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Before I found this site, I said to her that she could come to me. Now I found the girl with the same picture of her on this site, I believe now that my instincts were right because I though she was not for real.

Joe


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Hey Guys; Thank you for your website. After receiving 7 emails of what sounded too good to be true I went to google and type in the name that "she" gave me and it led me to your site. Thank you again for shedding light on this fraud. 

Russ (Michigan, USA)


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Thanks to your 4th article in the "Nine Simple Rules for Dating a Russian Woman" series, I determined she was a scam artist and found her already on your sites blacklist. Thanks to your site I discovered the scam and discontinued contact before any money was sent.

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Aivagyan Areg, Yerevan, Armenia and Tanya (Moscow, Russia)

I am a business owner in Western Australia. I am single, and have no children. I have my profile on adultfriendfinder.com and that is where Tanya first contacted me. She asked me to contact her on personal email address in the first message. I made the mistake of doing so. Within two weeks she had fallen in love with me and was asking me for money for a cultural exchange program. She requested money to be sent to, Aivagyan Areg. Agatan Gexosi 8 str,bld.37.apt.15. Armenia,Yerevan. After thinking this was a scam I did some research and found her photo on another website under a different name as a known scammer. After asking her about this she sent me a email for her new email address because she was in Moscow getting a stamp on her passport. The address is mymanforever@rambler.ru. She has never contacted me since then. I reported this to adultfriendfinder.com and they remover her profile from the website.

Letters:

Hello dear:) I am very glad to get your letter I wait it and I think our aquaintance very nice:) so dear Peter I will try tell you now all about my life in details. I was born in 10 Feb 1979, and I grew up in good family my mother was teacher of Russian language in school, my father engeener in factory and my father love his job very much they construct tv sets etc in factory, but now my father work in private firm as special engeener but not earn much because in Russia now not the best economical situation, but they can live with my mother ok, my mother not work at school already few years, my mother very nice person and she take care of me all life as a best mom:) As my mother was teacher she teach me Russian language well and I even had practice as teacher few times in school when i was 20:) it was funny, my mother also very good cooker, as me too I hope:) she teach me very different dishes prepare:) Dear Peter I dont know do you ever eat Russian dishes? My favorit dishes Russian is: Pelmeni, Golubci,Borsch, etc... I like very much too cook also and I like home food, I dont like eat always somthing in restaurant or somewhere I prefer if its possible eat much at home, I like to eat Pizza with mushrooms and hum and cheese i can prepare it also, and i like BBQ, and fried chicken and potatoes, also I like sandwiches and many another dishes, but I dont eat much I like prepare different things and eat a little from every one:) So dear Peter I grew up in good family there the most important goals was trust, love, nice relations and harmony, be near each other in any situation, I think I had nice childhood because I have nice parents which show me good way in life and be for me all what I can see and be also right in life... So I finished a school in Moscow ,and after I begin take a private lessons for exams for universyty which I want enter... Moscow is very nice city because its the city where live very many good persons cultural, smart and interesting, I mean teachers all my teachers in school and in university was veryy smart and realy good teachers... So after all my hard lessons and the one year private lessons I take exams good and enter in Moscow state university in Pedagogical(teachers) faculty:) It was so good year for me its like a dream that I enter to University and I get this specialization, I enter all exams high and my education was free its about 20% of studens who pass very good exams can get free education in univercity... I was very glad my parents too, and I choose this specialization because I like children and it will be interesting for me to teach them, so I finish university after 5 years of education and get diploma, this day also was very important for me, because it was very difficult study in university, I have no time for walking, I have no time watch tv and read books, all what I do all time it study and read my student books etc, so I even have no friends during this time, I lose my schoolfriends because during my university I have no time communicate with them... So after university I work about some time in school and i liked that school, but I cant work much there because there a director changed and come new director which was not good person, I leave this place and I never work after this... So I deside come here to Armenia and stay here in my grandfathers home, because my father in Russia last time drink much and I dont like he drunked, I love him much but my mother said better I stay with my grandfather and I come here, my grandpa very good person and was glad I stay with him here I am here in Armenia about few months. I use internet here in cafe very near of our home its like first floor of our building, its good I can reach it easy:) My dear Peter I hope I dont bore you with my letter, but I think you be glad to know all about me as I want know all about you we are going may be make the most important step in our life and its very important know more about each other... I like reading very much, I think it comes from my mother in childhood when I was little and I cant read I was about 4 or 5 years my mother always read for me different things:) I like read very much Russian classics for example: Lev Tolstoy, Dostoyevski, etc... Also I like very much books from my childhood my favorit writers was, Jul Vern, A Konan Doil, Romen Rolan,Teodor Drizer, A Duma, etc:) you know few days ago here was problem with electricity cable and I sit under candle light in evening dont know what to do, I see book of Konan Doil, stories about Sherlock Holmes, I read it in my childhood and in my mind I think that now if I read it it may be seem primitive for me, but I begin to read and cant stop:) it was so nice:) I read Harry Potter not so time ago I like it to:) Tell me what you like to read? I like music very much, I like latin music, pop music and dancing music I like to dance sometimes:) I also went musical school during my regular school, and I play piano not bad, but to tell truth I dont play already long time here my grandpa have no piano, my favorit is moonlight sonata by Beethoween, I like it much and I play it much few years ago:) I like very much go out of city for picnics or somthig same:) I like prepare different tasty things in nature and eat I think everything is more tasty in nature, I like go walking in parks and traveling sometimes... I can use internet very little time I come and see how to use it and study but I still dont know very much things and I type not very fast but not slowly, you know I think its help me that I play piano I easy remembet all keys in keyboard:) and to tell you truth I never in my life write so long letter as now, its first time I write so long:) I deside to get aquaintance with foreign man and start serious relations because I never feel seriousness in men which I know also here in Armenia, I am here have no friends and dont know no one and i go walk even with my grandfather, but in Russia for example when I study in institute I dont feel from men in our faculty that they are ready for have serious relations, start family, be sincere in relations all time and ready in any situation be together... For me very important that my future husband be sincere and good heath person, who can love only me and whom I can love all life only him, and live in harmony have children one day and be happy, enjoy every moment together... I like man who think that family is most important thing in life... And I like if man come after work home and we can sit talk a little interesting, wach tv, have supper, or sometimes go walks in evenings:) sometimes I am very romantic I think:) So in this time I look man who can be my husband, my friend and all for me, now its the thing I look because I am tired be alone and i need someone near me... I write you so much because I feel that our aquaintance and relations have potencial and can be nice... Ok dear Peter I will finish now my long letter and I will try come internet tommorrow for write you, think of you yours Tanya.

Hello my dearest Peter:)! I am so happy get your nice reply, I cant express all my posetive feelings when I read your letter!... I am so touched by your letter..you know from our first letter I feel that you are not simple guy who were surrounded all my life..I feel such attraction to you and can't expres all in words..you are really dream man.. My dear I have information which I want to give you, where are a chance for us to meet in real! may be it little soon but I feel that we have so much common and we can be happy... My grandpa was in one agency, and its make cultural exchange programm for emprove language knowlege in Australia, using this programm I can get visa very easy without problem. Regular visa here not possible get via embassy... This programm valid every year and this year the registration deadline is 07 of July... Tell me your opinion, and if you ready we meet and you can help me organize our meeting I can ask my grandfather ask all in details about programm... I think real meeting can show us all and I am sure all will be nice between us... Tell me may be you prefer visit me here in Armenia and after we go there together? Ok my dear I will go now I wait your soon reply your Tanya.

