to me there were 6 years. It is very heavy to me about it to recollect. I would give back all, if only the daddy was a number (line). I to not have the computer of a house, therefore I to write to you from a computer class at university. There to work my best girlfriend. I to know her (it) from the childhood. We with it (her) together to grow. I to come to it (her) and there to use the Internet. It is very convenient for me. At me is much hobbi. In free from work time I to love to carry out (spend) time with the friends. I to love to listen to classical music. Me to like Bethoven and Chaykovski. What music to listen you to? To me to like simply good modern music, which to lift mood. I very much to love be on a nature. I to love be in a wood and on lake. Me very much to like camping. I to love to float. Each Sunday together with the girlfriend I to go in pool. You to love to float? I very much. I very much to love animals. By the way I am very good to prepare. My favourite dish is a pie with apples. 
It (him) to love all mine native and friends. They speak, that better me nobody can prepare it (him). You are very a pity, that to me can not it (him) try and estimate. I to think, that you it (he) too to like. I very much to love Russian kitchen. I to want to know what dishes to love you? And than you to love to be 
engaged in free time? What kinds of sports to love you? To me to like to look the large tennis. I to want to learn (find out) more about you. You can to me tell about the life. I shall finish the letter. If you can, send to me still photo. I to hope soon to receive your letter.
Bye Bye Sofiya.


Natalia Sokolowa (Yakutsk - Moscow Russia)


I am a single father of 3, white American, 39 years old and was contacted by "Natalia" thru American She didn't waste any time, after the first e-mail response she said how in love she was and that she was flying in to meet me. She really is not rocket scientist material because she used the proverbial "I had my wallet stolen on the way to buy the airline ticket and need $700.00 of the $1250.00 air fare cost". Wanted me to send the money tonight via western union to Moscow at some apartment number. Anyway you can all read for yourself.

Hello my friend Lou
I am so happy to see that you have decided to reply to my short email. 
I hope all is fine and you're not too much surprised to see my letter.
I want you to know that I have only good intentions and I have no 
The thing is that I will work in your country for three months or so 
and I would like to meet a nice man to fall in love or just be closest 
I don't want to live in Russia because I have not any chances here,it 
is hardly possible to explain from first time but 
I want you to know my plans.I will work in some clinic as a dentist or 
as an assistant (for the first time) 
the agency that i am going through will suggest me some locations. It 
will be my choice in the end as to what option to go for.
This way I will be able to earn some money and pay for all my expenses. 
I can choose any city or town.
The agency will just help me to get visa and all the documents required 
for travelling and will suggest some places
I can work in as I told you before.
My best friend last year met the man from the USA when she worked
there for three months, too. She had two jobs. From morning till 4 pm 
she worked in amusement park and after 
it she worked as a waitress in some bar till midnight. She was very 
tired of course but made very good money there. 
It is special programm for young people who wants to work abroad and I 
think it is the right way for me ,I am lost here,
and I think that I am losing the best time in my life. I am wasting it. 
I am not saying that Russia is bad, I just think 
that I will be better in a different country and It will be easier for 
me to get a better job in a different country,
it will be easier to find the right man for me, my love! I would like 
to work in the USA, Europe or some other good 
country. I have many aims and I want to make my dreams a reality. I 
would like to share my life with a right person
with the same aims as mine which are the love and care for the right 
I think that I don't have the looks of Julia Roberts or Angelina Jolie 
but I really hope to meet my prince and I am
sure that he will not be dissapointed when we meet in real life. These 
are my plans for the future.
I think I am better to close this sort letter to you but I hope to 
receive an answer from you.
Ah, I forgot to tell you that I am leaving Russia in about 2 weeks (I 
can't tell you the exact information right 
now) and I want to make sure that I found a man who waits for me there. 
I will be working the whole day and I want
to find a man who will be spending his and mine leasure/free time 
together, so we can know each other better this way.
If you're interested in meeting me then please email me back and let me 
know a little more about you and send me your 
I will write more info about me in my next letter. 
I am writing to you from my personal email 
box.( Please write me back here.
I will be checking it frequently to see if you replied or not. I will 
be expecting your reply soon.

Many kisses, Sincerely your new friend Natalia. 14.09.2006

2nd e-mail:

