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Anna Kulygina - Cheboksary, Russia

Hello my name is Dale I am a 40 year old divorced male. Just thought I would take the time to give you the info that was presented to me by this scam. I originally contacted her through an online dating service on 5/7/2006 her online name on this site was uniquel1970 she contacted me on 5/8/2006 with the letter shown below and ask me to contact her at her private e-mail address which I did and the letters that follow are what she sent. On 5/14/2006 I found out her full name being used is Anna Kulygina and she is from Cheboksary, Russia. While checking out the area of Russia she said she was from (on 5/11/2006) I noticed the warning about dating scams and then found a connection to your site and the blacklist since some of the thing she had said caused me suspicion I decided to look for her info and believe I found it. I continued contact until money was requested on 5/17/06 and then told them to no longer contact me. The dating service was contacted on 5/11/2006 and an investigation was started. No money was lost by me because I was cautious and did not send money to someone I did not know. I was lucky T. Dale 

Letter 1

How are you? It was pleasant to receive your letter. My name is Anna. I from Russia, city Cheboksary. To me 28 years. I shall tell to you about myself a little. I corresponded with the man from the USA before. His name Dave. He is from USA CO. We had a long correspondence and Dave wanted, that I have arrived to him in the USA that I have seen what life there. We have together submitted the statement on reception of the visa in USA! Dave spoke, that will help my in our meeting. I thought, that have met on the Internet the love. I and Dave made the big plans for the future, but in a flash all has changed. From the moment of submission of the statement for the application of the visa has passed 5 months. For these five months there was for what I least waited. Dave informed, that his former wife has returned to him and lives together with him. Soon they should get married. And now in Dave plans there is< BR>no me. I wrote to him some times after that, but Dave have wished me only good luck in the further searches worthy men and have told, that our ways miss And in March to me there has come the invitation in US embassy behind reception of the visa. In the beginning I wanted to throw out the invitation in US embassy. To me it was sad, because my dreams were failed, I have nobody to fly in the USA. But my uncle have dissuaded me from resolute actions and have told, that else there is a chance to find worthy the man and to use the visa to a meeting with him. I well know English and practically I have visa USA. My uncle speaks, that it really solves many problems. On May, 17 the visa will be ready, and I should go to Moscow behind reception of the visa. I write to you because in my heart there is an empty seat. I do not search rich or poor. I search careful and responsible man which wants to enjoy a life together. Is this person you? I think, th at I ask not much. I have told to you a little about my life. I have told not all about myself, but it will be easier to me to write about myself if you will ask questions which
interest you. I have told to you my history, and now I shall look forward to hearing from you with impatience. Write to me! I shall send you more photo in the following letter. I wait you answer.

P.S. For me it is not convenient to write to you through a site. I shall answer with pleasure if you write to me on: 

uniguela @ (without space)

Letter 2

Hi Dale,
It is pleasant to receive the answer from you:)) I very much would wish to look at your photos, even one eye, even for a minute :))) please, apply them to your answer. And if you wish to look at mine, they in
the letter. It would be fine if we could meet and have time together. On my trip I wish to receive rest from my work and from life in Russia. Also the basic purpose of a trip is to find serious relations, I wish to meet first of all the friend, correct man for creation of serious relations which go to marriage. I do not know, what you really search in the future. If we pursue the identical purposes in the future I am glad
that was not mistaken in you. Please, write what have your purposes and plans concerning the future? What do you search in a life? What are you going to do this summer? I shall but anyway write to me back, and I shall tell to you more about me directly. Write me everything, what you want. This my first travel to your country and I worry a little! I have family, but my father lives far from me, I practically do not see him. My parents have divorced, and it is more than mum with me are not present. I have still the
brother, but he studies and works in other city. So all our family is scattered on the country if it still can be named family. For now I shall a little tell about myself! Let's continue acquaintance! My name is you already probably know :)) What else? In a soul I incorrigible romanticism. The supper at candles, walks on fresh air is all there is my big weakness. I adore all beautiful and unusual: flowers, various carved figures, their houses at me huge set. There is at me a dog Chocolate. I live in city Cheboksary, I take a
small apartment. Having read through written above it is probable at you there was an opinion, that I the young and thoughtless girl :) It not so. Simply sometimes I wish to be weak and defenceless, I want, that me preserved and protected. I am ready to new relations, my heart is opened on a new meeting. But I do not wish to play game, especially if these games touch feelings of people. I now hasten a little, I shall write to you more in my next letter. To my regret we have no a lot of time for long development of relations because my documents for a trip to the USA will be soon ready! Therefore I wait for your prompt reply! 

Letter 3

Hi Dale,
It again I! Thanks for photo. You pleasantly appearance! You have a pleasant smile! If you have other photos, I would like to look at it too! I am glad, that we can meet. I was afraid to go one to the unfamiliar country, but now I have new friend - you! I work as the manager on sale of cars. Will agree, that it not female work, but it to like me! What I like to do for pleasure? To read, swimming, go for a drive on snowboard, movies, to listen to music... And it is a lot of much everything, that brings pleasure! What to tell to you about me still? I love a mobile way of life, I love sports, aerobics, swimming. This maximum pleasure when you in water, each section of your body relaxs and strains simultaneously. The even greater pleasure - to feel in the fine physical form. I shall have employment on aerobics. I would invite you to me in a sports hall, but then you will come back home very long :)) And it would be interesting to you to meet me and to spend me home? Such, apparently, at first sight pleasant trifles as light walks in the
street are inaccessible to us. And they do not suffice already :( I would like to be taken place simply with you on evening city, it is a little on to chatter. Before employment I shall come into agency which makes my documents for visiting USA and find out when documents will be ready. I look forward to hearing from you with impatience.

Letter 4

Hi dear Dale!
How your day today? I have good news to us! In agency to me have told exact and final date of issue of visa. I should be in Moscow on May, 17 to receive the visa and all necessary documents for a trip! Also in agency to me have told, that it is necessary for you to write the invitation letter for me. As to me have told, the invitation letter is written in the any form and looks so: 

" Dear Sir/Madam,

I, " your name and your surname ", am writing to invite Ms. Anna Kulygina to visit me in the USA, " your state, your city, your home address " this summer. Ms. Anna Kulygina is an my friend and we would like to spend some time together. Ms. Anna Kulygina will be staying with me during her time here. I undertake to support her during her visit should the need arise. I guarantee that I shall provide her with accommodation and meals. I would appreciate your help in providing Ms. Anna Kulygina with a visa to visit me here in the USA.  If you have any questions, please call me at #.

Yours sincerely,
Mr. "

It is necessary formality for issue of visa, please, fill the text of the letter and send it to me. Also your contact telephone number is necessary because to you can call from embassy. It is an example of the text of the invitation letter and understand me correctly, I do not want to prevent you and to remain in your house. I shall be very grateful to you if you could help me and find an inexpensive place near to you that I could remain to live. And how many hotel numbers cost? I can remain in the USA for 1-2 weeks but if you can find a cheap place for me I can longer remain. Please inform if you can find a cheap place for me. I hope that all goes well at you. I am happy that we shall meet shortly! I shall go for the visa by May, 17. I count date that will be more convenient if I shall fly to you from Moscow not coming back home because the road from Moscow up to my city takes many money. If to choose date of our meeting after May, 17 to fly to you it is necessary to come back home and then again to go to Moscow because only in Moscow is the nearest international airport.  If on May, 17-18 it is good for you I shall be happy to fly to you on May, 17-18! For me this date will be the most convenient for our meeting. You will probably work, but if it so I think, that it will not be a problem for us. The visa is valid in current of 3 months. I do not know, what is the time you want, that I remained with you, therefore I shall buy the ticket of the plane with adjustable date of return flight from the USA to Russia and I can take flight from the USA to Russia at any time. I can freely move on territory of the USA and if we shall decide to take a trip far from city I shall be happy to go everywhere where you will take me. For me it is interesting to look beautiful places of your country. The USA and Russia have set of distinctions. I think that I shall be under constant impression as the small child:)) I the sociable woman with easy character and outlook on life. I love the
noisy companies, but also I like to be in romantic conditions. I think that you have many beautiful places there. I am happy that we shall meet, but inform: 

- Whether there can be we on May, 17-18?
- Where there is the nearest international airport from your house?

Ok! Write to me a few information on you and more about our meetings. I shall wait for your fast reply!

Letter 5

Hi dear Dale,
In an hour the train up to Moscow departs, I have not enough time. Thanks for invitations. When I shall receive the visa then I can buy tickets. Then I shall inform you time of an arrival and number of flight for our meeting. I shall be glad, if you can meet me in the airport. I am afraid to remain one in unfamiliar and a miracle city. I shall be tomorrow in Moscow in the morning. I shall write you more from Moscow! I kiss you and wait for our fast meeting!

Letter 6

Hi dear! 
I just from a train, with me all good! In some hours I need to be in embassy. As I shall receive the visa, I shall go to buy tickets aboard  the plane and I shall inform you number of flight and date of an arrival. 
I shall write to you in the evening more! I kiss you! Anna

Letter 7
Hi dear Dale,
Today I have received the visa. Now I have the complete set of documents for flight in the USA, but I have troubles with customs house. I have gone to learn cost of the ticket of the plane, but to me have told that I cannot fly in the USA because I should have with myself 1500 $ on pocket expenses. This money is necessary for having only with myself and only so I can pass through customs house. It is a pity to me to inform you, but because of this problem my flight in the USA can not take place. All problem in that that after purchase of the ticket of the plane also I shall have with myself only 300 $ and for go through customs house it is necessary to me more 1200 $. I need in your advice. I can fly in the USA only if I shall have with myself 1500 $. After purchase of the ticket at me remain 300 $, but I need still in 1200 $. I tried to find money, but all efforts were ineffectual. It is a pity to me to inform you about it, but I cannot
fly in the USA without your help. To fly in the USA to me it is necessary about 1200 $ and I do not know what to do now? I do not know can you help me whether or not, but it only your decision. If you can
help me I can fly to you and I shall return your expenses back. I should have this money only with myself and if you can help me as soon as we shall meet I shall return this money. Please write to me what to
do in this situation. I could not provide all nuances of my flight in the USA, but I hope, that have not changed your plans. You should not help me but as I have already told to you, I can fly in the USA only
if you can help with this problem. I do not know what to do, but inform what to me to do in this situation. If you cannot help me I shall be to go home. At the airport there is branch Western Union and if you can help me I can receive money very quickly and then I can buy the ticket of the plane. Then I shall give the full information of my flight. If you can help me, please send 1200 $ to me through the Western Union
and I can receive money during short time. For send money through Western Union you will need know my full name:

Anna Kulygina
Russia, Moscow

For reception of money I will need know your full name, home address and MTCN of remittance It is a pity that there are problems for our meeting, but I hope that we will meet. I have applied a copy of the passport on the letter probably it will be necessary at a remittance. Please inform what to do as soon 
as possible. I shall wait for your prompt reply.