Hello my dearest Peter:) i am realy very happy get your answer so much sincere and kind letter thank you very much....So its realy very difficult find person whom you can share your life. About our meeting I realy think from your letters that you are very sincere person... and you think very far and serious, its realy nice. today my grandfather was in agency which prepare visas for education in Australia this is government programm for exchange and my grandpa ask for all, this programm gurantee to get visa 100% without problems, this programm is onre time every year and for this year the registration time is limited till 07 of July... I can come direct to you as soon as I get visa, this visa valid in your country 6 month and after it may be continue,I have saved money and my grandpa can give me which I can use for comming to you, but its not enough sum, the full programm including ticket,visa, travel charges, taxes and programm al together cost 1850 US dollars, I have my only 1460 dollars all together with my grandfather's savings... Tell me your opinion? , agency prepare visa during 25 days max time... So I need 390 dollars for have complete sum for comming to you... Are you able help me arrange this way comming to you? this is only way I can get visa... May be you will prefer come here to Armenia meet me? and after we go to there together...? Tell me which way better for you meet we will do so for me its like a dream meet you and start relations, and I make my fingers cross for all be ok:) So I am realy happy to get your letter. I wait your letter yours Tanya.

Hello again my dearest Peter:) How are you? I hope good my dear I miss you much and think of you much... I am very glad all goes good for our meeting my man! So I give you news from today, I was in agency today give them my documents fill the papers pay them first part of money I have etc so they start my comming process, as soon as you send second part I will finish the payment and all will be ok! Also my grandpa was in bank today and ask them about possible way to get money here, so they said the best way for sending is office called "Westernunion" they said via this money will be here during 15 minutes, after sending you will be need send a special 10 digit number using which possible pick up ythe money here, somthing like this... For this money sending they said you will need the address here and the name so I will write you my grandfather's address here and his name for you send money as soon as it be here my he get it and we will go to the agency for finish everything there, after this I will tell you all news! MY grandpa's address is Armenia,Yerevan, Agatan Gexosi 8 str,bld.37.apt.15. My grandpas name is Aivagyan Areg. Ok my dear I hope I give all info complete, I am happy realy all work out for us,I can't stop thinking of you and our soon meeting,i love you ,yours forever Tanya.

hello my sweetest Peter. my man forgive my late reply:(i got a flu:(and was so bad..couldn't go out for write you:( how bad you lost your phone and money:(how it happen?are you ok? swrrtheart my grandpa has car very old he don't use it..he want to seel it tommorrow so may be it will give that sum for coming to you..you shouldn't worry because i will do all i can to be with you..i dont' want live without you..life is useless:( i miss you so much..sorry i have to go to bad:(i feel terrible...love Tanya.

Hello my dearest Peter! I miss you so much and very happy reach internet now! I am in Moscow already but today only able come write you, internet very far from place I stay about 30 kilometers, Moscow very big city:) I stay my relatives home and my relative bring me here by car:) How is your day? I hope all is ok my dear, so tommorrow I will need go to aply for the stamp in my passport and will know info I will write you as soon as I have news... Please write me this mail, my old mail dont open, my new mail is: mymanforever@rambler.ru. my dear I think of you and I am so happy all goes good for our meeting, its still like dream for me but now I come Moscow one step more for our meeting and it make more real all. Write you news as soon as I be able your with great love Tanya.


Alexandra Tsapaeva (Ulyanovsk City - Russia)

I am a single 27 male currently unemployed. I was contacted by this girl from this site: single and looking. http://65.110.88.235/Dc2/DcFrame/FrameControl
/Index2.asp?GroupID=2837&ReferrerID=&ScenarioID=&Join=&Page=Login.asp. I thought, hey i got a reply. So i started talking to her. Been little over a week now. Figured she may be for real. But always thought cautious of it. But, none the less i was getting sucked in. Even gave her my address. =/ I would explain to her that i am unemployed. I have no job. It never seemed to bother her of my situation was. So i figured we could get to know each other. But i always had a suspicion about it and was always in the back of my head that she me be trying to pull something. So i started researching over the internet. Seeing maybe i could find her name. Trying to see if she was for real or not. Then...i tried yahoo search. Sure enough i found this site. I was shocked. Mad really. But i knew it. I always had a gut feeling it wasn't for real. But i did not find this site before i told her that if she wanted to come here she could. Grr..but i did find this site and read the emails others left here that they got from there various women. As i kept reading i saw that they would ask for money when they thought there man bought there story. So..i said to myself. Lets see if she does. Sure enough she did. She asked for money the very same way others asked for it. I have about 10 or so letters from her i could attach here. I also have 2 last letters i sent her. No response yet. I also have her pictures that match the ones on your sight. Here is her email asking me for money:

Letters:

Hello my love Joe! I am happy to receive your letter. Today in the morning as I spoke, I went to visa agency. I asked about moving to your country and I got the answer that I need the visa, foreign passport and some other documents for registration. We have defined a type of the visa and it's type which allows to marry in the future This visa allows me to be in your country during 90 days. I think, that it will be enough to know each other and in a consequence to marry. If we marry during validity of the visa, I can remain with you on more time. If we do not marry, I should leave your country on the termination of validity of the visa. I asked about prices and was very surprised, first I ask about time of performance. and they said that there is many people who wants to make documents and leave the country Therefore, if I wish to fly in the country earlier, I should write the application and pay the visa on next week. Then the visa will be ready during 2 weeks. If I can not write the application and pay the visa on next week, that I should wait manufacture of the visa during 2-3 months. I was very much surprised with the prices of services. The visa costs approximately 250 dollars, and the passport and necessary documents cost 79 dollars. It's make me little suppressed and disappointed. I don't have so much now. I was make application but I must pay for it. I asked my mother about our savings she said that the money should not be a barrier between two people which love each other. I counted my sum and I found out that I have only about fifty dollars and my wages. will be not soon. I asked my friends about helping me and they said that have not at the present moment. I asked the advice my mother and she said that maybe you can help me, because you loves me. I asked her how he can help me, because he is far from me. My mother said that you can send the money through company which make this service. I asked about it, on my work and I know now, that exists reliable and fast company, which makes remittances in world and it's western union. I remember that I saw advertising this company on tv. I take a directory book and found the address of it and it's not far from me. I went there, and I asked them about service. They said that sender must go to the western union, give them information: the name and last name of receiver, country they make transfer and bring the ten digits secret code to sender. The receiver must know ten digits for receiving money. They say that the branches of it must be everywhere worldwide. Here is the information about me: Country: Russia. City: Ulyanovsk. Name: Alexandra. Lastname: Tsapaeva. Address of branch of western union: BIN-Bank. The address: street. Pochtovaya, 11, 432031. I must know your full name, full address. You must know that I decide to ask you about it because I love you and trust you very much. I decide to come to you because I feel this way and you are very necessary to me, decided to come to the unfamiliar country and I never be outside my country. But I decided to do it because now you are part of my life and I trust you in all. I think you trust me too and love me too. You must inform me the closest airport to you I'll ask the help with ticket from my relatives. Please, don't forget to tell me the closest airport. My love I need 300 dollars I think you will help me because we found our love and we want to meet closer. You must inform me ten digits and I can receive it. You must know we must hurry because I can receive the documents soon, and if we lost the time it is necessary for a long time. Now it's very difficultly to receive the visa to your country, and it's fact, but if I pay now, I think I do it. I think about sense of money, and I'm very sad if this paper can prevent people to meet each other. In most cases the money play a main role in life but it's not right! I'm sure. And the quantity of money was and will not important to me, I always not aspired to material enrichment and don't search specially for rich male. I appreciate human qualities and relations, and I love you Joe!!! I love you all my heart, I want to be with you now. I want to be with you forever. If it's mutually we will be very happy in our life. I think you love me too and we will meet very soon. You are my love, my Angel. My heart is yours. Probably, you will not trust me after that the letter. Probably, you will decide that I am a deceiver. But I can repeat to you, all my words, all my ideas, all my feelings to you is a true. And as though the destiny has not turned to us, as though you have not decided, I shall love all the same you. And I shall prove to you, that it is not simple words. I'm waiting good news from you, I hope everything will be all right and we will be together soon. Every day I think about our meeting, and I think it's real, we must use this chance of destiny. I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!! Your love Alexandra.