Hi,dear Lou, so sorry last answer!
I must tell you that internet is a new way of communication. You need to know that I am not very good at english,so please be a patient while reading my letter and seeing a lot of grammar mistakes.
I think that you want to know more about my interests, likes and 
dislikes, my hobbies. I also would like to know more about you. I want to know as much as I can. I will ask you all the questions I want to ask in my 
next emails. You answered me from site Americansingles
I live in Russia in a small town, not far away from the big industrial 
city Yakutsk My city is quite far way from Moscow. Moscow is a capital city
in my country. I am writing you from the internet cafee in city Yakutsk
because there is no possibility to use internet in my small town.
We have only 4 digital telephones in our town and we can't call abroad 
using this line.
Even if i want to call abroad in any other city in Russia, I have to 
request such calls from the operator.
I am usual girl. I am 25, my date of birthday is - October, 10, 1980.
I hate getting older every day, when i see old people I am always 
thinking about my future.
I am doing everything to keep in shape. I am working out frequently.
I do a lot of excersices despite all the difficulties in my life.
My height is approximately 175cm (5.6) and my weight is approximately 
All other things you can see by my photos that I send to you.
People tell me that I look good. I think every woman has its own 
I never married and do not have any children.
Let me tell you about some sad things. I think you have right to know.
I never saw my parents. My mother left me in the Maternity hospital and 
I was raised in the Shelter for orphans, but I think it is not a problem for 
you to know that I have no relatives. Russian government helped me a lot,
they provided me with a small flat in the communal appartment when I 
became 18 years old. I studied in the medical university for 5 years and I got 
my dentist diploma.
I think it is hard for you to realize this, but the true fact is that 
it is very hard to live in a small town in Russia. There are no possibilities
to get a good job. The life standards are low. A lot of young people 
leave this town and go to some big cities for better life, but they are not 
needed there. This is why I decided to leave Russia. I know it might sound 
ugly, but this is not the place where i want to raise my children and have a 
stable future.
I want to meet my second half. I don't think i can explain that in 
I am not affraid of working this through. I am sure you won't be 
dissapointed when you meet me in real life.
I will have all the documents for travelling in few days and I will be 
going to Moscow and from Moscow to your place. So I need to know where your 
place is so I can give it to the agency. I need to know the name of the 
town/city where you live and the closest international airport. I will be buying 
tickets while I am in Moscow. Of course if you want me to come.
I think it would be a great idea to meet my love and stay there with 
him forever. I know it is not so easy as it might sound.
I want to love and be loved. I want to build our own hapiness. Mine and 
I don't smoke but I tried smoking when I was younger.
Sometimes I might have a glass of wine, it helps to get relaxed.
I take care of my face and body. This is all I have.
My soul might have a better interest for you in the future, when you 
find out more about me. I think that won't be long.
I am not a little girl and I know that almost all men are looking at 
the body,
legs and face. God created the men like this. I hope you didn't get 
while reading my letter. I hope you understand what my goal is.
If there is something you want to know then please don't affraid to 
I want you to write me and tell me if you understand what my goal is,
what my soul is all about and what I am looking for. If you don't understand me or you think that I am not the right girl for you then tell me so, so I can continue my search.
I have some important questions for you:
What alcohol drinks do you like. Do you drink a lot? Can you be rude 
with women.
Ok, I think I will be finishing up this letter, I think you're tired of 
reading this letter and if you think that I need to make my letters shorter 
then let me know. Please don't get scared if I don't write you right away, probably 
I don't have
much time to visit the internet caffe cause it takes 90 minutes by bus 
to get here to the internet caffe.
Please write more about you, about your likes and dislikes. I must stop 
Kissing you! Talk to you later.
I will give you some more details about my trip in my next email.
I will be missing you, Sincerely Natalia

3rd e-mail

Hi my dear Lou!
This is me again. The first that I wish to tell to you, 
I am sorry, if I have not answered On your questions in letters 
as I have around a head From all occuring to me. I so strongly 
experience, At me affairs much which need to be finished for some days.
And it seems to me, that for this purpose the eternity is necessary,
When I shall arrive to you that at us there will be a lot of time what 
to learn Much better each other, I want you to know how happy I am. I couldn't 
possibly realize how big and crazy Moscow is. I think that it is much more 
harder to live here rather than in a small town. Let's not delay this and let 
me get you the details about my flight to you.There are many requirement I 
have to meet. 
I had to go through some health test which I easily passed. 
Thank God I have no problem with my health.
I do need to take some vitamins to have even better health, but that's 
not a problem. I think that this is because of the bad food product quality
and long winters. I am must eat more fruits and vegetables, that's what 
doctor told me.
I've been to the agency this morning and I was given an info about my 
flight and the costs that are associated with the flight. I really hope we 
will be together in a few days. Here is the info


Information for Natalia Sokolowa
Travel agency "Kapel" Moscow, Balakowa street, 23 office 115
Manager : Eremina Svetlana 
Information about the flight : 
data flight: Monday, September 25, 2006

Delta Air Lines
DL 031 Sheremetyevo (SVO), Moscow, Russian Federation
Terminal 2 13:15 
John F Kennedy Int'l (JFK), New York, New York, USA
Terminal 3 15:50 
Consular fee: 125 USD (US dollars)
Agency assistance fee : 250 USD (US dollars)
Ticket fee: 875 USD (US dollars)

Total price: 1250.00 USD (US dollars)