Letter 8

Dear Dale,
I understand, that we never met before and we know each other some letters. Probably all this from the side can seem to you too quickly. I till now can not believe, that all this occurs to us and that I halfway in another unfamiliar, but thus the interesting country. I halfway to a meeting with you. I too go on a certain risk, meeting with you. There are many cases which frighten women. There are cases when the man invites the woman in a bone and then takes away her passport. Then the woman goes on street to work as the prostitute. You know about these cases? I have decided to risk and meet you. I want to tell that I am happy in Russia, but I think that there is a place on the ground where I shall be more happier with the man of my dream. Russia the difficult country. I do not run from problems in Russia, but I want that you knew that 100 of men in Russia start to drink vodka and overlook about family and the beloved. I want that my future children knew, that their father is the man which will learn their correct and worthy life.
In the circumstances, I can not cope one. The visa is a good way to get acquainted with you, with your country and to try to develop our relations. I shall be happy if we use this visa to our meeting and develop our relations. I understand that it is the big sum to send, but I the fair woman and shall not deceive you. Money do not do people happy. For me the main happiness is love and I shall be happy if we can meet.
Probably you doubt of me and in my words. I understand your anxiety If now could appear together I would explain all to you and between us would not be ambiguities. The problem that we are too far apart and this distance can appear a stone between us. I did not want to address to you for the help. I tried to solve the situation, but I can not solve this situation herself. The visa already is valid and every day
will remain per day less for our common time. The matter is that I can not remain in Moscow long because it is expensive city. If I shall come back home, it will take many money to go home and back to Moscow I prepared for this trip some months and if we now can not meet I am afraid, that we can not meet in the future any more The visa is very difficult for receiving and other such chance will not be already. I can make a copy of visa, is probable that it will help you to make the correct decision. I loneliness in this big city and I want, that our meeting took place. I wait for your letter.


Anna Tarsova - Omsk, Russian Federation

I discovered your great website searching Google for the City of Omsk Russia to see where this woman was from. She wrote to me on the website in early January 2006 and soon after that I was contacted by another person from Russia but with, as you warn, too perfect English. I am a single male from the United States, far more youthful looking than my age and would like to think I have some common sense not to fall for anyone scamming out in the real world. I am eternally grateful to the information included in your website and also, highly recommend your Anti-Scammers Guide as a supplement. The people involved in this activity are very clever in deceiving and do prey upon the male psychology. The information below is my experience with a person calling herself Anna Tarasova and claiming to be from Omsk , Russia but her personal ad on Married Cafe listed a location of the New York City area. She initiated contact with me, first RED FLAG, and then like you mentioned in your guide and on your website, a classic textbook case of a Visa scam- falling in love with me within a few letters, never quite answering any questions asked , or if so they appeared to be added. Some letters were not prewritten though and they were the ones most believable to me. 

The money came up from her in the eighth letter and again in about her 20th letter. Both times she asked for $400, but the second time she mentioned how her girlfriend worked at a travel agency and for that sum her girlfriend would arrange for all necessary documents for her visit. She also did not include any bank information in her second request. She also never included a postal address until April 2006 and stated she had no home phone to use. 

I feel I should add that even after refusing to send money she continued to write to me and it was not until recently when I asked about her Internet access costs that she has not replied. She also never once let up on her feelings for me even though I mentioned my recent loss of my fiancť to breast cancer. Please add to your list in case someone else is out there communicating with the same person. 

The letters below are in chronological order ( I numbered them but please keep in mind this is not all of the letter she sent. The last two came recently in April 20006 and she wrote about 28 letters total.) and I have included several pictures, though unfortunately, they are not in chronological order. They are of the same person though. 

Thank you once again for providing this service to the world. While I would never send money to anyone, others might feel compassionate enough to do so and the information provided on your site and in your guides are invaluable. 

Rick S. 


Hello my dear.
Thank you, that you so have quickly answered my message. I was borrowed on work and could not write to you earlier. But now, knowing that you write to me, I shall answer more often to you.
In the Internet - the cafe, have told me, that in the Internet there is a lot of fraud and that you will not answer me.
But I was sure, that if at the person in soul good kind intentions other person feels it. I deside find my love, and person who will be my future husband and friend of heart, life partner and true loven its not easy find that man in here because most of not family oriented. I can use internet in cafe near our home here:)
I want to tell to you a little about myself. My name is Anna, I from Russia. My age - 27 years, I was born March, 17, 1978. I live in Omsk area, city of Omsk. Person lives in our city of 1600 thousand, Omsk - capital of our area. From Omsk up to Moscow - 2555 kilometers. I have grown and studied in this city.
I have received the higher education in "OGIS" is a university. My education - the teacher. From the early childhood I was engaged in gymnastics and very much loved sports, therefore, now I work as the trainer on sports gymnastics in Federation of dancing sports of Omsk area. I very much like my work because people which conduct a healthy way of life here go. I do not smoke, I do not drink, and never tried drugs.
I think, that his health the first of what the person should care is. My growth - 167 centimeters, my weight - 54 kgs. I live in an apartment with my parents. My mum call Svetlana, she works the tailor at factory on manufacture of fabrics. My father - Nikolai - temporarily jobless, he many drink and have dismissed him. But I shall conduct always a healthy way of life, it is my small purpose in my life:)
You ask, why, I have decided to find the person abroad? There are some answers to this question:
In the first - I want to leave Russia because here there are not enough opportunities here again there is much, that horrifies me - terrorism, murder of children, slavery of people, racism and many other things, that does not give the person quietly to live, sometimes even it becomes terrible to leave on street.
In the second - that for me is too very important. At me is cousin, her name is - Alexandra, she has got acquainted with Jon is her husband. Jon from England, lives in surburbs of London. She has got acquainted with him through the Internet. Alexandra has left to him, now she is very happy, she writes to me in the Internet - cafe. She has advised me to get acquainted with the man in the Internet. I want to trust, that I too shall find such person, as well as mine cousin. Probably, this person - you? Unfortunately, it is time to me to go. I not have had time to write all about myself and in the following letter I shall write to you. Ask me anything you like, I with pleasure shall answer your questions. Also I want, that you have told about yourselves... In this letter I send to you my photo, I hope, that I shall like you. And I shall be glad to see your photos!!! I shall look forward to hearing from you.
Your new familiar from Russia


Hello my charming.
I have come in the Internet - cafe and was glad to see, that you have written to me. Unfortunately I frequently can not go to the Internet - cafe, approximately 2 or 3 times per one week. It's very interesting for me to read your messages, from them we are learning more about ourself, and I begin know more about you. Reading letters each other, we start to learn each other better. It is very interesting!!! I long was solved on this step to begin search of the person abroad. And I very much hope, that I should not regret that I have got acquainted with you. I hope, that you understand all, that I write you because it is very important that we understood each other. I well understand the English language because I studied it at university. But for me not all sometimes remains clear. If I shall not understand something in your letters, I shall write to you about it, OK? I was never married and it is natural at me there are no children. I dream, that at me the close person who can listen to me always was. I want to divide with him the feelings and to be always with him beside. I had attitudes with guys, but I did not feel love, I was possible has not met the love. Very important in dialogue with each person to show respect and attention. May be, possible, we will together in the future time, may be I would like to look the marriage too, if you will want this, I don't want to hide this so important fact, but we must to learn more things about each other more and more, it will reasonably and correctly, really? I hope that you will agree with me with this fact too. Please, tell me about this, ok? But in my opinion, again and again, we must learn about each other more and more, I repeat this! Please, agree with me! I very much like to communicate with people, in the company I always find myself in the centre of attention. My friends calls me - " soul of the company " I like to listen to music, but basically I listen to radio. Sometimes I read books and I very much love cinema. Write to me about the interests, and ask me all that want. I do not want to tire you with the letter so I shall finish to write. Look my photo in the appendix.
With the best regards,
Yours Anna. 


Good day my dear Rit.
How at you weather, how at you an affair? I'm fine, I am simply happy, that I receive letters from you!!!
Though also weather all becomes worse and worse, my mood rises each time when I come in the Internet - cafe and I read your letters. I am simply fascinated with you, I shall find out much from your letters and it becomes very pleasant for me, that we learn each other all closly and closly. When I read your letters, I would like, that you were at me and looked me in the face and I looked in yours, That that we write all each other we have told looking against each other. Nevertheless I want to tell to you a little about myself: In general, I so want to tell you but when I start all to tell to you I so strongly worry much, that I forget much. I shall try to write to you a little about myself, that I have not written in the previous letters. I very much love evening walks on park or on a coast of the river. I very much love a nature, I love picnics and rest on a nature. But I do not like those people which litter there where have a rest. I think, that at me is a little general with a nature because my mum told, that when I was born, my mum was on rest on a nature and at her fights have begun. Her girlfriend has accepted birth and I was born on a nature near to Omsk. Sometimes we family go there. I love green color, it involves me with the uncertainty. I like to read novels, and I very much like to prepare, but I want, that the person who with advantage could estimate my cookery was. Still I very much love animals, but unfortunately I do not have time to get the pet. Is a lot of various, that it is not pleasant to me, but is greater that is pleasant to me.
The main thing of that I want to achieve in life, it to find the good person to create with him family, to birth to him children and to live with him happily. The rest for me on the second place. I want will trust beloved to tell to him, probably, such, that I did not tell to anybody. The person with whom I always can share the happiness, the love, the mountain, the good luck and... And it is not important for me, on how many years my beloved is more senior than me because for me and we trusted the main thing that the person was fair with me each other that we liked each other. My dear Rit, I want, that we in the letters each other wrote only the truth and did not hide from each other anything, that would damage to our attitudes.
You agree with me? And now I want to admit to you, that I start to fall in love with you!!! I with impatience wait for day to come in the Internet - cafe and to read your letters. I would like to learn about you more and more and I hope, that my feelings are mutual. I still has not enough time and I should go, but very soon I shall wait your answer.
Always yours Anna. 


Hello my gentle Rit.
Today I very much waited, when my working day will be finished and then I at once have gone to the Internet - cafe to look your letters. I so am glad to see, that you write me such remarkable letters!!!
Recently I talked to my girlfriend and have told to her about you. She was very glad for me and sent the regards to you. My girlfriend is very happy, that I have got acquainted with you. Dear Rit, I understand, that through the Internet it is difficult to understand feelings of the person, but I very much would like, that you could present all that I feel in relation to you. Something unusual, such feeling I had no it to anybody, even whom saw. And now I did not see you, but I am all the same very much adhered to you.
I am ready to read all time your pleasant letters to write to you the most gentle words. Since that day as I have got acquainted with you, my girlfriends and my parents began to speak me, that I have changed.
I began frequently to smile, be pleased lifes, but all of them speak, that I " fly in clouds ". YES, I fly thinking about you, I all time think that would be if we were together, could communicate with each other. Yesterday to me has dreamed, that I was at home and was going for you. Then you came from work and at us remarkable supper was at candles. You were very pleased with that I was going for you.
After that we had remarkable night of love. I think, that you very remarkable person. Excuse, but it is necessary for me to go. But I with impatience shall wait for your answer.
Always yours Anna Tarasova.