Hello my love Joe! Now I can name you my love with confidence. Your letter has brought to me this confidence. Also this letter has brought to me hope for that that I shall continue the life not in loneliness. And I can speak that my life only begins. And this life will be connected to you. I am happy. I can tell now with confidence, that I love you. I can not transfer this feeling in a word, it is difficult. But my heart is beaten more frequently, my breath becomes rough. Everything, that I feel, that I can do all, I can write in a poem. I have found fine poem Susan Polis Schutz. It refers to " Love is." "Love is.. being happy for the other person when they are happy.. being sad for the person when they are sad.. being together in good times and being together in bad times.. Love is the source of strength. Love is.. being honest with yourself at all times.. being honest with the other person at all times.. and never pretending.. Love is the source of reality. Love is.. an understanding that is so complete that.. you feel as if you are a part of the other person.. accepting the other person just the way they are.. and not trying to change them to be something else.. Love is the source of unity. Love is.. the freedom to pursue your own desires.. while sharing your experiences with the other person.. the growth of the one individual alongside of.. and together with the growth of another individual.. Love is the source of success. Love is.. the excitement of planning things together.. the excitement of doing things together.. Love is the source of the future. Love is.. the fury of the storm.. the calm in the rainbow.. Love is the source of passion. Love is.. giving and taking in a daily situation.. being patient with each other's needs and desires.. Love is the source of sharing. Love is.. knowing that the other person.. will always be with you regardless of what happens.. missing the other person when they are away.. but remaining near in heart at all times. Love is the source of security. Love is the source of life." This poem defines - that such love. And I understand, that it so. I know this poem by heart. I also have translated it to Russian. And you can trust me, that she sounds in Russian also perfectly. As soon as I read your letter, I have made the decision. We should be together. Tomorrow in the morning I shall go in visa agency. I shall find out all how I can arrive to you. I think, I shall not have difficulties with official registration of papers. I solve it, having carried out all night in meditations. And your letter which I read today has confirmed my decision. I am sure, that we should have a meeting. We can not find out in completeness each other, hoping only on the computer. The computer has given much. He has given us hope. And we should not miss this hope. I am sure, that you agree with me. Therefore I shall be tomorrow in visa agency. I love you. With all heart, With all love, Alexandra.

Hi my love Joe! I shall be possible to name you my love? Probably I hurry with conclusions. But I am sure that the love arrives to our hearts. You know, in the childhood I dreamed, that I shall find the prince , with whom I can come on edge of the ground. In a consequence, I have understood, that actually there are no princes. Ideal the man cannot be found. But close to an ideal which is necessary for you, you can find. I can not tell you with confidence, that you - my ideal. No. You too can not tell, that I - your ideal. But in it the reason, what people fall in love? No. The reason here in many respects. I can not explain an origin of love. I can not explain why the woman draws to the man. I can not explain why the man draws to the woman. It occurs at a subconscious level. Private world of the person informs to the person about it. And in a consequence, you understand, that it is the truth. I write you it, that you could understand what to be created in my ideas. I understand, that you are intended for me, but I am afraid to inform you about it. I also am afraid to tell you that the love to you has come in my heart. I am afraid to tell you, that I love you. I am afraid to tell it as the love should be mutual. My mum also speaks me, that I should be more cautious with the feelings. With feeling of love, the person does many nonsenses. And I not exception. You know, when I have decided to begin acquaintance through the Internet, I thought about myself. (for fun or seriously) It is interesting, if I shall find the love in USA, I should go in USA? ( it there were my ideas before I have got acquainted with you) Further, I did not think of it. But time has come, when I should think of it. I think that you agree with me. My lovely, my dear, I am afraid to speak you about it, but I LOVE YOU!!! And I shall wait for the letter from you with impatience. Your Alexandra.

Hello my best friend Joe. I am glad to see your letter. I understand, that between us fine attitudes are fastened. And I become sure, that sometime there will come day when we can tell each other:" I love you ". Probably I am mistaken. Today, before writing to you the letter, I spoke with the manager of Internet - cafe. He has told, that in the Internet it is a lot of deceit, therefore I should be cautious. But under your letters, I understand, that I should not be afraid of a deceit. He also spoke, that many girls fall in love false to entice money or with the help of this false love to go in USA. These girls very much prevent acquaintance through the Internet. My god why in this world there is not enough validity? But you can trust me, I do not deceive you. Though, probably, you will not trust me. But I have no idea to deceive you. I know, that such a deceit and his consequences. If someone has deceived me, I had feeling, that my private world is devastated. And I, in this occasion, have huge grief. Well, I shall forget this bad theme for conversation today. I shall write a little about my daily routine. Per working days I rise early from bed. These are 6.00 mornings. It would be wonderful, if I could wake up near to you and speak you "good morning". But it only dreams. Then I go in a bath where I wash and I clean a teeth. Then I do small gymnastics that my muscles came in the order. Further I prepare for breakfast. In the morning I do not like to fill in my stomach. I eat a little. I make sandwiches with sausage, cheese and cooked eggs And then I drink tea with a lemon. It is my breakfast. At 7.15 I go for work. I go for work on bus, as I have not the own automobile. In 8.00 my work begins. I spoke you about my duties on work, therefore I shall continue my narration. From 12.00 till 13.00 I have a lunch break. I usually fill him to write to you the letter. I also write you this letter in a lunch break. My work comes to an end in 17.00 evenings. And I go home. At home, I am usually occupied with domestic affairs. It is washing of clothes, cleaning of rooms from a dust. And another. At leisure, I watch TV more. In days off, I also am in the basic house. I do not like with recent time to go on various dances or a bar. It is not interesting to me. Sometimes I go to my girlfriend Elena. We can speak with her on any themes of conversation. I can not tell you about my hobby. I have no attachment to something. Though........ If to count knitting from a wool of a hobby, it is my hobby. When, I have time and there is a desire, I knitting a jacket for 2 days. Well, I shall finish to write to you. I shall wait for the letter from you, as always. With love, Alexandra.

