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Thank you so much Elena for your site. I've been in correspondence with a girl claiming to be from Omsk. Her name is Elena Surtsukova. I never sent money but another person did and I found his story on your site. I'm a single dad raising two kids and she almost had me hooked.  Sad to say I'm sitting here on Valentines day after sending her an e-card with a broken heart. I have you to thank though. It is you who deserves flowers and e-cards not her!!! Thank you so much. Troy

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February 26, 2004 - page 1

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Hello! Iīm a single 31 year old male nurse from Austria. Itīs the first time that i found this website. She wrote to me in November 2003 and used the name Zoya (mail:, said sheīs from Novosemeykino, Russia, and is 27 years old. She asked me for money for internet access after 3 mails, i stopped conversation. Never heard from her again. - I have not more information, deleted all mails. Thomas


Thanks to your web site, Anastasia/Nadejda, what ever her name is didn't scam me. Here is her last letter to me, date 02/23/04. She contacted me through Absolute Agency, I have a free ad posted there. I'm a 34 year old single father living in Pensacola, Fl, USA. I have attached all her pictures that she has sent me, please spread the word. I've also CC'ed her on this email. I guess the laugh is on her this time!  She's a real parasite! Help stop her!


Hello my love, Darrin!!! I so am glad that you to write to me and that I to find so much letters  on my box. I am happy and to thank our God that he to help us and and to meet you  in my life. I am happy that I can to speak it to you. I shall be the happiest  girl when we can meet in the future. You a beam of light in my heart. You mine supermen and I of you so to Like!!! I have understood that you are necessary for me as air and that I want To be with you beside. While I to be sick I frequently to think of you. I  represented as you enter into my room and I feel your aroma.You cautiously put me on a  sofa to unbutton to me a dress and your soft hands begin to caress my breast softly. And our bodies merge in the whole and you compress me so urgently, that we hear as our hearts begin to beat in one rhythm. Then we begin to be borrowed love. About as I to want that this dream was carried  out! But I test some difficulties with money to the visa. I very much to  want to be with you, but I to not know what to do. I to learn that it is necessary for me to make that I could arrive to you and always to be near to you  in your embrace. I would like to arrive to you under the visa of bride K-1, but it is  very difficult for receiving. To receive visa K-1 it is necessary to make out very  many documents and on its registration a lot of time, almost a floor of year is necessary.  I to not want to wait so long. Therefore I to want to arrive to you under the  visa of tourist B-2. The visa of category B-2 is given out to tourists, people leaving in  USA for rest, visitings of friends or relatives. For reception of visa B-2 it is  necessary for me to fill in the questionnaire - application on reception of the not  immigration visa, form OF-156. Term of stay under visa B-2 is determined in limits from 3 about 6  months. If necessary it, it is possible to prolong a maximum till one year.  Legally being on territory of USA, I having the not immigration visa can request in  further sanctions of Service of immigration and naturalization on: Change of the status  with not immigration on immigration and to receive the visa of bride K-1. Having received  the visa of bride K-1 we can get married and I for ever can remain near to you. I would like  to leave for you in marriage and to begin your wife. We would have fine loving family and  we would be very happy together. You to want that I became your wife? On  registration of the visa, all information, documents it is necessary for me about 350 dollars.  But I to not have such big sum of money as at me not the big wages and I was not capable will  pay the visa. I very much ask you that you have helped me to pay cost of the visa and  registration of all necessary documents that I could receive the visa and arrive to you. Your help is  very necessary for me. I am very strong to love you and can not live without you any more and  one day. I think that you to want that I could arrive to you more soon and we could meet. I  learnthat you may to send money through the Western Union and I can receive money to  the visa. I to write to you the address of bank of the Western Union where you should send  money: BANK OF MOSCOW KAMENSKAYA, 30  NOVOSIBIRSK , 630099  Nadejda Hlyibova Then you to send me money please inform me of ten figures hich should  give you on the Western Union (MTCN).Also inform me the data: your post address and  your full name. All this to me to tell in bank, but I might forget something, therefore  ask the employee of bank that else you should inform me that I to receive your money.  Please write to me the name of the international airport closest to you where I should  fly.If you to send, I to fly in Moscow and to go in embassy to begin to make out the visa.  I to remain there at my cousines. She is always glad to me. Lovely mine, I so miss on you  and very much I wait when we shall be together.I with huge impatience shall wait for  your letter. For ever loving you Nadejda. Best regards, nadyusha74