Hello my dear!!!
Finally I have an opportunity to come to Internet - cafe to talk with you. I am very happy that I have you.
I talked about you to my parents and they are very happy, that we have got acquainted. They transfer you the best regards. My dear, I want to inform you, that for that time as we have got acquainted, you became very dear for me. I all time think of you and I dream, dreaming of our meeting. I so regret that I have no computer of a house to write to you each day. Still I have not informed you, that I have no home telephone number so you can not call me. But if you will give me your phone number I shall call to you from a public telephone booth. I so call to the cousin, but I can not call too frequently because it costs money. Still I would like to know your home address to write to you the letter, through a correct mail.
I very much want to write all in the letters that I think, but it is very difficult for me to write to you everything, that I think and of what I dream. For me is more habitual to express all my feelings, looking on the person. But I promise you, that I shall try to write to you everything of what I think. My intentions to you serious. You know every day I dream about us. Sometimes I think I am getting crasy as I feel you near. I feel your strong hands on my body and imagine how it would be to make love with you. I at heart the romantic person. I like to sit on coast of the river and to observe of the nature. Since, as I have got acquainted with you, I frequently go on a coast of the river Irtysh. I look at water and I think of you, I dream, that this water has attributed me to you that we were together with you. But all this only dreams.
I like to carry jewelry and good spirits, But I do not have money to such expensive things. I have no phone but when be I could call to you. My dear, inform me of what you dream? Whether you think of me when go to sleep? When rise in the morning? Inform me, about your dreams. Now it is time to me to go, but I shall wait your answer. My mum sends the regards to you.
With love,
Yours Anna.


Hello my dear and unique Rit. Each time when I come in the Internet - cafe, my soul at once calms down, when I see your letter. With each your letter my feelings to you everyone become stronger and stronger. I understand, that you the man of my dream, you call in me the highest feelings from which it becomes very good me. My dear Rit, I want to inform you, that that feeling which you have opened for me is LOVE!!! Rit, I love you!!! Tell me please, it may be not mutual at us these feelings, and I very much would like, that the our love was mutual! I want, that you have answered me my feelings because it is very important for me. I still never in life felt like so. Rit, you are very dear to me!!! You the unique person to which I can tell all ideas and dreams. When I write you the letter, I in soul have something such that it is impossible to explain, it It is necessary to feel. And all time I think of that to see you. I present as you drive me for a hand on a coast as you embrace me, and I feel Loved by the expensive person for me. 
The mother looks at me with a kind smile and speaks that she is happy to see me such what I now. 
I and itself am happy, that again I write you the letter. It is filled with all my love and tenderness to you. 
I very strongly want you to see near to me, but much to our regret I can not yet. I think, that once we shall see each other and we shall open each other heart and soul. If we were together I never would let off you. Also it would be true to you. I think, that you agree with me, that in relations the most important is a fidelity and honesty. I always want to be with you fair and frank. My dear Rit, I LOVE you!!! I have almost laid out to you all my soul and now for me will be very important as you will answer my letter. With me be frank and fair, inform me all about your feelings to me. I shall look forward to hearing from you very much. With huge love,
Yours Anna.


Hello my angel Rit!!! I am glad to receive your letter. It is very pleasant for me to read your letters!!!
I am very glad, that I have such person as you!!! My mum sends the regards to you and the best regards. She considers, that you very good person who makes me happy. Yes my dear I is very happy, but also in too time I very much suffer. I am happy that you are at me and that we are connected with the most pleasant feelings. My experiences are connected by that between us the huge distance and me very much would be desirable to overcome all inconceivable borders, only to be with you. I very much hope, that once we shall meet each other. Yesterday very pleasant dream has dreamed me. This dream was about us with you. I saw, how you met me at the airport and we ran on a meeting each other. We have embraced each other, you have lifted me in air and began to turn me around of yourself, speaking - " I LOVE YOU, Anna " You have lowered me on the ground, I have looked to you in eyes and have told - " I TOO LOVE YOU, Rit " And we had the very first kiss which even has forced me to shudder. After our meeting we have not gone home, we at once have gone on a lonely beach and sat on sand, talking with the friend the friend. We laughed and were very happy!!! And after that, under beams of a decline we made love. But when I have woken up, I have not seen you and to me was very sad, that we not together and have no such happy minutes. Now for me there is a new purpose in my life - I want to unit two souls, I want, that we have met each other. I talked to the cousin and she has told me, that is very glad, that I have got acquainted with you. She speaks, that through the Internet you much will learn about the elect, but it anything in comparison with that you will learn about him when you will meet him in the person.
My dear Rit, I very much want to meet you. Tomorrow I shall go to travel agency and I shall learn all about necessary for me to arrive to you. I shall wait your answer, I very much hope, that you will not be against if I shall come to you. You became a part my life and without you my life will lose the initial sense. I with impatience shall wait for your answer.
With huge love,
Yours Anna.


Hello my dear Rit!!!
I am very happy to receive your letter!!! I do not present the life, without your fine letters. You warm to me soul, make my days bright and significant. I am very happy, that due to the Internet I could get acquainted with such fine person, as you mine Rit!!! I at all did not represent, that I can learn such good person!!! After we have started to learn each other better, at me the desire to see you in the person has appeared. You make me happy, and I know now, when I'll hold you in my arms, when I'll kiss you, I'll never let you go! I am asking myself: is it dream? If it is a dream, please, don't let me to wake up!
Now I know, how easy to fall in love, when two lonely hearts find each other on the long and difficult road of life. My dear, I know, that you can invite me to the beautiful world of love, where we can carry out all our secret amazing dreams, all our desires and wishes. I know, that you can change my lonely life, I believe in it, and I'm ready to travel thousands kilometers, because I know, that you are my soul mate.
My sweet, I don't doubt, that we have love intimacy between us now. I feel how your heart beats despite of distance between us, it beats in a step to my heart now... I know it. Were we created for each other? Now I need only one: to meet you. I have a great desire to do it. I already talked with my mother, and she lets me to come to you. She is a little afraid for me, because I'm still her little daughter, but she trust me, and she gave us her parental blessing. My father is not against too, he told me that I have my own head on the shoulders, and he said, that I'm right in my choice and he trust me in this. I in the last letter wrote to you, that I shall go to agency and I shall find out all about arrival you. I was in agency and have learned, that it is necessary for me to issue the visa, the foreign passport and the insurance.
To me have informed, that on all these documents it is necessary for me 435 $. My mum has told, that can help me with 35 $, but I do not know, where to me to take 400 more $. We with mum long thought where to take the stayed sum of money, but what variants at us are not present. She has asked all our familiar, but nobody can help us. I cousine has informed me in the letter, that I can ask to help you to me with money. She has advised to use the Western Union. I went in bank and have learned the information on a remittance. The information which is necessary for you that you could send me a remittance:
Country: Russia
City: Omsk
First name: Anna
Last Name: Tarasova
Bank: Branch of Open Society Bank " Menatep SPb ", 
Street. Barrikadnaya, 20
Post code - 644099.

In bank to me have told, that it is necessary for me to know your full address, a name and a surname and ten-place number of transfer of money - MTCN. My dear Rit, I very much hope, that you can help me with arrival you and very soon we shall together!!! It is necessary for me 400 $, I very much want, that you have helped me with this sum and have sent me a remittance through the Western Union. As soon as I shall come to you I I be employed also shall compensate to you all expenses. I very much love you also I do not present the life without you!!! When we shall be together, we shall be happiest people in the world!!! I dream about you each day. I still never was such frank, as with you. You are very dear to me, I love you my Rit!!!! It is necessary for me to go, but I hope, that soon I can look to you in eyes and tell, that I very much love you!!! I shall wait for your answer.
For ever your angel Anna.

P.S. I LOVE YOU Rit!!!! Forever!!!!


The following letter almost had me convinced she was truly interested in me and for real. 

Hello my sweet Rit!!!
I am very glad to read your letter. You ask about our culture, When we want to ask as whom affairs,
We ask " AS LIFE? " Or " AS YOU? " Lovely mine Rit, I very much would like to you and to be only with you. Communicating and corresponding with you I have understood, that you are necessary for me only and who more. I HAVE VERY MUCH GROWN FOND of YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yes, I the trainer on track and field athletics. I learn the pupils to go in for sports and love sports. All my pupils very much try and achieve good successes. I very much am proud of them. I was not in St. Petersburg, but I know, that there really there is a Hermitage. As to my clothes yes I like to shop, But with my salary it is very difficult. As I earn very little. I do not look fashion magazines, I put on as to me to like. You see behind a style not so that is easy to go in one leg. My parents asked me to send the regards to you. They are very glad, that we like each other. My mum speaks, that when did not see me such happy. That photo where I in a black dress it I per day birth of the girlfriend. It was already almost a floor of year back.
My dear Rit, I very much want to be with you. It is very a pity, that the distance does not give us to meet. I VERY MUCH LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yours Anna.


Hello my angel Rit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I AGAIN AM GLAD TO RECEIVE YOUR LETTER MY SWEET HONEY RIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I ADORE YOU MY PRINCE RIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I ALSO VERY MUCH VERY MUCH VERY MUCH VERY MUCH VERY MUCH VERY MUCH MISS ON YOU MINE RIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I dream of that day when we with you can be together also we can LOVE each other really!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I SHALL GO FROM MIND WHEN I THINK OF YOU MY PRINCE RIT, I present in ideas as we shall meet you and at last that we shall BE HAPPY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I think of that how many happiness will be in our hearts, when we with you my sweet Rit, can give each other KISSES AND EMBRACES OF PASSION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I DREAM ONLY Of YOU MY ANGEL OF LOVE RIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AND WITH IMPATIENCE I WAIT WHEN there WILL COME THIS INSTANT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My mum also is very glad that at us with you everything is all right, also wishs good luck us with you happiness and only happiness!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE YOU MY SWEET ANGEL RIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! On it I finish to write and with impatience I wait your answer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 


Hello my dear Rit!!!
I too become very happy when I read your letters. I usually spend the day as well as all others. I wake up at 6.00 I accept baths, I drink coffee and at 8.00 I go for work. When I come for work all my pupils welcome me. Then I show them gymnastic exercises for limbering up. And the ambassador they are engaged everyone on the shells. I go and I help them that they improved the skills Also did all without mistakes. All my pupils very much like to be engaged in gymnastics. At 13.00 - 14.00 break for dinner.
At this time I go in internet cafe and I read your fine letters. Then I write you back. At 14.00 I come for work and I continue to help the pupils. My working day comes to an end at 20.00. I go home where I have rest. On days off I and my girlfriend we go to cinema or we walk in park. I marked the birthday in a circle of family. As I have no money to arrange a party. I have thought of desire in the day birth and this desire was " That you and I were together " Forgive me but I need to go for the work. I very much miss your letters. Write to me as soon as can. 
Yours and only your bride Anna.


Hi my lovely Rit!
I am very glad to read your letter. I very much miss and constantly I think of you. I very much would like to be with you. But I am afraid that because of distance it very difficultly. I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Forgive me for such short letter. I need to go. I shall write to you on Wednesday. 
Yours and only yours Anna.

P.S: I nearly have not forgotten. My home address: Tarasova Anna
Omsk area
City Omsk
Street Dmitrieva 3-107
Post code - 644123

Elena Chernova - Omsk, Russia

I received an unsolicited email in my account. I am single, 33 years old, Caucasian Canadian, employed. It was from userid "eluvs". Fortunately, I did not have enough money at the time, and a few things just seemed a bit off with the corespondence. When I viewed your site, I was saddened to see how common this scam is, but because of other people's great postings, managed to find out that this "person" has done this before. Below is the correspondence between us. 