Hello my dear friend Joe. Many thanks to you for the letter back. Excuse me for the last letter. It was little bit sad. But it was all in the past. In this letter I shall not write sad histories of my life. With each letter, I understand that we become more adhered to each other. Therefore I shall give you my home address: Russia, 432601. Ulyanovsk city. Street M.Gor'kogo, the house 27, apartment 43. Name: Alexandra. Surname: Tsapaeva. I think, that you can send me the letter correct mail. If you also will give me your home address, I also can send you the letter. But I think, it is not so convenient for us. Each letter will go very long. Still we have a problem that by correct mail not always the letter achieves the addressee. Probably our mail works badly. I also would like to speak with you, but at present, I have found out, it is impossible. And I very much would like to hear your voice. I think, that you also would like to hear my voice. But I regret, it is impossible. I can not afford the phone which is connected to the international lines. It is very expensive. Our city have not also such phones. They are only at rich people. I have found out, that such phones are in Moscow and in Saint Petersburg. They are at the international airports. And telephone conversation is costs very expensive. Therefore I can not call to you. It is a pity. But I am happy, that presently there is an opportunity to contact you with the help of the Internet. I think, that the Internet - great achievement of a science. It allows to speak with people, taking place on the big distances. And I am very pleased, that we could meet each other with the help of the Internet. Yes, I nearly have not overlooked, I have informed my parents about you. That we have acquaintance. I have told my parents a little about you. In the beginning, they have considered cautiously to ours to attitudes. But subsequently, mum sends the regards to you. She hopes, that in the future we shall be magnificent pair. If it is fair, I too think so. But we know each other absolutely short period of time. And I think, that early to speak about it. I simply have not anybody, except for you , whom I can inform these words. And I really hope for continuation of our attitudes. I think, that you not against. Kiss. Alexandra.

Hello my dear friend Joe. I feel, that we with each letter become closer to each other. Therefore I can tell to you about my last private life. When to me was 22 years, I have got acquainted with the beautiful guy. And if to be fair, I loved him very much. I now also recollect him. But it in the past. I loved him, and I did not notice, that he is engaged in dark affairs. He was a criminal. He is stole. And I did not notice it. He spoke, that he works, as the manager in bank. I thought so. I at all did not ask in what bank he worked. We were constantly together. While he has not got in prison. I could not forgive to him it. He should sit in prison of 13 years for a robbery of bank. Certainly, later I went to him on appointment. He spoke me, that I have forgiven him for a deceit. He spoke, that when he will leave from prison, he will finish with the past. He will be employed on work, that he will be the fair citizen. And I trusted him selflessly. I go constantly to him on appointment during 3 years. And I would continue to go to him further. But in one day when I have come to him on appointment, the security guard has not started up me. In a consequence, the security guard of prison has told me, that he has died. He was killed with criminals which also sat in prison. And I do not know for what. After that news, I became closed. I could not speak much. I have pushed away from myself thoughtless girlfriends. Girlfriends bothered me. I have only one closest girlfriend. I can share all secrets with them. And she will support me always. If to speak about prison on statistics, each half man sat or sits in prison. And who on freedom, that drinks alcohol in plenties. I do not know with what it is connected, but it is the truth. If to tell in detail about this reason, it is possible to find many reasons to explain it. I think, that in it the government of Russia is guilty. Russia does not give social guarantees for inhabitants of Russia. No, I do not speak what to live in Russia difficultly. I do not complain of difficulties. We have a saying: " if we shall be alive we shall not die " Though, if I shall be fair if I had an opportunity to leave to live in other country I would go with pleasure. But what I shall do in other country? I do not know, that I could do in other country. And here I have got used. I have work, I have parents whom I love. One, that I have not here - the man with which I am capable to create family. Probably, I treat men of my country intently after my last acquaintance with the man. I do not know. But I have difficulties with acquaintance with men. And now I am glad, that we have started to correspond with each other. I hope we on it shall not stop. Now when I have written to you this letter, I am afraid, that you can not answer me more. Please, you do not cease to write to me the letter. With your letters I forget my past, and I start to think of the future more. I am sure, that we are waited the fine future. Probably I speak about it early. You see we know about each other a little. And the further acquaintance is necessary for us. But we have taken the first step. And we should make many steps before we can tell each other: " I love you ". And I very much hope, that you really will agree with me. And we shall correspond further. I shall wait from you for the letter. Your friend Alexandra.

Hello my friend Joe. I am glad to receive your new letter. It means, that we can continue acquaintance. In this letter I shall speak about my parents as I promised in the first letter. My daddy w as born January, 4, 1945. He also, as i, has grown and was life in Ulyanovsk. I spoke already, that he works at an automobile factory. In 2 years he will be the pensioner. He waits for this moment with impatience. (smile) He works as the simple worker on assembly of automobiles. I do not know as you to explain, he collects any part of the automobile engine. And so 40 years he works on one operation. He speaks, that it has very much bothered him, therefore he waits with impatience of the pension age. My mum was born February, 22, 1952. She was born in Vladivostok. The destiny has resulted her to Ulyanovsk on distribution after study in school. (College) Earlier training was free-of-charge, therefore graduates of educational institutions should work 2 years there where the state will consider necessary. It as the tribute for a permission to study. Here in Ulyanovsk mine mum and daddy have met. Date of their wedding - April, 1, 1974. In one and a half year in their family I have appeared. Unfortunately, I am one child in family. I have no brother or the sister. I remember, as I asked in the childhood mum about brother or the sister. Mum then has answered, that she and daddy will think of this question. In a result, I have all the same remained one child in family. I think of my parents enough. Unfortunately, I have no photo of my parents on the computer. Now I shall speak a little about myself. My growth 5 ` 6, my weight it approximately 120lbs, I try to support a figure, Probably when or I can, prepare for you something tasty of Russian kitchen. I very much like to observe films especially about love, This fine feeling. love-such simple word, but in it consists so much, I very much want to tell to you that I think about it. If all people though for one minute will this feeling that in the world will not be wars, fear, murders. Probably I yet still have not has felt it. I had the person with which I attitudes were had, but it was finished, I now do not want to tell to you about it, probably then... I never left for limits of the country, probably to me it would be pleasant to travel. If you want shall ask me something is I glad to answer you on questions, but I not so well know English, therefore do not take offence if I shall not answer a question, I can, not understand it. Now, when I have told about my family, parents and about myself, I shall ask from you too it I shall be glad to find out about you more and more. If you will write about yourself the same, that I write about myself. It will help us with continuation of our attitudes. Probably our attitudes can proceed to more high level. Yours faithfully to my friend Joe, Alexandra.

Hello Joe, I am glad to receive from you the answer. In this world there is a person who wishes with me acquaintance. Excuse me beforehand if my letter will be a little bit incoherent. I not able to begin acquaintance. But if I began, I shall write in this letter a little about me. Also I shall send one of my photos. I was born September, 25, 1976. And i have 27 years. It is a lot of. And I reflect on the future life. I want to have own family. I want to bring up own children. I was born and have grown in city of Ulyanovsk. It is the big industrial city in the centre of Russia. Here nearby there is a huge automobile factory. The majority of inhabitants of Ulyanovsk works at this factory. Including my father. My mum works also at this factory. She works there in a first-aid as medical sister. About my parents I shall tell in the following letter more. Now, as I spoke, I shall write about myself. As I spoke already, I was born in 1976. Up to 7 years i went to a kindergarten. As my parents could not be constant with me. Since 7 years I began to go to school. I studied very well. After leaving school in 1994, I have gone to the Ulyanovsk medical institute. As I had the fine certificate after leaving school. I could study in Institute free-of-charge. In 1999 I have finished training in Institute. Since that year I work in children's hospital as the therapist. My task on work - to define the diagnosis of disease. If necessary I should send patients on various inspections. Work with children forces me to be more attentive. Work with children is more difficult, than with adult people. But I have got used. And more, my work is pleasant to me. And I have pleasure, that I can help children. Probably, the love to children has come to me with age. And I have understood, the children - our future. Therefore, I would like to have own children. You will ask me why I have chosen you? Why I shall not find the man in the own country? I do not know what to answer you. I already spoke, that I am not able to get acquainted. And simply in the street I can not strike up an acquaintance with the stranger. My girlfriend, the fellow worker, has offered me to find acquaintance with the help of the Internet. And now I write you from Internet - cafe. I have no own computer. It is expensive very much. And I can not allow this luxury. In own possession it is not enough computers in our country. Probably the level of our life does not allow to live so that to afford much. No, I do not complain of bad life in Russia. I earn enough to live in Russia. Well, I shall finish this letter. If you, having read my letter, agree to continue with me acquaintance. I was possible shall give for you one question: " You agree to have acquaintance with the Russian woman and if all will be good, you agree to have serious attitudes with her? " Yours faithfully, your new familiar Alexandra.