Ekaterina Polushina (Cheboksary, Russia)

Hello Iīm a single 31 year old male nurse from Austria.  I had conversation with her in August/September 2003. I found her on a single-website (sorry, donīt know which one). Her name is Ekaterina Polushina, in Cheboksary (In a report posted on Feb. 20, 2003 she was from Yoshkar-Ola). Her mail was  She fell in love after 2 mails (as usual) and wanted to come and visit me. She only wrote about love, but never about something personal and didnīt answer questions. She also didnīt ask about my country (which should be interesting for her if she really would come to visit me). She asked for money for visa and tickets. I did send her the money, but not with Western Union (as she wanted), but with a normal, registered letter. From the moment on that i agreed to send her the money her letters  became short and only about "When will the money arrive?". My good  luck was to send the money in a normal letter because after 3 weeks the letter came back as undeliverable (i think, i cannot read russian).  She stopped conversation when i told her that other girls write more about themself in 2 mails than she had done in one month. Greetings Thomas

Julia/Yulia, Yliana

Iīm a single 31 year old male nurse from Austria. The story is the same as posted on Dec.11, 2003. To me it happend in Nov 2003. She wrote to me and thanked for a mail i have never written to her, she never answered direct questions, but sent pics every day. She even wrote her  first name in a few different ways (Julia, Yulia, Yliana). Very fast she fell in love and wanted to meet me. She asked for money for the visa and ticket and after i replyed that i could send the same tickets very much cheaper she stopped conversation. I have no letters from her, because i deleted them - i wished i had known this page before, - but they are generally the same as in the story about her posted on Dec.11, 2003. Greetings Thomas

Olga (Vladimir, Russia)

I am single father of one, 38 year old caucasion American. After 7 letters, Olga said she was in Love with me, she never answered any of my questions, which threw a red flag up, and by the 10th letter, she asked for $360 to buy a Visa from a US Embassy that did not exist. Here are her letters:


Hello my friend!  I am called Olga, me with 27 years. I the modest Russian girl  who searches for the true love in this big world. I live in remarkable city Vladimir which is not far from Moscow. I very cheerful and sociable person, love the good companies, cheerful parties, also like to go to cinema and theatre. I like to listen to music which is romantic. I have some hobby - I adore being going and I really good cook, I know many the various refined dishes. I search for the person who would have the following qualities: Nobleness, honesty, trust, responsiveness, the help a difficult minute, care of the near person, love, diligence, understanding, possession sense of humor. Among men in Russia I to not find to myself the man which would be for me as desirable, I not so trust to men in Russia. The person whom I shall grow fond also which will love truly me and the care of me, this person learns me all and I always shall try to make so that this the man was the happiest the man on light! I dream in the future to have children: the boy and the girl, and the happy family to live in the consent and the world with loved by the man. I have seen your announcement and you have very much liked me, I would like to learn about you more. Please write to me on my personal e-mail:

I shall inform you more about myself and I shall send you a photo. I wait for your letter, my friend. Yours faithfully Olga!