Note: She really seems genuine and nice, but is full of it.

FriendFinder Email:

I even donít know what to start with as it is the first time I ever do this. I am sure that others would write many good things about themselves. I am not going to do this. The time will show who I am and you will get a good idea if we start and continue our correspondence. I just want to tell you that I really liked what I have seen and read about you. I think you are just an amazing person. And I wish you could give me a chance to get to know you better. Perhaps, I should tell you some words about myself. I am 28 years old. I have a higher education but do not work on my specialty. I have really many interests. I am fond of reading ( most of all I like Russian classical Literature ). Music Ė it usually depends on my mood, but listen to everything from pop to classical music. And there are really many other things which interest me but I will tell you about it in my next letters if you want me to. Unfortunately, I canít tell you anything about my family. And I am very sorry to say that my parents dies in a car accident. I donít like to talk about this. Perhaps, one dayÖ when we luckily become close people. And my biggest dream is to have my own family, to feel complete. My husband will always be on the first place for me and I will do my best to make him the happiest in the world. I will give him all my care, my love and tenderness. You know, I am a very family oriented person. I like to have a cosy home, I am very good at cooking, I like to spend evening at home and just enjoy the company of my beloved people. Also I would like us to go to
many different places and to share impressions. I donít want to be lonely any more. And perhaps, you are also tired from loneliness. So we can try to get to know each other and see if we could be those two halves in one whole. Feel free to ask me any questions you have. I will answer them with pleasure.
I am looking forward to your reply.
Have a good day!!!!!

*My first tip that something was wrong was when I returned to FriendFinder several weeks into our discussions, and found this message in my mailbox.

System notice: The body of this message has been removed as this member appears to have been abusing our terms of service. By blocking this member's message, we reduce the incentive for future abuse and thereby provide a better overall experience for our members - we apologize for any inconvenience 

*I was disturbed by this, so I contacted's system guys to see what was going on. 

Friendfinder's Response:

Dear Member,

Thank you for your email. 

The email you received was to inform you that we noticed an outgoing email from a member that was in non-compliance with our terms of usage. Basically this member is trying to have you send money, and swindle you out of cash thanks for reporting this member the account has been removed and marked as fraud. We take very serious our obligation to our members and created a terms of usage to help ensure a better experience for our members.

Friendfinder, Inc. has a stringent policy in regards to email abuse such as spam, as well as other types of abusive and/or fraudulent behavior. 

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*Now, here is the whole email correspondence sent, including the fallout when I confronted her about the revelation that she was a scammer. Fortunately, I was not bilked of any money, but just time and heartache.

Letter #1

Hi Rick,
Forgive to me, I to not write to you earlier. I was in hospital. Because had cold, and I could not answer you. If you have overlooked, I wrote to you on If you do not remember me I write to you the last letter. And you to answer me I has put this letter below - look P.S. I any more a member of this site. Therefore I shall try to tell more about myself. I saw your add and should say you are a very interesting and attractive man. I wish I could have a chance to get to know you. Hope you will give me this chance and will write me more about yourself. And now I will give you an idea of who I am. My name is Elena. I am 28 y.o. I live in Russia, in city Omsk. It in the center of Siberia if you want to see it on a map. My weigh is 62(125f.) kg. My height is 175(5.7f.) centimeters. I think you will have a better idea of me looking at my pictures I am attaching to this letter. I have never been married and have no children.
I am slim and in a good shape. I am fond of jogging to keep fit. You see I live in the on surburb of city.
So it is very convenient for me to do it in the morning or in the evening. I enjoy the fresh air and the nature around me and at the same time keep my body fit. I work in the restaurant every second day as a waitress and have to go to the city. I have to earn for my living as I have nobody to take care of me. I have to survive in this big and cruel world myself. I lost my parents in a car accident. I donít like to talk about this as it still hurts me very much. I can say that I have many interests and I enjoy life as it is.
I always try to find something good even in bad situation. I just love this life and want to live a complete full life. The only thing I really miss in my life now is a close person. A person who will allow me to lay my head on his shoulder and to tell him everything what is inside of me, in my soul. I want to love and to be loved. I want to take care of my beloved person and devote all of myself to him. To see his smile and be happy just because of it, to love everything in him. Just to love his as he is with all his advantages and disadvantages. We are not ideal and we are interesting because we have disadvantages which make us differ from each other. I have attached to you the pic, I hope, I shall like to you. It is made in the this winter, but I have not changed. I now look as on a photo!!/ I think I should close here. I use an internet cafe as I donít have my personal computer and phone at home. Please, donít worry if you donít get a letter from me. I will write you in a day as I have to go to the city to write you. Will be waiting impatiently for your reply.
P.S. My leter have sent to you on

Letter #2

Hi Rick!!!
I am very glad to receive your answer!!! I shall write more to you hardly later, in a day or two. I sent you the letter approximately one week ago, it was the answer to you. But it has come back. My server did not work, and I could not send you the letter. Now all works well, I so think!!! And you can write to me letters. If you receive this letter answer me. That I knew, that all works well. If you wrote letters, and it came back to you? That send to me once again the letter. If your letter has come back, try to send it once again, but little bit later. Failures of a server are time. I shall wait the answer from you. I have created new email for you. Because my old sometimes has failures in work. Therefore you can write
on both email the address - old -, or new - It is made if one of email addresses does not work, write on another!!! 
I shall wait your answer.

Letter #3

Hi, dear Rick!!!
I am so happy to get a reply from you. Your letter captured me and forgot about the time reading it. You can name me Lena or Len. This my short name. So everyone name me. I didnít have a goal to find someone abroad. I just came to the internet cafe to find some necessary information and saw you. And I decided why not to try? Perhaps that is a chance for both of us? I canít say that all men in Russia are bad. There are good and bad people in any nation. But most of Russian men are very spoilit with women. And they donít care about our feelings. Sometimes they are very rude and the main problem here is that they drink too much alcohol. And I dream to find a caring, tender and understanding man. And at this moment in my life I have to take care of myself alone. I work as a waitress to survive. Though I am a teacher in a primary school by profession, I have to work in the restaurant. It is hard to find a job on the profession and even if I have one, I will have a very small salary. I worked for some time as a teacher
in the local school. But my salary was so small that I even couldnít pay my bills. But in spite of it, I enjoyed my work. I like to work with the children. They bring joy and happiness into our life. I speak English rather well as I have been studied in the Institute for 5 years.. I am sorry for confusing you. I really live in Russia. But I had to write that I am from USA to register my profile at FF. I tried many times but always got refusal. I donít know why. That is why I decided to risk and to write that I lived in America. And it helped. I hope you are not offended. And hope that you will continue corresponding with me. If it is so, I will continue to write you. I would like to ask you. Why do you look for a woman? I think you are a person with a big heart and open soul and you shouldnít have problems with it in your country. Well, I hope to hear from you very soon. Elena
P.S. I will try to send you my pictures with each letter if there
are no problems with the scanner in the internet cafe. 

Letter #4

Hi, my dear Rick,
I am in the Internet Cafe and there is no message from you. I am very upset but I can understand if you are busy and you just donít have time for writing. Internet is a very good invention. It gives an opportunity
to meet your soulmate even being on a distance. I would like so much to meet with you in real, to see your eyes and to sink in them, to feel your warm touch... Well, this is a dream, a very sweet dream. Perhaps, I could come to your place one day... Who knows what life prepares for us. I am not the kind of person who likes to waste time. I never feel bored and you will be able to feel this with me one day. I want every day to be a celebration. I know that life is difficult and thatís just impossible. But my beloved man will feel that every day for him is a holiday. I will do my best for it. I am fond of cooking and you know, I am rather good at it. I will cook something tasty for you one day if we meet and we will enjoy our time together.  As for my other interests, I am fond of reading, watching movie ( I prefer comedies and love stories ), music ( I like country music very much and also some pop singers like Madonna ). I like to meet my friends and spend time with them or go somewhere to the countryside. I wish you could experience this with me. I am a very active and energetic person. And I like red color very much, that is a color of passion and love. Tell me, please, about your likes and dislikes. 
I will be waiting forward to your letter.
Have a good time. 

Write me on or

Letter #5

Hi, sunshine Rick!!!
That is such a happiness to see a letter from you. I realized that I was smiling when I noticed how people in the Internet Cafe looked at me. Internet Cafe here is just a place where different people who donít have their personal computers come to find some information or to write a letter as it is in my case. They just pay money and feel free to use computers as long as they want. It is so easy for me to write you like I have known you for ages. I can tell you everything and have a feeling that I can trust you. Though I am rather picky about people and it is not easy for me to trust. I feel that I can do it with
you. I can be sincere and open with you like I am. I hate lies and when people are dishonest. I would like to ask you what you think about treachery. In my opinion that is awful and it hurts so much to know
that a close person lied to you. I will never hurt anyone like this. And hope to get the same in return. Would you like to get to know a little about my city. It is very cosy and green. We have beautiful parks here and flowers are blossoming in spring. It is so romantic to walk there when the stars are shining and when your beloved person is together with you. Are you a romantic person? Do you like animals? As for me I just adore dogs. They are very faithful and give you their love without any conditions. I have friend Natasha. She has camera. It she did all photos which I to you sent. And then I the scanner it. I can make for you some sexual photos if you want? Well, I will close here for now and will be waiting for your
next letter impatiently. 
Have a wonderful day!
P.S. You know I would like to send you a handwritten letter and some surprise. Hope you donít mind? Thatís why I need your mail address. Please, send it to me next time. Ok? Here is my address if you would like to do the same.
Elena Chernova,
Danilin str.,-6, apt.,-11,
Omsk, 644015, Russia. 

Note: Never got any handwritten letter, nor any 'surprise' from her

Letter #6

Hi, my sunhine Rick!!!
I am sorry, that I have not written to you earlier. I could not, because should work much. Now I shall write to you in a day. You are the ray of light in my life. I got up and had a happy smile on my face. I was thinking of you!!! I have one request for you. Can y ou send me some favourite pictures of yours? 
I would print them and hang on my wall to see you every time I get up and go to bed. I have made for you 2 sexual photos as promised in the last letter. I hope it to like you, and you do not condemn me for this act. I only wanted to make to you pleasant. I had a wonderful dream last night.. We were there together with you. It was a beach somewhere on a beautiful island. There were only two of us. Just you and me. We even didnít talk. We were holding our hands enjoying the calmness of the moment. That was great. We were so close to each other. I was the happiest woman in the word as the man of my dream was with me. That was a wonderful feeling and I still feel that passion and love I had inside of me. Do you have any fantasies or dreams? You can tell me if it is not a secret. I have a feeling that you are the one I can create a strong and happy family with. Would you like to have children? I think this will be a mutual decision. My husband will always be on the first place for me. And if he doesnít want to have children. Well, I will do whatever he wants.  
Take care, dear and write me your thoughts.