Hello Excuse me, but I have committed a small mistake in my structure. I do not live in USA, I live in Russia. I live in city of Ulyanovsk. I want to have with you acquaintance. I hope, that you have kind heart which will be open for me. And it is possible, that we shall have long acquaintances. I would like it. Please, you write to me on e-mail: cjtydhy@mail.ru I with pleasure shall send more information on me, and also a photo. I think, that I shall not disappoint you. With impatience I wait for your answer. Yours faithfully and with hope, Alexandra. MEMBER: trinity875 (1652765).

Hello my love Joe! I am sincerely glad to your letter. I with you completely agree real love can to arise only then if we shall meet you. But I start to understand already now, that in me the LOVE wakes up. Because appearance it not the main thing. The main thing you to me have opened in the letter soul is the most important for me Appearance is latest criterion of love because you love in the person And the person it first of all OPPRESS Because if you can help me it will speed up our meeting. I LIKE, the KISS, I HOPE. With impatience I wait for your following letter. Your love Alexandra.

Hello my love Joe! I am happy to receive your letter. Today in the morning as I spoke, I went to visa agency. I asked about moving to your country and I got the answer that I need the visa, foreign passport and some other documents for registration. We have defined a type of the visa and it's type which allows to marry in the future This visa allows me to be in your country during 90 days. I think, that it will be enough to know each other and in a consequence to marry. If we marry during validity of the visa, I can remain with you on more time. If we do not marry, I should leave your country on the termination of validity of the visa. I asked about prices and was very surprised, first I ask about time of performance. and they said that there is many people who wants to make documents and leave the country Therefore, if I wish to fly in the country earlier, I should write the application and pay the visa on next week. Then the visa will be ready during 2 weeks. If I can not write the application and pay the visa on next week, that I should wait manufacture of the visa during 2-3 months. I was very much surprised with the prices of services. The visa costs approximately 250 dollars, and the passport and necessary documents cost 79 dollars. It's make me little suppressed and disappointed. I don't have so much now. I was make application but I must pay for it. I asked my mother about our savings she said that the money should not be a barrier between two people which love each other. I counted my sum and I found out that I have only about fifty dollars and my wages. will be not soon. I asked my friends about helping me and they said that have not at the present moment. I asked the advice my mother and she said that maybe you can help me, because you loves me. I asked her how he can help me, because he is far from me. My mother said that you can send the money through company which make this service. I asked about it, on my work and I know now, that exists reliable and fast company, which makes remittances in world and it's western union. I remember that I saw advertising this company on tv. I take a directory book and found the address of it and it's not far from me. I went there, and I asked them about service. They said that sender must go to the western union, give them information: the name and last name of receiver, country they make transfer and bring the ten digits secret code to sender. The receiver must know ten digits for receiving money. They say that the branches of it must be everywhere worldwide. Here is the information about me: Country: Russia. City: Ulyanovsk. Name: Alexandra. Lastname: Tsapaeva. Address of branch of western union: BIN-Bank. The address: street. Pochtovaya, 11, 432031. I must know your full name, full address. You must know that I decide to ask you about it because I love you and trust you very much. I decide to come to you because I feel this way and you are very necessary to me, decided to come to the unfamiliar country and I never be outside my country. But I decided to do it because now you are part of my life and I trust you in all. I think you trust me too and love me too. You must inform me the closest airport to you I'll ask the help with ticket from my relatives. Please, don't forget to tell me the closest airport. My love I need 300 dollars I think you will help me because we found our love and we want to meet closer. You must inform me ten digits and I can receive it. You must know we must hurry because I can receive the documents soon, and if we lost the time it is necessary for a long time. Now it's very difficultly to receive the visa to your country, and it's fact, but if I pay now, I think I do it. I think about sense of money, and I'm very sad if this paper can prevent people to meet each other. In most cases the money play a main role in life but it's not right! I'm sure. And the quantity of money was and will not important to me, I always not aspired to material enrichment and don't search specially for rich male. I appreciate human qualities and relations, and I love you Joe!!! I love you all my heart, I want to be with you now. I want to be with you forever. If it's mutually we will be very happy in our life. I think you love me too and we will meet very soon. You are my love, my Angel. My heart is yours. Probably, you will not trust me after that the letter. Probably, you will decide that I am a deceiver. But I can repeat to you, all my words, all my ideas, all my feelings to you is a true. And as though the destiny has not turned to us, as though you have not decided, I shall love all the same you. And I shall prove to you, that it is not simple words. I'm waiting good news from you, I hope everything will be all right and we will be together soon. Every day I think about our meeting, and I think it's real, we must use this chance of destiny. I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!! Your love Alexandra.


Alexandra Tsapaeva_2 (Ulyanovsk City - Russia)

Hey Guys; Thank you for your website. After receiving 7 emails of what sounded too good to be true I went to google and type in the name that "she" gave me and it led me to your site. Here is the last, 8th email "she" sent along with 4 pictures. I hope this helps. The email address "she" used is cjtydhy@mail.ru and she came into christianmingle.com using the screen name of Alex123 and no picture to go with "her" profile. Fortunately it was caught in time. I wouldn't have sent money, but I guess lots of people got took. I have everything documented on disc if anything more is needed. Thank you again for shedding light on this fraud. Russ in Michigan.