I am going to pay for my trip now and I will wright back to you after 
my visit to the agency. We going to meet soon, I can't wait till this 
moment comes.
When I come to your local airport, I will call you and will wait for 
you there, so you can pick me up. Or you just come to the airport to meet
me there right away.
If you can't come to the airport because you're working. That's not a 
problem, I can wait for you there until you finish your things up.
I know that it will be the end of my trip and I have no problem waiting 
for you there. This way I have some time to take care of my self so you can see 
me in good shape. All is going good and now we are only few days apart 
from each other.
Ok, I have to go now as it is getting late here. I think I gave you all 
the information so you know what is happening with me.
I am going to the agency now and I will write you back as soon as I 
have some further info for you about my trip.
Gently kissing and huging you!! Yours Natalia

4th e-mail

My honey Lou, that's me again,
I don't know where to begin. It is hard to talk about it. When I went
to the travel agency to pay for my trip. I told you about it in my 
earlier emails, about this big city getting me scared. There are so many people
here, everbody is running somewhere and I think they don't see anything
around them, they don't care for people who are next to them. I went to
the agency by the underground as this is the fastest and unexpensive 
method to get from one place in this city to another one and this became a 
nightmare for me. There was a lot of people, everyone was pushing 
in the vagon. Disaster happened to me, while I was making my way down 
to the agency. The thing is that I always put my money in wallet and I put 
my wallet to my bag. I placed my bag over the sholder and I didn't feel it 
when someone made a small hole in my bag with a razor and nicked my wallet 
with the money. I know it might sound crazy, but when I came to the agency
and this is only 3-4 minutes away from the underground station I 
suddenly realized that my bag was cut by the razor and my wallet was stolen with
all my money that I had to pay for a trip (1250 us dollars to be exact)
I didn't know what to do when I found out about my loss.
I wanted to scream and shout about this. I started to cry. The manager
in the agency tried to calm me down. The manager gave me some meds to 
get me relaxed. I don't know what to do. This was all my money I was 
saving so hard. If i could just help you to get me out of this trouble here in 
this horrible city. I have no one to help me. I don't know anyone. 
You're the only one I could ask for some help. You can possibly help me 
out and I can borrow the money for the trip to you. I will pay you back
this when I come to you and get my job going. I have to pay for my trip
within the next 1 day before my interview as I have to show my flight
tickets and all the documents package to the people from the embassy.
They have to make sure that I am not planning to stay in your country 
illegally and that I have my flight round trip ticket with an open 
This is one of the rules about obtaining visa.
I have some money at my flat which I am renting here in Moscow.
I have $550 us dollars there which I left as my pocket money and wanted
to buy some presents for you with that money, but I guess I am going to 
use that for my flight if you can help me out.
I've been told by the agency that you can use one of the international
agencies that deal with transfering money abroad - Western Union or 
This is one of the fastest ways to send money from all over the wolrd.
I went to the local bank and the manager at the bank explained to me
how these systems work. 
All you need to do to send the money is my name, my surname (first name 
and last name) and I will be able to get the money in any Western Union or MoneyGram agency in all over the Moscow.
We need to make it pretty quick because we don't have much time as my 
interview is only in few days and we got to do it before the interview.
If all is fine then I will be taking the flight which I gave you the info about in my last letter!
I need 700 us dollars. Can you help me out with that amount of money?
If everything will be fine between us I will be able to stay with you 
for more than 3 month, I can stay with you for up to 12 month during my first 
visit to your country and then get an extension to my visa. All I need to do 
is to book a date for my return date. Or I can come back earlier if something 
goes wrong and we don't feel this chemistry between us.
A little more information about the Western Union or MoneyGram.
These are 2 different systems, but they works similar. You can choose 
You can find any local Western Union or MoneyGram agent in your area. 
You need to find it and go there to send the money under my name.
You will be asked for my full name and surname, my address in Moscow 
where I am currently staying.
Here is all the info you need to know to make a transfer:

My address here in Moscow where I am renting my flat

country: Russia
city: Moscow
address: Palkona street 41 flat # 54
postal code: 210309 
full name: Natalia Sokolowa (i hope i spelled it correctly)

As soon as you provide them with this info they will be able to 
initiate the transfer and I will be able to get this money in just 10 minutes in 
But I need to know Money Transfer Control Number (MTCN) that the agent 
will give you in order to pick up this money. I will also need to know 
your name (first name, last name) as you given it to agent for the 
transfer and the location of the Western Union/MoneyGram money was sent from. They agent here in Moscow will ask for this information.

I am really not comfortable sending you a letter like that. My head is 
spinning round, I still hardly believe in what happened to me. 
I wait for your letter badly. I don't know what to do if you can't help 
me. I am really scared. We are so close to each other as we've never been 
and all is ruined by this incident.
I appologize for getting you through all this, but I really have no 
other options You're the only hope. I hope you won't be dissapointed when you meet me. Bye bye!
Yours Natalia



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