Letter #7

Hi, dear Rick!!!
Thanks for a beautiful pics!!! You beautiful the man!!! Thank you so much for your letter!!!!!!!!!!!! I was in a low spirit today. I feel tired.  I work for 9 and more hours a day. And I have to be patient with our clients which is not easy always as they can act in a very rude manner. I get for about 64 dollars a month( if to convert roubles in dollars ). Paying all the bills I have very little money left thatís why I am not able
to buy my own computer. And I canít write you letters very often as I have to pay for every letter I get and send.  Sorry for complaining, dear. Hope you ynderstand me./ Your letter uplifted my spirits. I feel much better now after reading it. Can you tell me more about your country. I am interested in everything what is connected with you. I feel so vulnerable here and even miserable sometimes. People are so cruel and rude. And I am so glad that I have you in my life. You are so smart and understanding. I want to say thank you! Just for being my friend and being in my life. I have not attached for you a photo because I go from work and I have no with myself a photo. I shall send you next time. I promise.
Miss you...

Letter #8

My sunshine Rick!!!
First I want to apologize for my letter yesterday. I shouldnít complain to you. But you are such a dear person to me and I feel that you understand me. In any way, I will not do it any more not to bother you. Your letters became part of my life and I appreciate so much your support. It is not so easy for me to trust anyone. Once I was betrayed with a very close person and it hurted me so much. I was in love but he cheated to me and left me for another woman. It was so painful. But it is already in the past. And we should live with the present. Especially now when we have each other. Though we have only letters but I hope that you can trust me. We already know each other though only through the letters. And I like so much what I see and know. You are a great person and you are the best what I have in my life now. And I feel that I can trust you and hope you will not lie to me... You know, I often imagine us together holding hands, doing some things together. And I think that it is already the time when we can think about meeting. I could come to you to be with you and to see what it is like to live in your country. That is a very serious step. And getting visa for me will take some time. Life is short to waste time. And if you want me, I could come for 10 0r 15 days. But it depends on you. I could Stay for longer if you want.
If it frightens you, I shall arrive only as the visitor!!! That is a chance for both of us. And I think we should use it.  If you like this idea, we can talk about it seriously.
Thinking about you...

Write me on or

Letter #9

My sunshine Rick!!!
I am not receive your answer to my letter. Probably it because of a server? My server on had failure in work. I could not send or receive on <>. If you had similar problems, and your letters did not pass to me write on any my another emails - or on my new -, I have made it specially for you that your letters could reach to me!!! 
Or send hardly later the letter on These are time failures. I shall give your answer.

Letter #10

My dear Rick,
I have been thinking about you the whole night and morning today. I was not able to sleep. I have so many thoughts about you and us in my head that it drives me crazy. I canít recognize myself and it seems to me so unreal. But I feel it, really feel it inside. I canít live without your letters. Every day is like
torture for me when I canít read a letter from you. I want to be with you, I want to feel you with every
part of my body. I want to kiss your lips, your eyes, your hands. I want to make love to you, I want to be
with you when you are sad and happy. I want to hold your hand when we sleep. I want to cook breakfast for you, to spend weekends with you, to wait for the time when you come from work. I want to have family with you. I want to have ďUSĒ. To be one whole. What is it? I think I LOVE YOU!!! Please, donít be scared with my feelings. I just canít pretend. I love you and I want you to know it. My love is so big that it is enough for two of us. I want you to love me so much. I even feel physical pain as I want to be with you now so much.  I wish to get into the plane right now and to appear into your hands... I got to know, dear, that I would be able to get a tourist visa to come to you. That is just a matter of time. I will have to do some paperwork to get visa, to pay for it and to buy air tickets. I will do all the paperwork without problems. The only thing that worries me is money. You know that my salary is not big. And I hope you will be able to help me. I hope so much for your understanding. Please, let me know what you think about this. Love you, love you, love you...
And so awfully miss you!!!

Write me on or or

Letter #11

Dear Rick,
Perhaps that was not right from my side to be so sincere with you. But I donít want us to have any
secrets from each other. We shouldnít hide our feelings. I understand it is difficult to believe in this. But
this happened and I canít change anything. I like this feeling and I want you to feel it also. I know some people who have found each other through the Internet and they are very happy now and they have their
own families. This is what I also want. If we also want to be happy we should make some attempts. 
I could come to you at any time and spend with you for about a month ( or stay forever if it is in our destiny ). If it doesnít work for us I will go back home. Of course, I canít do everything alone and I need your help also. We should decide it together. Please, let me know what you think about it. I went to the tourist agency and they gave me all the information about visa. And also they told me how much I should pay. It will cost 196 dollars. It is the cost for the passport for going abroad, for the medical exam and for all the paperwork.  But I need your help, sweetheart. Hope you can do this for us, for our possible family. 
At the agency they told me that the best way to send money is Western Union or Money gram. I visited the local office of WU and they gave me this information: Money transfer: 196 dollars.
Money amount should be send in words or figures.
You should write the full name of the receiver and receiver's full address.
You will need my full name for this:
Elena Chernova.
I need the full name of the sender and full address ( I will need it ).
It is also necessary to know MTCN ( Money Transfer Control Number ),
it consists from 10 digits and Expected amount.
Dear, I hope we will be able to manage with all this. Be sure, I will do everything for us. 
Hope to hear you very soon. 
Miss you.
P.S. You can send money to any Western Union of my city. Write me on

Letter #12

My darling Rick,
This is not the most pleasant thing to talk about. But I have to. I understand and listen to you. But you
should also try to understand me.  I do everything what depends on me. Perhaps, you know that many people want to leave Russiaand all of them need to get visa. And if I donít pay nobody will look and pay
attention to me at the Embassy. All the paperwork will be done rather quickly but only when I pay for visa. That is the only problem I have at the moment. And I need to pay for visa in some days. If we donít, we could forget about my coming to you as the time will pass. I want to see you so much and I hope you can understand me... It is a problem to find someone with the phone. It is very expensive and luxury so not everyone can afford to have it. So I still canít find the way for us to talk. I am sorry. I am able to get visa for 1 week. It will be very fast!!! I would arrive to your place as soon as I get visa!!! Or we can do it in the way which is more convenient for you. But you should understand that I ask you for money as I have a very good chance now to get visa without any problems. In other case I willl be not able to get it for long time. And we will not meet with you then. You can send money through Western Union:
Lermontova, 20
Omsk, 644024 , Russia.
Sportivny proezd, 5a
Omsk, 644042, Russia.
It is not far from the place I work. I need only $196. 
My full name is Elena Chernova.
I will need 500 dollars for the tickets, but these it is not necessary at once. First of all I need to get visa and for this purpose I need 196 dollars. I need it by all means. Only having visa, I can buy plane tickets. Nobody will sell me the ticket without a visa. Thatís why send me money , please, for visa. I have met you. I love you and I donít want to lose you now. I just canít... Please, listen to me. Thatís shame for me and I feel so confused to ask you this. But you are the only person I can ask for this. You know that
I have nobody in my life except you. My sweetheart, please, do something. You know how I appreciate
you and I need your help very much. I do it for you, for US, for our future family with you!!!! You are the only hope I have. I will understand everything and will try to overcome it but in this case we will lose the agency we have now. I love you and I hope so much for your understanding. 
Wait for your reply. 

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Letter #13

Dear Rick,
I have very bad news at myself. My friend Denis yesterday has died. I in mountain. It was the fine person. We together lived with him when were small in a shelter. Him will bury tomorrow. I cannot write to you some days. Please, you write to me. I shall answer all your letters after funeral. 
Miss you.

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Letter #14

My darling Rick,
Sorry I did not write earlier. But you know that I could not, because was on funeral of the friend and I needed time to restore forces after that. Please, do not ask me about funeral because it is very hurt to me to recollect about it. I hope you of me will understand. I hope, you still want to see me?? Also want, 
that I have arrived to you for some days...  When I was on funeral, to me there has come the notice, that I should pay the visa urgently. Or to me will give up in reception of the visa!!! I have made all documents, and I only need to pay the visa!! If I shall not pay to me will not give the visa and all my works will be vain!!! I need only $196 to come to you. I donít rush things. I just have a very good chance to get visa rather quickly and I donít want to use this chance. But I donít have money for this that is why I ask you for your help. The visa is given for 3 months. That is our chance, that;s why I ask you to send me $196. If I donít get money now, then it will be very difficult to do it. This process is getting more and more difficult with each day. Embassy makes new rules every time and they are very strict. That was a wonderful dream. It was so colorful and bright.  I fell asleep yesterday thinking about you, with a smile on my face. And you were there in my dream. I was the happiest woman in the world as you were with me, the man whom I love so dearly. We were in a beautiful place. I think I can call it paradise. You were holding me and I was kissing you softly and then faster and faster. I was kissing your eyes, your neck, your arms, every part of your body. Your skin was so tender and manly at the same time. You put away my clothes and I felt your skin with my naked body...It was such a feeling which I canít express with
the words. It is getting so hard for me to wait for the time when I see you at last, when I am able to touch you in real and to feel that intimacy. I get so excited and that is your fault, honey.
Miss you so badly

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Letter #15

Yesterday I sent you the letter. You have received it? Why you have not answered? I very much want to receive from you the answer.

Letter #16

Sweetheart Rick!
Don't worry, dear. I will find money for the tickets. My good friend will give me money. And I will use this
chance only if you help me with the visa. That is abig sum of money for me. If you really want me to come and to see me, please, do it for us.Much depends on you now. I will do everything necessary from my side. Please, understand me! I am able to get visa for 1, 2 or 3 months. This depends on the Embassy. This time is enough for us to get to each other better. I want to come to you not to marry you but you get closer and to see if we match each other. But if I donít pay for visa now, I will never get it then. I will come to you as soon as  I get my visa. Or at any other time which is convenient for you. You should understand that I ask for money now as I have a chance to get visa without a problem. And later I could not get it. And in this case, we will not be able to meet. I want you to know that I love you so much and never forget about this. I never thought I could have such feeling. It is so strong that I can't keep it inside. It is such a happiness to know that I love and that there is a person who also loves me and waits for me as much as I do. All we need now is to wait for some time till we are together. I want so much to be with you.  I have been waiting for you all my life. And I love you. I am not afraid to tell you this and I am not afraid of my feelings. I know that you are the man who makes me happy. And I know that I can also make you happy.  I am sure everything will be Ok and we will be happy with you. 
Love you, love you.
Wait for your letter.

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Letter #17

My dear Rick,
To me will not give the visa if I shall not pay within the next few days. The ticket will cost $500. I will have this money. My good friend will give it to me. But I need to know that you will really help me with the visa. I swear that I donít lie to you. Please, trust me!!! You are the most dear person to me. And I donít care about the money. All I need is you. If I have the way to find money, I would do it. But I donít know where to take them.Thatís why I ask you for your help. I hope only for you. I donít know where to take $196. So, please, help me. Thatís all I ask you for. I will never stop telling you how I love you. By the way, what is love in your opinion?  In my opinion, love is devotion. It is a feeling when you give all yourself to your partner. When you feel that he is sad or unhappy een being on a distance. And it hurts you when you know about this and you try to do everything you can to make him happy. Faithfulness is also very important. I canít live with a person if he betrays me even once. And I will never do the same to my partner.  Mutual understanding is also a key to healthy relations. When you feel that something is wrong , you should talk about it. It is necessary to discuss problems but not keep silence. I hope We already understand each other very well though we havenít met in real. And I am sure that when we meet, we will do all we can to keep our relations strong. I always dreamt to have a strong family. The place where I can come and feel that my family love and understand me. I hope you understand what I try to tell you. Please, tell me your thoughts about it.
Till our next meeting. 
Love you!!!