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Hello my love Russ! I am happy to receive your letter. Today in the morning as I spoke, I went to visa agency. I asked about moving to your country and I got the answer that I need the visa, foreign passport and some other documents for registration. We have defined a type of the visa and it's type which allows to marry in the future This visa allows me to be in your country during 90 days. I think, that it will be enough to know each other and in a consequence to marry. If we marry during validity of the visa, I can remain with you on more time. If we do not marry, I should leave your country on the termination of validity of the visa. I asked about prices and was very surprised, first I ask about time of performance. and they said that there is many people who wants to make documents and leave the country Therefore, if I wish to fly in the country earlier, I should write the application and pay the visa on next week. Then the visa will be ready during 2 weeks. If I can not write the application and pay the visa on next week, that I should wait manufacture of the visa during 2-3 months. I was very much surprised with the prices of services. The visa costs approximately 250 dollars, and the passport and necessary documents cost 79 dollars. It's make me little suppressed and disappointed. I don't have so much now. I was make application but I must pay for it. I asked my mother about our savings she said that the money should not be a barrier between two people which love each other. I counted my sum and I found out that I have only about fifty dollars and my wages. will be not soon. I asked my friends about helping me and they said that have not at the present moment. I asked the advice my mother and she said that maybe you can help me, because you loves me. I asked her how he can help me, because he is far from me. My mother said that you can send the money through company which make this service. I asked about it, on my work and I know now, that exists reliable and fast company, which makes remittances in world and it's western union. I remember that I saw advertising this company on tv. I take a directory book and found the address of it and it's not far from me. I went there, and I asked them about service. They said that sender must go to the western union, give them information: the name and last name of receiver, country they make transfer and bring the ten digits secret code to sender. The receiver must know ten digits for receiving money. They say that the branches of it must be everywhere worldwide. Here is the information about me: Country: Russia. City: Ulyanovsk. Name: Alexandra. Lastname: Tsapaeva. Address of branch of western union: BIN-Bank. The address: street. Pochtovaya, 11, 432031. I must know your full name, full address. You must now that I decide to ask you about it because I love you and trust you very much. I decide to come to you because I feel this way and you are very necessary to me, decided to come to the unfamiliar country and I never be outside my country. But I decided to do it because now you are part of my life and I trust you in all. I think you trust me too and love me too. You must inform me the closest airport to you I'll ask the help with ticket from my relatives. Please, don't forget to tell me the closest airport. My love I need 300 dollars I think you will help me because we found our love and we want to meet closer. You must inform me ten digits and I can receive it. You must know we must hurry because I can receive the documents soon, and if we lost the time it is necessary for a long time. Now it's very difficultly to receive the visa to your country, and it's fact, but if I pay now, I think I do it. I think about sense of money, and I'm very sad if this paper can prevent people to meet each other. In most cases the money play a main role in life but it's not right! I'm sure. And the quantity of money was and will not important to me, I always not aspired to material enrichment and don't search specially for rich male. I appreciate human qualities and relations, and I love you Russ!!! I love you all my heart, I want to be with you now. I want to be with you forever. If it's mutually we will be very happy in our life. I think you love me too and we will meet very soon. You are my love, my Angel. My heart is yours. Probably, you will not trust me after that the letter. Probably, you will decide that I am a deceiver. But I can repeat to you, all my words, all my ideas, all my feelings to you is a true. And as though the destiny has not turned to us, as though you have not decided, I shall love all the same you. And I shall prove to you, that it is not simple words. I'm waiting good news from you, I hope everything will be all right and we will be together soon. Every day I think about our meeting, and I think it's real, we must use this chance of destiny. I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!! Your love Alexandra


Alexandra Tsapaeva3 (Ulyanovsk city, Russia)

Hi, my name is Mike. I am a single father of 3, white American, 37 years old and I am a dentist. I initially received an unsolicited contact from Alexandra through loveandseek.com, with the user name kiskasosiska. Her profile on the website said she was from South Carolina. She explained this discrepancy in her first email. We exchanged seven emails between 7/27/04 and 8/3/04. Thanks to your 4th article in the "Nine Simple Rules for Dating a Russian Woman" series, I determined she was a scam artist and found her already on your sites blacklist under the names Elena Mesnalkina and Marina Yamaeva. Thanks to your site I discovered the scam and discontinued contact before any money was sent. I contacted loveandseek.com and they have discontinued her profile. I also suggested that they contact the other members contacted by kiskasosiska, aka Alexandra. Thanks again for your site, Mike, Lakeville, MN, USA.

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7/27/04

Kiskasosiska wrote: Hello Excuse me, but I have committed a small mistake in my structure. I do not live in USA, I live in Russia. I live in city of Ulyanovsk. I want to have with you acquaintance. I hope, that you have kind heart which will be open for me. And it is possible, that we shall have long acquaintances. I would like it. Please, you write to me on e-mail: cjtydhy@mail.ru I with pleasure shall send more information on me, and also a photo. I think, that I shall not disappoint you. With impatience I wait for your answer. Yours faithfully and with hope, Alexandra.

7/28/04

Hello Mike, I am glad to receive from you the answer. In this world there is a person who wishes with me acquaintance. Excuse me beforehand if my letter will be a little bit incoherent. I not able to begin acquaintance. But if I began, I shall write in this letter a little about me. Also I shall send one of my photos. I was born September, 25, 1976. And i have 27 years. It is a lot of. And I reflect on the future life. I want to have own family. I want to bring up own children. I was born and have grown in city of Ulyanovsk. It is the big industrial city in the centre of Russia. Here nearby there is a huge automobile factory. The majority of inhabitants of Ulyanovsk works at this factory. Including my father. My mum works also at this factory. She works there in a first-aid as medical sister. About my parents I shall tell in the following letter more. Now, as I spoke, I shall write about myself. As I spoke already, I was born in 1976. Up to 7 years i went to a kindergarten. As my parents could not be constant with me. Since 7 years I began to go to school. I studied very well. After leaving school in 1994, I have gone to the Ulyanovsk medical institute. As I had the fine certificate after leaving school. I could study in Institute free-of-charge. In 1999 I have finished training in Institute. Since that year I work in children's hospital as the therapist. My task on work - to define the diagnosis of disease. If necessary I should send patients on various inspections. Work with children forces me to be more attentive. Work with children is more difficult, than with adult people. But I have got used. And more, my work is pleasant to me. And I have pleasure, that I can help children. Probably, the love to children has come to me with age. And I have understood, the children - our future. Therefore, I would like to have own children. You will ask me why I have chosen you? Why I shall not find the man in the own country? I do not know what to answer you. I already spoke, that I am not able to get acquainted. And simply in the street I can not strike up an acquaintance with the stranger. My girlfriend, the fellow worker, has offered me to find acquaintance with the help of the Internet. And now I write you from Internet - cafe. I have no own computer. It is expensive very much. And I can not allow this luxury. In own possession it is not enough computers in our country. Probably the level of our life does not allow to live so that to afford much. No, I do not complain of bad life in Russia. I earn enough to live in Russia. Well, I shall finish this letter. If you, having read my letter, agree to continue with me acquaintance. I was possible shall give for you one question: " You agree to have acquaintance with the Russian woman and if all will be good, you agree to have serious attitudes with her? " Yours faithfully, your new familiar Alexandra.