Hello my dear Dan!!! I with understanding treat your letters. I always to wait for your new letter with impatience. I always to read your letters am attentive to not pass the most important about you. I to study you under letters, but it seems to me, that it is not enough of it. Most likely it is necessary for us will meet in the person. I completely trust you and I hope you to me too in all trust. I begin to fall in love with you and it is pleasant to me. Now I each day to think of you. You always in my ideas. I to worry about you, you to me am very expensive. There may be it our chance. And we should not miss it. Today at work we with girlfriends to talk about you. And all my girlfriends speak, that you very remarkable and considerable person. All of them envy me. I would like to ask  you, to you do not prevent, what I the Christian? If I to arrive to you what you me to show first of all? At our first meeting what your first words would be? First of all we would go to your parents or there would be with you houses? I hope, that I to ask very little. I shall not take offence at you if you will not answer these questions. I always try to answer your questions. When I to receive your letter, I have feeling of hope, pleasure and excitement. I think, that for that time that we with you are copied we very much pulled together and between us the feeling has appeared, I think, that we are necessary each other. I constantly think of you, you have taken a place in my heart. At work I became slightly inattentive also my girlfriends speak, that I on myself am not similar, whether joke you have fallen in love. I do not know that to them to answer. I was never so am happy. I have absolutely changed about it my girlfriends and familiar speak. It is all because of you. I as though fly in heavens as at me the person to which has appeared is possible to trust and which it is possible too to me trust. I do not know, how you will react to my letter, may, will count me more thoughtlessly. But I wrote to you, that I am very romantic and impressionable also I think that I LOVE YOU! We became frank with you, and I think, that you want to learn about my sexual experience. In Russia all men only dream to drag you in bed, but I do not want it, I to not want to be given to the first comer that he has taken pleasure. It something from above it gives love to the person to learn happiness in this life, and men represent her only as sex, I think, that it is not correct also I hope, that you with me agree. I want to be with the only thing the man with whom I shall feel like loved. I shall give myself to him completely both a body and soul. We together learn all depths of pleasure. Our passion will be poured out for limits of love, and we shall enjoy the friend the friend all life up to last moment of our existence. Today we with the girlfriend walked on city, went shopping I waited for the moment, that you will write to me the letter, and I have waited him. I feel, what our hearts are beaten in one rhythm, and you feel it? I wait for your letter, whether it is important for me to know you share my ideas. Forever yours...... Olga..... P.S. I congratulate you with the Valentine day. I hope that you will be my Valentine and my second half. At you very beautiful daughter which will not prevent in any way to our dialogue. I very much love children. 

Hello my love Dan!!! Much it is pleasant for me to receive your next letter it full emotions of heat and sympathy to me. I begin to understand, that my life is not meaningful without you because I love you. I think, that during that time, that we with you write, each other we have very much gone through together and between us the feeling has appeared. I think, that we are necessary each other. I constantly think of you. We should belong each other always because we are created for this purpose. I spoke with my parents about that that, probably, I shall leave, she only were glad for me, she thinks, that it and is my happiness. Today I all day thought only of you, how we shall meet you. I to represent it to myself as you meet me at the airport as we search, each other eyes, we find and we rush in embraces each other. I would like that all looked at us and were pleased. I would like that all knew that the love exists also she present at us. I went to embassy and at once have decided to write to you that there have told me. Unfortunately, I can not arrive to you some time because for application for registration of the visa and registration of some documents, such as the passport for travel abroad, the medical information and other documents, money in the sum of 360 $ of the American dollars which now at me are not present are necessary. This month to me promised to pay out wages. And if you might send me money to registration of the visa when I to receive the salary I shall buy at once tickets. I shall arrive to you under the tourist visa which will operate during 90 days. I can not receive the visa of the bride how with you it is necessary for us all over again though time will meet. And then, when I to arrive to you we shall make out together the visa of the bride. Today fine day, but me it is sad, because we with you so far apart. I to dream, how you meet me at the airport with a bouquet of colors. I not minutes to not think of you. You always in my ideas. For that term, that we with you to communicate through the Internet, I am very strong to grow fond of you and my love can not live without you. Between us huge ocean, but in the ideas I with you. I to love you and for ever in your ideas. I wait your letter it important for me. Forever your Olga... 

I sent this reply which basically said that I had been expecting this and wished whoever I had been mailing luck in the future. Dan

Yulia = Lyuciya Sabiryanova (Chelyabinsk, Russia) = Natalya Butakova (Omsk, Russia) 

Iīm a single 31 year old male nurse from Austria. Itīs the first time that i found this website. It happend to me 3 months ago, so i donīt have any more information about her, i deleted the mails, but they are generally (some word for word) the same than  the ones from Lyuciya Sabiryanova, Chelyabinsk , and Natalya Butakova, Omsk. In my case her name was Yulia (mail:, the contact was from November 2003 until January 2004. She never answered questions i asked, she wrote about love and devotion - after 2 mails. She sent nearly nude pics of her and wanted to be the "mother of my children". She wrote about the eternal love  and how she would like to pleasure me. She asked me for money for visa, passport,  insurance and "within only 2 weeks iīll be there", because she had asked in an agency and she also knew the detailed prices of everything. Immediately she knew  the adress of the Western Union office and how to send money, but personal questions  after family and that she answered only very global. She stopped mailing after, i think, she recognized that i took too long time to send money.  Thomas 

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