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Letter #18

My sweetheart Rick!!!
I feel so bad being apart with you. You are not going to help me with the visa expenses? Am I right? I am so sorry and upset to hear this. Such a pity. Without it I will be not able to pay for visa and come to you. If I donít pay till Tuesday they will just refuse me with it. In this case we will be not able to meet. Next time I will be not able to get visa. I really wanted us to meet and I am was sincere in my intentions. It hurts me so much but I can do nothing. This was the last chance for us. If I donít pay for visa soon, I will not get it. Only thoughts and dreams of you help me to go through the life. I need you, need your hands holding me, need your sweet and tender lips telling that you love me. You are my joy and my dream.
I want so much to make you the happiest man in the world.  I want to love every part of your body, to kiss you everywhere, to touch your skin with my lips. I want us to sit near the fire - place cuddling and kissing. I want us to walk along the beach, to cook breakfast together, to stay in bed for 24 hours.... I have so many dreams about us. Oh, how I want to be with you right now!!!!! I really want to meet you so much. And we had a chance. I could come to you very soon. But I have no way.
I canít pay for visa myself.
I feel very sorry....

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Letter #19

My dear Rick,
There is no letter from you. What can I say? I feel shame and upset. But that is life. I canít make you believe and trust me. And I can understand it also. I canít change anything here except one thing... You know how I love you and I need to see you by all means. I want to prove you and myself that it is real.
I want to make you believe in me.  I will try to find money. Donít worry about this any more. I just canít lose you . I donít want to give up and I will not. I have friends and I will ask them to borrow me money. 
I will try the way to give them money back later. I am ready to have three jobs to find money. I will do everything just to be with you.  The only thing I really need to know that you still need me in your life. 
I want to break this distance between us. I want to love you, to take care of you. You are the man I love and every wall on my way will be broken with my love. Just write me and tell me that you still want me in your life. 
Missing you

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Letter #20

Sunshine Rick,
I have very good news for us. I have found money for visa and for the tickets. So it is not a problem any more. Are you happy? Now I will pay for visa and will be able to get it soon. It will take some time. I will come to you for about 10 or 15 days as I donít want to bother you. I understand that you have things to do and I will only bother you. But if you want me to stay for longer, I willÖI feel so excited. I need you so much. Oh, how I want this day to come sooner when I see you at last. I hope that you donít have any concerns now. You see that I try to do everything I can for us to be together. And believe me, you will be the happiest person in the world. I will cover you with my love, my passion, my tenderness and my care. I will give you everything you want. I will do everything you want. I just want you to be happy. You are the meaning of my life and I donít need this life without you. 
Love you!!!

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Letter #21

Sunshine Rick,
I have not enough time. Therefore I shall write the most important. I want to meet with you so much, to see you at last. I will come to you for about 10 or 15 days. Please, understand that I donít have a goal to get married. I want to see if we really can be together. I have started the process of getting visa. I will
pay for it. And as soon as I get visa, I will come to you, if you donít mind and if you want to see me. 
In any way, it depends on you, of course. I will come at any time which is convenient to you.

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Letter #22

Honey Rick,
I feel so nervous and so excited. Iíve got a letter from the Embassy. They invite me for the interview. That is the last step before I get visa. That is not a problem. I will fly to Moscow tomorrow. As soon as I get visa, I will buy tickets and will get on a plane to get to you. I am so happy. Only in some days I will be able to hold you. Can you believe in this? I still canít believe this happiness. Thatís great!!! Please, tell me the nearest airport I should fly to. Also I need to know where you will meet me. I donít want to be lost in a foreign country.  You see our dream comes true. I am so happy and you? I will be not able to sleep. I want all these procedures to be over as soon as possible. I want to be with you!!!!!!! I will let you know about all the results. 
I love you...

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*I've known for a while that she's been doing this scam on friendfinder, so I finally told her that I was concerned about her account being suspended, and that friendfinder has warned me about her. Her response.

Letter #23

Honey Rick,
It is a mistake!! I did not abuse the a structure on FF!!! Anyone could make it in Internet cafe!!! I really canít wait as my visa is give only for 1 month. It is a tourist visa. I want just to come and to be sure
that we can be together. And if everything is Ok between us I will stay with you. If you donít want me to stay I will go back to Russia. Everything depends on you. I want you to be happy. If you still want to see me, please, tell me the name of the airport where you will meet me.

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*It went on for a few more letters, I called her on her scam, and informed her I would be letting others know of her inappropriate behavior. Within a day or so, her emails started to bounce, and so I would assume she was off to another person to attempt to start the scam again. Watch out, sheís a sly one!!!! 


Svetlana Zagainova - Yoshkar Ola/ Cheboksary, Russia

I am a father of a son, divorcee, from Singapore. I am employed. I have known the scammer from She exchanged 17 letters with me from 3-April-2006 to 24-April-2006. Svetlana Zagainova used email address as She asked for money twice from me on 15th and 22nd April 20056 to apply for air tickets and visa so that she can come to visit me in Singapore. The two sums of money I transmitted to her through Western Union were US$ 1,300 on 17-April and US$900 on 23-April. She last wrote to me on 24-April and said that she was in Moscow applying for visa in the Singapore Embassy. I did not hear anything from her since then. I received the email in reply on 27-April from the Singapore Consular Office in Moscow that Svetlana Zagainova had not applied for Singapore visa. The money was transmitted to her through Western Union agent in Cheboksary because she told me she lives in Cheboksary, but after I realized it was scam, I learned how to check on the her emails IP addresses and found out that all her ISP dial-up addresses were coming from Mary-El. It looks like the scammer group operates in Mary-El and they used the Svetlana Zagainova in Cheboksary to collect my money.

Money transaction detail:
Western Union MTCN: 214-551-8040
Sent on Singapore Date/Time: 17/4/06 00:43:00 
Payout Amount: 1,300 US Dollars 

Western Union MTCN: 734-133-8096
Sent on Singapore Date/Time: 23/4/2006 04:04:00
Payout Amount: 900 US Dollars


After I realized that it was a scam, I had written letters of complaint with sufficient detail to the following authorities for assisance on investigation and criminal arrest. As of today 20-May, I have not received any reply from any of these authorities.

ē On 1-May, I sent an email to the Singapore Consular office in Moscow.
ē On 1-May, I sent an email to the Embassy of the Russian Federation in Singapore (
ē On 1-May, I also sent a brief description of this scam together with all the emails IP addresses the scammer used, to Ministry of the Interior website, through its public reception form.
ē On 1-May, I wrote to the Western Union Office in Moscow, asking for where and which banks my money were twice being collected by Svetlana Zagainova. Western Union staff in Moscow as well as their agent in Singapore refused to tell me even though I have every right to know. They said they will only provide the identity detail of Svetlana Zagainova to the Russian Authorities, upon their requests.
ē On 3-May, I also sent an email with detail of the scam to the Federal Tax Service website in Mariy-El at
ē On 3-May, I sent a letter of complant and request for help with detail evidence of the scam, by postal registered mail (RA No.: RR054078990SG) to the President at: 4, Staraya Square, Moscow, 103132.
ē On 10-May, I sent a postal letter to the Minister of the Interior in Moscow
ē On 10-May, I sent a postal letter to the Criminal Investigation Department of the Ministry of Interior in Moscow.
ē On 10-May, I sent a postal letter to the Minister of Internal Affairs of 
Republic Mary-El.
ē On 10-May, I sent a postal letter to the first deputy Minister of Internal Affairs of 
Republic Mary-El.
ē On 10-May, I sent a postal letter to the Office of Public Prosecutor of 
Republic Mary-El.
ē On 10-May, I sent a postal letter to the President of Mary-El.
ē On 10-May, I sent a postal letter to the Minister of Internal Affairs of Republic Chuvashiya.
ē On 10-May, I sent a postal letter to the Office of Public Prosecutor of Republic Chuvashiya.
ē On 10-May, I sent a postal letter to the President of Republic Chuvashiya.

I wrote to the scammer on 14-May and threatened to report on 17-May evening the scam detail to a list of Russian authorities unless they return my money through Western Union by 17-May 5 PM Moscow time. The scammer replied me on 15-May they agreed but need more time. On 16-May they replied they will return my money by 7 PM, 2 hours late. I did not hear any reply and on 18-May I sent out emails - exactly as the postal letters of complaint I had sent on 10-May - to the following Russian authorities:

- Ministry of Interior in Moscow
- Ministry of Internal Affairs of Mary-El
- President of Mary-El
- Ministry of Internal Affairs of Chuvashiya
- President of Chuvashiya

the initial letter and the 3 letters with money requested by the scammer are as follow:

Letter 1
From: svetochka123 <>
Date: Apr 3, 2006 5:14 AM
Subject: Hello!!!!

Hello William!!!!
I was glad to receive from you the letter. Forgive that I could not answer you quickly. I to not object to divorce 
As you already know that my name Sveta!!! I was born in Russia in city Cheboksary. I very much to like my country and city. I to think that you to know that Russia is very big and beautiful country in which many people with the various nations and with various spiritual culture. I am very pleased that I to be born in this country, I very much to love the city as to this city at me is much connected. I here to be born and all life I to live here. At me here to be it is a lot of moments which are connected to pleasure and grief. Here many beautiful and remarkable places in which I to like to have a rest and carry out the free time. Here as very beautiful and rich nature, I very much to like the nature, In my city many various places where time is possible to lead well, is theatres, museums, cinema, cafe, and many other things.
My age of 26 years I lonely, I never to have children, but I am valid to want to have children in the future. I as very to love children! In the 26 years I to stop a comprehensive school where I to study 11 years.
As I to finish pedagogical institute where I to study 5 years. Now I to work the teacher of initial classes.
I live with mum in one to a room apartment, My mum very remarkable person and I very much to love her. My mum the housewife, she it is very good to prepare. I as when to be small that my mum always to learn me to prepare on kitchen as she to speak me that the woman should prepare well always.
And now I as very to like to prepare and at me it is very good to turn out. I very much to love and respect mum. That concerning me that I very cheerful, I very much to like to carry out{spend} the free time with advantage, I to like to read interesting and cognitive books. I as to like to go to theatres, cinema, museums. As I to like to go in for sports, and I to go to a sports hall 2 times a week. I to go in for sports what to have a good figure as I very to look after the body. As I very much to love summer. I at this time very much to like to travel, as at this time very beautiful nature, as I to like to go on the river Volga what to sunbathe and float. The my dear friend I as to want to tell to you that to me as hunting to know about you all is more. It should seems to me that now we to communicate and learn each other on so much well on how many to us it more is necessary, as to me to seem that now for us the main thing it is more to communicate, as if we shall communicate more, we shall understand what we people and as we to concern to each other and so at us will be not only an opportunity to understand that we to approach each other, but also to study each other as it seems to me that in our attitudes important.
I shall wait from you the letter soon.

Your friend Sveta!!!