7/29/04

Hello my friend Mike. I am glad to receive your new letter. It means, that we can continue acquaintance. In this letter I shall speak about my parents as I promised in the first letter. But all over again I shall answer your questions: What do you like to do in your free time?----In the free time I am engaged in that I knit clothes from a wool (for example a sweater). Also in my free time I read cognitive books and books about love. Also I read the literature which helps to me on work. These are magazines which inform novelties in area Medicine, also they inform new medicines. Do you attend a Church?----I the christian. I go to Russian orthodox church. I believe in Jesus. Would you like to live in the United States eventually?----I did not think yet of it. But I shall think about it necessarily. Have you traveled to other countries?-----there Is no I never travelled to other countries. Where is your city?----my city to be for 1000 kilometers from Moscow, it about the river of Volga. My daddy was born January, 4, 1945. He also, as i, has grown and was life in Ulyanovsk. I spoke already, that he works at an automobile factory. In 2 years he will be the pensioner. He waits for this moment with impatience. (smile) He works as the simple worker on assembly of automobiles. I do not know as you to explain, he collects any part of the automobile engine. And so 40 years he works on one operation. He speaks, that it has very much bothered him, therefore he waits with impatience of the pension age. My mum was born February, 22, 1952. She was born in Vladivostok. The destiny has resulted her to Ulyanovsk on distribution after study in school. (College) Earlier training was free-of-charge, therefore graduates of educational institutions should work 2 years there where the state will consider necessary. It as the tribute for a permission to study. Here in Ulyanovsk mine mum and daddy have met. Date of their wedding - April, 1, 1974. In one and a half year in their family I have appeared. Unfortunately, I am one child in family. I have no brother or the sister. I remember, as I asked in the childhood mum about brother or the sister. Mum then has answered, that she and daddy will think of this question. In a result, I have all the same remained one child in family. I think of my parents enough. Unfortunately, I have no photo of my parents on the computer. Now I shall speak a little about myself. My growth 5 ` 6, my weight it approximately 120lbs, I try to support a figure, Probably when or I can, prepare for you something tasty of Russian kitchen. I very much like to observe films especially about love, This fine feeling. love-such simple word, but in it consists so much, I very much want to tell to you that I think about it. If all people though for one minute will this feeling that in the world will not be wars, fear, murders. Probably I yet still have not has felt it. I had the person with which I attitudes were had, but it was finished, I now do not want to tell to you about it, probably then... I never left for limits of the country, probably to me it would be pleasant to travel. If you want shall ask me something is I glad to answer you on questions, but I not so well know English, therefore do not take offence if I shall not answer a question, I can, not understand it. Now, when I have told about my family, parents and about myself, I shall ask from you too it I shall be glad to find out about you more and more. If you will write about yourself the same, that I write about myself. It will help us with continuation of our attitudes. Probably our attitudes can proceed to more high level. Yours faithfully to my friend Mike, Alexandra.

7/30/04

Hello my dear friend Mike. I feel, that we with each letter become closer to each other. Therefore I can tell to you about my last private life. When to me was 22 years, I have got acquainted with the beautiful guy. And if to be fair, I loved him very much. I now also recollect him. But it in the past. I loved him, and I did not notice, that he is engaged in dark affairs. He was a criminal. He is stole. And I did not notice it. He spoke, that he works, as the manager in bank. I thought so. I at all did not ask in what bank he worked. We were constantly together. While he has not got in prison. I could not forgive to him it. He should sit in prison of 13 years for a robbery of bank. Certainly, later I went to him on appointment. He spoke me, that I have forgiven him for a deceit. He spoke, that when he will leave from prison, he will finish with the past. He will be employed on work, that he will be the fair citizen. And I trusted him selflessly. I go constantly to him on appointment during 3 years. And I would continue to go to him further. But in one day when I have come to him on appointment, the security guard has not started up me. In a consequence, the security guard of prison has told me, that he has died. He was killed with criminals which also sat in prison. And I do not know for what. After that news, I became closed. I could not speak much. I have pushed away from myself thoughtless girlfriends. Girlfriends bothered me. I have only one closest girlfriend. I can share all secrets with them. And she will support me always. If to speak about prison on statistics, each half man sat or sits in prison. And who on freedom, that drinks alcohol in plenties. I do not know with what it is connected, but it is the truth. If to tell in detail about this reason, it is possible to find many reasons to explain it. I think, that in it the government of Russia is guilty. Russia does not give social guarantees for inhabitants of Russia. No, I do not speak what to live in Russia difficultly. I do not complain of difficulties. We have a saying: "if we shall be alive we shall not die" Though, if I shall be fair if I had an opportunity to leave to live in other country I would go with pleasure. But what I shall do in other country? I do not know, that I could do in other country. And here I have got used. I have work, I have parents whom I love. One, that I have not here - the man with which I am capable to create family. Probably, I treat men of my country intently after my last acquaintance with the man. I do not know. But I have difficulties with acquaintance with men. And now I am glad, that we have started to correspond with each other. I hope we on it shall not stop. Now when I have written to you this letter, I am afraid, that you can not answer me more. Please, you do not cease to write to me the letter. With your letters I forget my past, and I start to think of the future more. I am sure, that we are waited the fine future. Probably I speak about it early. You see we know about each other a little. And the further acquaintance is necessary for us. But we have taken the first step. And we should make many steps before we can tell each other: " I love you ". And I very much hope, that you really will agree with me. And we shall correspond further. I shall wait from you for the letter. Your friend Alexandraю

7/31/04

Hello my dear friend Mike. Many thanks to you for the letter back. Excuse me for the last letter. It was little bit sad. But it was all in the past. In this letter I shall not write sad histories of my life. With each letter, I understand that we become more adhered to each other. Therefore I shall give you my home address: Russia 432601, Ulyanovsk city, Street M.Gor'kogo, the house 27, apartment 43. Name: Alexandra, Surname: Tsapaeva. I think, that you can send me the letter correct mail. If you also will give me your home address, I also can send you the letter. But I think, it is not so convenient for us. Each letter will go very long. Still we have a problem that by correct mail not always the letter achieves the addressee. Probably our mail works badly. I also would like to speak with you, but at present, I have found out, it is impossible. And I very much would like to hear your voice. I think, that you also would like to hear my voice. But I regret, it is impossible. I can not afford the phone which is connected to the international lines. It is very expensive. Our city have not also such phones. They are only at rich people. I have found out, that such phones are in Moscow and in Saint Petersburg. They are at the international airports. And telephone conversation is costs very expensive. Therefore I can not call to you. It is a pity. But I am happy, that presently there is an opportunity to contact you with the help of the Internet. I think, that the Internet - great achievement of a science. It allows to speak with people, taking place on the big distances. And I am very pleased, that we could meet each other with the help of the Internet. Yes, I nearly have not overlooked, I have informed my parents about you. That we have acquaintance. I have told my parents a little about you. In the beginning, they have considered cautiously to ours to attitudes. But subsequently, mum sends the regards to you. She hopes, that in the future we shall be magnificent pair. If it is fair, I too think so. But we know each other absolutely short period of time. And I think, that early to speak about it. I simply have not anybody, except for you , whom I can inform these words. And I really hope for continuation of our attitudes. I think, that you not against. Kiss. Alexandra.