Send to me your photo!!!
P.S. Forgive me for my English.

Letter 2
From: svetochka123 <>
Date: Sat, 15 Apr 2006 21:45:39 +0400

I was glad to receive from you such prompt reply, excuse me that I could not answer you as soon as well as you. I to tell about us with you to the relatives about us, about our love with you, I as we shall speak them that we to create family. I to speak them about you, about that as you wrote to me very beautiful, warm words. They were glad that I to find such good the man of my life, loving me, and caring about me which trusts me. I him to tell as I to think of you all time, and they to speak me that it is love.
They transferred you greetings, and the best regards for you, my love. 
How at you an affair on work?? At you all to pass well?!

1) My full name Zagainova Svetlana.
2) You probably to know that we with mum rent the apartment. And I am not registered in it, as it not our apartment. We do not have apartment, it is very expensive for us. You probably to understand it. But I to go to the Western Union and to learn, that if I do not have registration you need to send money in city Cheboksary. I to think you it to understand, my love.
3) The sum 1100 dollar is necessary for me. I to speak it to you in the previous letter. Today I to not have time to receive them as I have late arrived from relatives. I to think, that it would be better if I to receive money in Monday. And on Tuesday I could go in Moscow by train.

When I shall buy the ticket, I shall inform you in what airport I shall arrive also number of flight.
That you could meet me as I to not know your city and I I can lose the way. I very much to wait an our meeting, I to think of us with you every minute, I love you. I to want to ask you how your relatives concern to me?

Tomorrow I shall go in church and I shall put there a candle for our further safe life with you. Also that we would have many which children we shall strongly like, as I love you!!!

I shall wait from you the letter, and I shall think of you.

With kisses from Sveta!!!!!!!!

Letter 3
From: svetochka123 <>
Date: Sat, 22 Apr 2006 15:34:18 +0400

Hello my LOVE, hello my DEAR WILLIAM!!!!

I as always was glad to receive from you the letter. In each your letter many beautiful words which give to me happiness and mood for all day. My feelings on are strong to you so much that I not can to keep them and they are torn to you. Today I to rise at 8 o'clock (there was a solar morning) at me good mood because soon we shall together, loved. I to wait for this moment when I can look to you in eyes and tell " I of YOU I LIKE " and at us the most remarkable, happy and joyful time will begin. We should tell each other many words which we hold in the soul. We will have many heart-felt themes for conversation. In our home life there will be many happiness and love, and it is a lot of children. I very much to love children and you to know it. I as wanted to please you and I shall speak you that I to arrive to you for 30 days as I have asked the colleague to change me on work. I to think that you are very glad to this????!!!!!!

Yesterday I met the travel agent and she to explain me how to pass affairs with mine VISA (tourist) and that it is necessary that I could arrive to your country. Guarantees that they to pay for my residing at your country will not be necessary for your country. I to explain them our situation, that we very strongly to like each other, and will speak that to pay for me you, my loved, but they to speak that it is impossible to break rules, and that I should have at myself 900 dollar. As the living wage in one day makes 30 dollar. I do not have such big money my love, and you to know it. At me all hope only on you loved. I as to want to speak you, that they I need just to be shown on customs house, that me would start up in your country. And as soon as we shall meet, I shall give at once to you them. I to think you to understand it you probably collided with such cases. On Monday I could show them in your embassy. And then I should show them at customs house. I am very glad that in your family there are Catholics. And I think that we shall carry out our wedding in church. It will be pleasant for me that on our wedding will be very many good people. I shall love your family as well as the. Now your parents for me mum and the daddy. They my family. I shall love and respect them and I shall help them in all.

Our honeymoon will be the most romantic, and I to not know at all where will pass our honeymoon. I to want what you have made a choice and did not speak me now, let it will be a surprise. We will have a lot of time and we can be in time much, we will have sea of love.

I very much love you, I dream of you, I wait for our first and strong kiss it will go down to history of our family. I wait with impatience of your following letter, With love Sveta!!!!!

Oksana Kir/Kirpichnikova - Cheboksary, Russia


She didnít get me, thanks to advice found on your site, but as seen in the letters, she tried.
Her first letter was 5 April- through WAYN (where are you now). I began replying 12 April. The last letter from her was 30 April. The letters below are an exact copy except that I changed my name. Her email is

Letter 1

Hello! My name is Oksana.
I from Russia. I live in small city Cheboksary. I work on road service station.I saw your profile. I like your photo and the information on you. I very much want to find the present friend, and the unique love! But I want to get acquainted with you closer.It is possible? Also I would like to tell more about myself. You may see me on mine profile. If I have interested you, if you search long and serious attitudes, write to me on e-mail:
I hope that you will answer me. I shall wait. Excuse me please if I have broken your calmness the the my message! I shall send the photo to you in the letter! "

Letter 2

Hello my new friend Pete.
I am very pleased, that you have answered me. I loved yours On this site and I have decided to write structure to you. I search for people, with which I could to conduct all life. My very serious intentions.
I live in Russia in city of Cheboksary. It - very beautiful and small city. Here it - is a plenty of sights, As it - very old city. 
To speak the truth, I have already despaired to search for my existing love, My prince here, And I has decided to try to search on the Internet. I shall tell to you about me directly.

My growth of 172 centimeters, weight of 53 kg. To me of 26 years. I work as in road stations. Ilike to be borrowed on sports meets, meets, meets. I frequently go to a hall of training, and in fitnes club I Like to keep Directly in the form. I do not smoke, and I do not drink alcohol. I think, that it - youth, Beauty and health. I think, that you agree with me. I hope, that my photos will love you. I ask, that you have sent me your photos. I think that occurrence not the most important. On we mine the main thing in the person of its downpour And his private world, but I am very interesting to see yours the Photo. I live with mum. I have told to this, that today to me the letter from the person has arrived from Other country. It has told, that it is good, but impossible to trust at once. We should understand the friend, it is better than the friend. We should transfer a long way which Whether we shall understand in the end together really.
But I think, that we shall well. I shall help you to study about me. I well speak English. In me the good teacher was, and I was the schoolgirl of time, And the knowledge of the English language remains in me from school. I think, that you can understand all my letters. If something to you will not be clear, Tell to 
me about it. Your letters will help me to teach your language better. I have no any internal computer because it for me. I shall write to you from the Internet of the center. In us in City there are many theatres, museums, buildings of culture. We with girlfriends frequently visit cinema, and we look various films. It - is more In total I to similar when to arrive spring. On streams of water of streets and children allow Paper court, sing birds, fires of the sun and high temperatures. Character is again given birth also I I feel, which the new life begins. 

My girlfriend informed me To look his unique thing on the Internet. I did not expect, that you will answer me. I thought, that it simply jokes. I hope, that we well we research each other Also a computer, it is simply impossible, probably, help us to find each other. I wish to know more concerning you. Tell to me about your habits, Friends. Tell to me where you really live. What do you like to eat? I ask it because I very well go. 
Write to me to all about itself, Well? Not, by it to be mixed to ask, I shall try to answer all your questions.
I with impatience shall wait to receive news from you.
P.S I live in Russia, I have made a mistake at registration as badly I understand in a computer.

Your friend Oksana from Russia.

Letter 3

Hello my friend Peter. I am very glad to receive the new letter from you. I am glad that I have an opportunity to write to you. I search for true love. Want to find persons for the sake of which it is necessary to live. I ask you to be frank. Only I can fall in love with such persons. You the first whose profile have liked me. I ask write to me more about myself and the life, I want to know as pass your week-days. It will be very interesting to me. I shall try to write to you all about myself as much as possible. I want that you have studied me as it is possible better and were not mistaken in the choice. I very much would like that you were that person of whom I searched for all life.
I am glad that I have an opportunity to tell to you about myself. I shall tell to you about the life. I was born in city in which I live now. It is small but beautiful small town under name Cheboksary. If you will want I shall tell in detail about the city in the following letter.

Now I want to tell to you about the past and the present. I work at road station of service in the help. At station there is a help window where any interested person may find out the information on time and a direction of flight. I give passengers of the time-table and a direction of flights of buses. My work also consists in it. It is monotonous and not so interesting work. There I work 3 years. I have got used to the work. In our city is not simple to find work therefore to choose it is not necessary.

Now I live one in a small apartment of parents. My parents live separately from each other. So it has turned out that when I was absolutely small they have divorced. It was necessity as their joint life was accompanied by constant scandals. Usually I do not like it to recollect, but to you I want to tell it. Later at each of them new families have appeared, but in one of them I could not live. Therefore to the relatives for me the person became the grandmother - father's mum. The grandmother from the childhood of me learned to be fair with people and to not repeat mistakes of my parents. But later in 2003 I had to go through the next loss of the close person. My grandmother has died of illness of heart.
I have finished high school. Has then arrived in college of commerce. In college I studied 4 years. After the ending of college I could not find work on a speciality. I worked as the seller of colors. But I had small money and I had to refuse this work. I dream to arrive in university and to receive higher education. But in Russia it is expensive.
My working day from 8:00 Am till 5:00 Pm. Therefore I have no many free time. But it is a unique opportunity to have money. In my city it is hard for me to find love. Now the Internet for me a unique opportunity to find loved the man. I want to find mutual love. I was bothered with loneliness. I dream to get own family and to give my children that did not suffice me in the childhood.

Now I feel that I completely am ready what to create family. I am ready to offer much for the sake of the future family. 
I hope to you it was interesting to find out new about me. I hope my long story to you have not 
bothered. I am very glad to our dialogue. With impatience I shall wait for your answer.

Letter 4

Hello dear Peter.
I shall be possible to name you so? I already for a long time did not speak such words to anybody. I was more and more and began to be convinced more, that I have already attachment to you and already I wait your letters with impatience. Today at me the day off was. And I have decided to lead him with benefit for my body. In the morning I together with the girlfriend Irina, have gone in fitness the centre. It is good club, in which very good instructors in aerobics. So has passed my day. And now I want that you to tell. I think we should trust each other because without trust it is impossible to live. I earlier too have trusted in the person, and he has deceived me. I to want to tell to you about it. I was madly in love with persons, and he only pretended, that loves me. Actually he scoffed at my feelings. Was such, that he appointed to me meetings, promised to come to me, I waited for him, and he did not come. And then I have learned through its friends, that at this time he had a good time with what that maidens. He did not like to work, he frequently borrowed from me money, but never repaid. And I forgave him because liked. Has passed some time, and I have seen him in the street with other woman. They kissed. I did not 
remember, how have come home. I cried all night. I had depression very long. I began to work much, and began to forget this villain.
I not want so to risk and break to myself life more. I want to be simply happy and to live as the normal person. After that 
I decide to address in service of acquaintances and to find you, and to write each other. And it very much like me. I want to be happy with the man and to lead with him all life. This person should be more senior than me that he might learn me and my future children. I wait from the man of understanding, I think, that this most important and, certainly, big love and care of me and our future family. I shall try to make the man happy. But without his help, without his love and understanding it will make difficultly. I once again want to test such feeling as love. I very much hope for it.