8/2/04

Hello my best friend Mike. Before I shall write to you my letter I shall answer your questions: What are you looking for in a partner?----For me the most important it that the person had kind soul and loving heart. You see if the person loves other person only for his beautiful appearance it will not result to good. Appearance of the person can be deceptive. Appearance will change eventually, the person will grow old also his appearance too. And the soul of the person and his heart will be a constant all time. Therefore I first of all pay attention to what at the person soul and heart. It is very important for me!!!! Why did you choose to contact me of all the men on the internet?------I do not know why I have chosen you. You are right, on the Internet there were many people. But I have stopped on you. Probably it to me was prompted with destiny. I shall see it in the future. What is your favorite food and drink?----I do not drink many alcoholic drinks. I only allow itself to drink a glass of champagne on holidays. My favourite foodstuffs is salad from vegetables with greens. And also I very much love ice-cream. What makes you happy?----I am done happy with simply good weather in the street. To me very much to like when the sun shines and behind my window sing birdies. It very much pleases me. It gives me a of energy and good mood for all day. What kind of music do you like?-------I like to listen to quiet and lyrical music which helps to me will be weakened and to have a rest from everyday problems. Such music helps me to forget on any time about these problems. I prefer to listen to the Madonna. I am glad to see your letter. I understand, that between us fine attitudes are fastened. And I become sure, that sometime there will come day when we can tell each other:" I love you ". Probably I am mistaken. Today, before writing to you the letter, I spoke with the manager of Internet - cafe. He has told, that in the Internet it is a lot of deceit, therefore I should be cautious. But under your letters, I understand, that I should not be afraid of a deceit. He also spoke, that many girls fall in love false to entice money or with the help of this false love to go in USA. These girls very much prevent acquaintance through the Internet. My god why in this world there is not enough validity? But you can trust me, I do not deceive you. Though, probably, you will not trust me. But I have no idea to deceive you. I know, that such a deceit and his consequences. If someone has deceived me, I had feeling, that my private world is devastated. And I, in this occasion, have huge grief. Well, I shall forget this bad theme for conversation today. I shall write a little about my daily routine. Per working days I rise early from bed. These are 6.00 mornings. It would be wonderful, if I could wake up near to you and speak you "good morning". But it only dreams. Then I go in a bath where I wash and I clean a teeth. Then I do small gymnastics that my muscles came in the order. Further I prepare for breakfast. In the morning I do not like to fill in my stomach. I eat a little. I make sandwiches with sausage, cheese and cooked eggs And then I drink tea with a lemon. It is my breakfast. At 7.15 I go for work. I go for work on bus, as I have not the own automobile. In 8.00 my work begins. I spoke you about my duties on work, therefore I shall continue my narration. From 12.00 till 13.00 I have a lunch break. I usually fill him to write to you the letter. I also write you this letter in a lunch break. My work comes to an end in 17.00 evenings. And I go home. At home, I am usually occupied with domestic affairs. It is washing of clothes, cleaning of rooms from a dust. And another. At leisure, I watch TV more. In days off, I also am in the basic house. I do not like with recent time to go on various dances or a bar. It is not interesting to me. Sometimes I go to my girlfriend Elena. We can speak with her on any themes of conversation. I can not tell you about my hobby. I have no attachment to something. Though........ If to count knitting from a wool of a hobby, it is my hobby. When, I have time and there is a desire, I knitting a jacket for 2 days. Well, I shall finish to write to you. I shall wait for the letter from you, as always. With love, Alexandra.

8/3/04

Hi my love Mike! I shall be possible to name you my love? Probably I hurry with conclusions. But I am sure that the love arrives to our hearts. You know, in the childhood I dreamed, that I shall find the prince , with whom I can come on edge of the ground. In a consequence, I have understood, that actually there are no princes. Ideal the man cannot be found. But close to an ideal which is necessary for you, you can find. I can not tell you with confidence, that you - my ideal. No. You too can not tell, that I - your ideal. But in it the reason, what people fall in love? No. The reason here in many respects. I can not explain an origin of love. I can not explain why the woman draws to the man. I can not explain why the man draws to the woman. It occurs at a subconscious level. Private world of the person informs to the person about it. And in a consequence, you understand, that it is the truth. I write you it, that you could understand what to be created in my ideas. I understand, that you are intended for me, but I am afraid to inform you about it. I also am afraid to tell you that the love to you has come in my heart. I am afraid to tell you, that I love you. I am afraid to tell it as the love should be mutual. My mum also speaks me, that I should be more cautious with the feelings. With feeling of love, the person does many nonsenses. And I not exception. You know, when I have decided to begin acquaintance through the Internet, I thought about myself. (for fun or seriously) It is interesting, if I shall find the love in USA, I should go in USA? ( it there were my ideas before I have got acquainted with you) Further, I did not think of it. But time has come, when I should think of it. I think that you agree with me. My lovely, my dear, I am afraid to speak you about it, but I LOVE YOU!!! And I shall wait for the letter from you with impatience. Your Alexandra


Angela Bajkova (Chelyabinsk, Russia)

I was contacted by this Russian scammer who found my profile on FriendFinder.com. She started out by saying she had never done this sort of thing before (sending a email to someone thru a dating web site), however right from the beginning i knew something was up when she said she had never done this before for the following reason: At the end of her first email, she requested i contact her at her own email address, and she included the email address by typing it as follows: Angeela (at) mail14 (dot)com. Now only someone who has sent out emails thru these dating web sites before knows that you can not include your regular email address when sending emails thru there system as there system will pick up a properly typed out address such as if she typed it angeela@mail15.com, therefore i instantly knew that she had lied to me right from the very beginning when she said she had never done this before, otherwise how would she know not to type out a proper form of her emil address!

I decided to write back to her anyway to find out where this would end up and she replied with a promised photo of herself and also said that she will send a photo with every email she sends from this point on. By the forth email she decided that it was time we talked about meeting, followed by a email telling me that she loves me and that i am her life. She would not give any info about her family except to say that both of her parents died in a car crash and she doesnt like to talk about it. She also made sure in the first couple emails that i knew how poor she was, and that she was "all alone in this big cruel world". By the 6th of 7th email she got around to telling me that she would need $196 for a visa to come and see me and start our family. It as about this point when i discovered this web site and found her exact same photos posted on the russian womens black list web site. I decided to string her along and get her hopes up and perhpas even cause her some hassles by telling her that i might as well include money for the plane ticket along with the visa money and i asked her to find out how much she would need for air fare. She got back to me right away stating she would need $500 more for airfare. She also included all necessary information that i would need to send the money to her thru Western Union, including the location of the nearest Western Union to her. I then told her that i had sent out a total of $700 to cover both visa and airfare and that i couldnt wait for her to come to me!

Her next email was priceless as she had gone to Western Union only to discover that no money was waiting there for her! I told her that i would look into it, then emailed her bakc and said something must be wrong as i checked and th emoney is still sitting hter ewaiting for her. She returned back to Western Union a total of 2 more times each time of course empty handed when she left! Finally i told her that i checked the status of the money one last time and that it had been picked up, ( and i pretended that i was excited as i presummed she had picked up the money), and how i couldnt wait to see her now that she had the money! Well her next email was a email full of panic and dispare as she repeatedly cried about how there had been a mistake and that she never received the money! Finally i told her that somebody else must have got her money then and that i could not afford to chance losing $700 again, so i said that instead of me sending money to her, i would fly to Russia and visit her!!! Her next email made no mention of me wanting to fly to Russia, rather she now stated that she has friends and she will ask them for money. Next email she had great news! Her friends amazingly had given her enough money for visa and were going to give money for plane ticket once she got her visa. I emailed back and said that i want to come to Russia. She emailed back after that and again made no mention of me wanting to go to Russia, but rahter she told me now that she got a letter from the embassy and that tomorrow she is flying to moscow to have a interview for her visa and that as soon as she gets it she will buy plane ticket. Now i am sure that the scam she was working on this time around was to once again ask me for some money for a plane ticket because she is just a little bit short of enough money to buy the ticket even though she had gone this far and got her visa and most of the money for the plane ticket! Since she refused to acknowledge my wanting to go to Russia to see her, i sent her one last email stating that it looks like i will be in Russia at the same time that she will be here to see me, and that i was sure that things will turn out well for me as Russia has plenty of other good looking women for me to meet!

I am glad that i was able to turn the tables on this scammer and send her on a wild goose chase back and forth to Western Union several times only to have her in a panic when i told her the money was there waiting for her and now it is gone taken by someone else! She must have died thinking she was so damn close to scoring big time on yet another poor sucker only to have the money slip right thru her slimy fingers! I fell asleep with a smile on my face that night. John.


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