Therefore I write to you.
I hope, what I write clearly enough and much about myself. I shall try to answer all your questions. If I shall not answer your question mean I could not to understand him, do not take offence at me and write his once again. I think, that you understand, that the overall objective in my life is to find that only thing, my second part of me with which I can go through all difficulties of life. Together to meet pleasure, occurrence of children, to grow them, to surround with care, to present them the happy childhood, I so to dream of it!!! I think, that you understand me and your vital purposes are similar to mine, I in soul hope, that sometime our hearts will meet. I think, that you understand my words. 
On it I want to finish the letter and with the big impatience I shall expect your answer.
Have remarkable day.

Yours Oksana

Letter 5

Hello Peter.
How your day? What new? At me all well houses and at work! I shall tell to you about the life more in detail. I think to you it it will be interesting. Sometimes it seems to me that I have got stuck in one day. Each day when I go on work I see same people. At work we have the same clients each day. I am tired with my work. Not leaving from a house in the morning I know what there will be my day. I constantly would think of that that mark my life.
I would dream of that that envy family. To me has bothered to live for itself. I want to live for the loved person. I dream to start family. The main thing in my life that people which would love me were happy. I hope you you understand about what I speak. 
It is interesting to me that to you happiness? For me happiness when near to me people close to me. 
I am happy when I have care of relatives. I am very tired from loneliness. I search for persons which will destroy mine loneliness. Your letters help me to not be lonely. Dialogue with you is very important for me. Now in life the unique pleasure for me is my father. I with pleasure wait when he comes back from business trip. We it is very good we communicate. Father always gives me vital councils. My father has advised to arrange my home life. Because of  his advice I have decided to use the Internet for search of love. Life in my city as if has stood. Inhabitants of my city good people. I with pleasure communicate with people in my city. But my meaning of the life to find the loved person. I understand that in my city I can not find the love. I feel that this year I am am waited with main recesses. This year I can find the love. I finish the letter and I wait for a fast reply.
Have remarkable day.
From heart Oksana

Letter 6

Hello my dear Peter.
How your day today? How your mood? I have excellent mood because have received the letter from you. I for a long time have noticed that my day depends on my mood. When I have excellent mood my affairs go it is excellent. Thank you for your letters. Your letters make my day good.
I have very much told about myself. I would want that you knew about me more. I tell about myself because I think my letters make us closer. You agree?
Yesterday mine father has returned from business trip. Him sent through Baltic to the Russian city of Kaliningrad. After the business trips he always calls on me. Father very much loves me. Till now he counts me a small daughter. From the business trips it he always brings to me many souvenirs. This time he has brought to me ear rings from silver. My father always to me tells about the business trips. He was in many cities of Russia. Very much to like him city of Kaliningrad. This city belonged before Germany. Began to belong to Russia after the second world war. At a meeting we always tell each other all news. I to him have told that I have correspondence with you. It was interesting to him to listen about it. he asked about you. He asked as I treat you. What I wait from our correspondence? How you treat to me? What you wait from our correspondence? He set to me is a lot of questions. Unfortunately I could not answer on not which his questions because not all I know about you. I frequently present our meeting. I reflect on our conversation at a meeting. How you to yourself imagine it? I present it as a meeting of friends. Any relations it of dialogue. You are glad to our dialogue? I seem to me with everyone the letter shall find out a lot of new about you. It means we become closer. Unfortunately now I one. With me there is no beside liked man. To me would like to escape in dreams about you. I constantly present you in ideas. Yesterday sleep dreamed me where we talked at a meeting. My sleep speak me about my most secret ideas. I wish you good luck!!! Let your day will be better!!!


Letter 7

Hello my dear Peter.
At me all well home and at work! I very much waited for your letter! I do not understand that with me, I the whole days think of you! You pleasant, good, kind, I can tell to you all! And you understand me! It is very pleasant for me that far from Russia lives the person, to which I is necessary! I very much like your letters, I with the great pleasure read letters! Both it is more and more and I understand you more! I think that all will be good and we shall meet! Our meeting will solve much! We should understand each other and have real dialogue! To have walks, travels, entertainment, I shall be going with the great pleasure for you and we shall have good supper at candles! Recently I have read the love novel. In this novel it was told about a love story. It is a history occured in 18 century. Reading this book I understand that as well as now in those times love this most important in human life. The person always tested feelings of love. I know you very sensitive person, you should understand about what I speak. I very much like to read books about love. Love this word which is known all over the world. The love connects people from the different countries. I think that for love there are no barrier. I very quiveringly treat words of people. I always attentively read your letters. I write you from my heart. If you think that I write you not about that please correct me. What you think of that that I have written? 
I wait for the frank answer. Oksana.

Letter 8

Hello my dear Pete. 
How your day today? How your affairs? I was very glad to receive your letter. I very much wait for our meeting. It is not important for me where she will be. I think that if we shall not have a meeting we should not write each other. I write you from my heart. I trust you the most latent ideas and feelings. It will be a pity to me if my words and will stay on a paper. I very much affliction if not can see you. We know each other a little. But I know that you the good person. Our meeting it is necessary what to find out each other is better. We shall understand as we we are categorized to each other only at our meeting. You you believe in love on distance? I can believe in love if I shall be sure that my liked person will be a line. It is very difficult to keep love when between people the big distance. You agree? I with pleasure write you about the feelings. I very much wait for each your letter. Reading your letters I try to understand 
each your word. I fall asleep, I sleep and I wake up with ideas on you. I feel that I fall in love with you. I feel as as if to me 20 years and you my first love. Unfortunately I can not write to you all feelings. It is very difficult to transfer the ideas through a paper. I would like to tell to you it personally. My father speaks what to live in loneliness very difficultly. I feel loneliness on myself. I try to distract work but all the same constantly I think of my future. I do not present myself lonely. I would want that near to me the man was liked.  Write to me that you think of that that I have written?  I dream to find aeuoo? and pure love!!! It will be a pity to me if we do not understand each other. I wait for your frank answer. 


Letter 9

Hello my dear Peter.
I waited for your answer. For me time stops when I wait for your letter. All my ideas only about you and about our first appointment. I always on any other business present our first appointment. Sometimes I dream that you will meet me at the airport with the big bouquet of roses. I shall embrace you. We shall have a passionate kiss at our meeting. After the airport we shall go to cafe and we shall speak about love. I shall want to look where you live. We shall go to you home. You will show me your house. I shall look all your rooms. We shall drink for our meeting fault. I very romantic person. I love romantic music. I the request to include you a romantic melody. You will invite me on dance. I dream to dance with you till morning. You will embrace me for a waist and we shall be turned in slow dance. I shall look at you. Our lips have merged in kisses again. It is dream of many girls. I as well as would like all girls of love, children, family happiness. I want have a line of the person to which I can to trust all pleasures and troubles. You would like to embody my dreams in a reality? Write to me about what you you dream. I think our dreams coincide. It is difficult for me to fall in love with persons. I very well should know persons what to fall in love with him. Reading I understand your letters that you the good person. I think at a meeting we shall understand that we have true love. Unfortunately it is very difficult to understand that you feel on distance.
Therefore it is necessary for us to meet. Our letters and words will be vain if we shall not meet. You agree? I think it it is silly to love persons and to not want him to see. I hope I not vainly I trust you the dreams. I am sure we shall make our dreams a reality. 
Have remarkable day and enjoy life.
P.S My love tell please your full phone number, I want to hear your voice. 
I shall take phone from girlfriend Irina and to you to call.

Letter 10

Hello my loved Peter ..
How at you an affair? I very urgently love you, and I want our meeting. I without you cannot. I want to be with you. You, which first person I so am urgently similar. You my which first person I so strongly like. I trust you. I know that you never will deceive me. I want to be with you. I want to live you. Tomorrow I shall go to travel agency, and I study all on the account of our meeting. I cannot wait for our meeting more. I want to meet you at the airport more soon to capture and kiss. Tomorrow I shall write to all of you on the account of our meeting.
With love Oksana.

Letter 11

Hello my love Peter. How are you doing at my love?
My love I very much want our meeting! I cannot and present without you myself... I very much want to wake up with you on I shall die..... You are very dear to me. You my favourite person, I shall die without you! My love Peter. Today I went to travel agency and learned all about our meeting!! In travel agency to me would tell what to arrive to you to me documents - the visa the passport and tickets are necessary! The visa the passport and tickets will be done 13-14 days then to me it is necessary will order tickets! My love at me is very bad news when to me have told how many it I will cost at once was upset and began to cry! Cost of the visa of the passport and tickets 320$USA! These are very big money for me! I tried to borrow this money from friends but at them there is no such big sum. Then I wanted to take the loan in bank but to me have given up not naming the reason! I am very much upset! My love it is very a shame to me and not conveniently asks this money you but I do not have other output. My love if you can help to arrive to me to you? It is very a shame to me to ask this money you, but I do not have other output. I very much want be with you I cannot live without you. I very much love you 
I wait with impatience of your letter
Know Oksana very much likes Peter. 

Letter 12

Hello my love Pete!!
I today was very happy to speak by with you to phone!! At you very pleasant voice! I shall soon try to you to call again! My love as I already spoke you that I was mistaken you were right trip to you costs more dearly! Today I went to travel agency to me have told that my visa and the passport will cost 300$USA! Then I should order tickets to you! Tickets cost as I to you has told by phone 900$USA! To arrive to you to me it is necessary 1200$USA!! These are very big money for me! I am very grateful to you for that that you can help me..

My love my girlfriend Irina has told to me as you can send me this money! Irina has told that the fastest translation it Western Union! Western Union it is the fastest remittance worldwide! To me have told as it to make! You should go in bank where is Western Union!! What to send me of money you should know my full data: 
My full name: Oksana
My full surname: Kirpichnikova
My full address: the country Russia, the city of Cheboksary, street Mira23/6

After you will send to me of money, you should send me your full data, your full name, your full address and a code of transfer of money Many Transfer Control Namber (MTCN)
Mine loved Pete as soon as I shall receive your money I at once I shall go to travel agency to order documents which to me are necessary what to arrive to you!
I very much love you! You the most dear person in this world. I am ready to shout to all world that you my unique love!
I shall look forward to your following letter!

With Love Oksana!!

Letter 13

Hello Pete!!!

When I have received your letter I very much was upset! I am sorry that I have asked for you money... Now I I want to tell to you that your money are not necessary for me... I pay because you do not trust me.. Yes I too heard about such people on the TV...

Now I have understood you count me such... I have understood that you simply played my feelings.. This your right... I once again to you repeat to me your money are not necessary... As I can have a meeting with the person which to me does not trust and does not trust....


Letter 14

Hello my love Pete!!! I am very happy to receive the letter from you!!
I want you to tell that I very much love you, and not when in a life I shall not throw you... My loved Pete I would not want that you arrived to me at us in Russia many murders connected with citizens not from our country! At us it is a lot of murders, at us kill people not from our country much.. I when in a life would not shall forgive to myself that with you that be happened.. We shall have a meeting I shall necessarily arrive to you.. I shall try to save up money for arrival to you, and let I shall save year or two, but I shall come to you! Your money are not necessary for me, I shall prove you that I not the swindler what you count me, and it is very hurt me that you do not trust me.. My love for my part any more will not be what requests, except for one! Please do not throw me write to me letters every day, I cannot live 
without you!
With Love Oksana!

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