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I found your website doing a yahoo search on her city and came across of number of people that are doing the same thing I think you are doing a terrific job informing the public and to bringing these criminal to the public eyes ....keep it up.

Nery F. (USA)

THEN CAME this site I stumbled upon,
. Same name, address, and letter dropped my jaw.

Daryl (Colorado, USA)


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Alisa Apaeva, Tatyana Komelina and Vasil'eva Tatyana (Elabuga, Russian Federation)

She tried to scam me for thousands of dollars, luckily I didn't fall for it. Here is a string of emails she sent, she uses two names, Alisa80 and Tanya80.


Date: Sat, 21 May 2005 16:16:37 +0400, From:, Subject: Hello my sweet heart Pab!!!
Hello my sweet heart Pab!!! I love you my dear very very very lovely Pab !!!! My dear Pab I certainly you understand that that to you difficultly to forget the past and I think that that I can heal to you all emotional wounds which that bad girl has put to you!!! My dear Pab I very much want to see you!!! My dear I think that that I can make all so that it was good you as I the fair lovely and kind girl and I shall help you with all!! My dear believe me that that with me to you will be never bad!!! Loved Pab I want to talk to you in this letter on trust. You know that I indefinitely trust you. And I want that you knew it. I was sometimes difficult to trust the person under the Internet think. I want from you reciprocity. I want that we had mutual trust. I trust you because I am pushed with love to you. I would not like that we hesitated the friend before the friend and of something were afraid. I want to tell that I the adult person which do not love hypocrisy and a deceit. I am very trustful also me easily to convince on something. I had to suffer because of my trust much. And I do not want more. You trust me??? It is very important for me. I want that you have believed in my love. It not jokes I am really strong in you have fallen in love. And if you will leave me that my heart will be broken. And probably I shall never not search any more for the loved person I there will be one. But now I want to belong to you lovely my prince. Write hundred you think of it. Consider to this it is serious important for us. I wait your letter with the answer. With love and respect Alisa!

Date: Sat, 21 May 2005 19:57:10 +0400, From:, Subject: Greetings my dear very very lovely Pab!!
Greetings my dear very lovely Pab!! I am very glad to your letter!! My dear I just went to travel agency that all package of documents for arrival to you how many will ask to cost and I have come in agency and me it is very good bqrpehk` the manager of travel agency and I have told it that that I will need to learn how many to cost all package of documents for arrival to you that is of Virginia in the U.S.A and to me the manager of agency have found the lowest prices for all package of documents that is the visa to arrival to you the medical card(map) passport will cost 104 dollars will cost 450 dollars will cost 360 dollars and air tickets will cost 784 dollars (that is there and back) and my dear a total sum of all package of the document will cost 1698 dollars and it qnqjhdjni and so would cost 1975 dnk`pnb so to me is necessary for arrival to you 1698 dollars and the manager of agency has told that that where I go also I to it(her) has told that that I has got acquainted with you and that that you to me is pleasant also I to it has told that that I you love(like) and adore all package of documents and She has told that that it will be certainly better if I shall arrive to you instead of I shall remain here in Russia as here very bad people!!! My dear I to it also has given yours e-mail that she to you about all documents!! My dear I today after descended(went) in travel agency I go beqa day very sad as I very much love you and I adore you very lovely and consequently I am very much afflicted as I do not have money for arrival to you and I today descended to all familiar but there is nobody there is no such big money to give me for arrival to you and I do not know what to do and I very much would like to you to arrive in the near future as at me holiday begins since June, 3 and will proceed 3 weeks and in the holiday I very much would want to arrive to you loved expensive for me!!! My dear I today has come home and has told to my loved mum about that that I want to arrive to you and have told it also that that I went to travel agency and to me there the manager have told that that all package of documents will cost 1698 dollars and she has told that that certainly our family does not have such big money my dear at me the salary only 150 dollars and consequently I do not know where to take such money for arrival to you!! My dear my mum has told that that you may might take money at familiar and then you would give them!! My dear I very much love you and I hope that that the god will help us with all with you!!! My dear I shall wait very much from you for the answer and know that that I love you and very much I adore also you at me one!! YOUR lovely Alisa.

Date: Sat, 21 May 2005 20:10:29 +0400, From:, Subject: Dear Sir Pab!!!
Dear Sir Pab! Due to the request of Tatyana Komelina we send you the information about the tour from Moscow in the state of Virginia in the U.S.A! Tourist visa for a month , one entry- 104 USD Medical card - 450 USD Turn tickets Moscow-Virginia Beach-Moscow - 784 USD We can offer the next flight on the June,6. We can't provide you with the information about the exact time Alisa arrives to you, we will have that information as soon as we receive full payment and start arranging the trip. If this time is ok for You and Miss Apaeva, you should make balance payment sooner. Since our travel agency has discounts, the total price for the trip 1698 USD is valid for 5 days. Roundtrip tickets with the registration of all the documents for Alisa flight costs 1698 USD Total: 1698 USD We arrange all necessary documents and tickets in 12-25 days after receiving full payment for the trip. PAYMENT INFO: You can transfer the funds for the trip of Miss Komelina via MONEY GRAM or WESTERN UNION system. It is the fastest and the safest way to transfer the funds. Our travel agency is officially registerred as a private businessman Vasil'eva Tatyana, Russian Federation. As soon as you transfer the funds on the name of our maneger, will you please e-mail us your full name and MTCN (money transfer control number) and we shall get the funds the same or the other day after transfer.

Date: Mon, 23 May 2005 02:26:14 +0400, From:, Subject: Re[2]: Greetings a donkey!!
To me of nothing it is terrible!!! I shall be and to steal money further!!!! I professional scamer and me of nothing was terrible!!! Remember that that you never will find me!!!

Date: Mon, 23 May 2005 02:39:29 +0400, From:, Subject: Re[4]: Greetings a donkey!!
Dear animal!! I am afraid of you and very much I am afraid of police and I very much am afraid of all!!!! I laugh above your words!! You of nothing can make with me as you have no any rights here in Russia!!! Fuck You!!!

Date: Mon, 23 May 2005 02:27:41 +0400, From:, Subject: Hello!!!
Hello! My name is Tanya. I'm 25 years old. I live in Russia. I'm a kind and sweet single lady. I'd like to get acquainted with a handsome and considerable man with a good seince of humour. I hope that you'll reply me and we'll be good penfriends. If you want to know me closer write on my e-mail:

Dina Dosaeva (Moscow Area, Chechov, Russia)

I am a single Afro-American professional, 41, who was approached by this person out of nowhere through Yahoo Personals. After I started emailing her, her profile from Yahoo Personals disappeared. Her profile stated she lives in Confer, Colorado but later mention she lives in Russia but just used Confer to get into Yahoo Personals. The first email was received on March 19, 2005 and they stopped on May 19, 2005. From the beginning, I knew it was a possible scam when her profile disappears from the personals. On April 21st her tenth email, she started to mention about helping her with payment for her airline tickets to come to visit me. I decided to keep emailing her to see how long it would take for her not to write back anymore. Afterward, I knew Dina was definitely scamming me when she stated that Kompas Travel Agency would make her a visa. I knew only the U.S. Embassy has the authority to make and issue visas. I even received an email from her travel agency showing a copy of her visa. After I did more research, I discovered that this visa was faked, since it showed an American eagle in the background. Visas issued from the U.S Embassy supposed to have a picture of the "Lincoln Memorial" in the background. After I got the information about her Visa, not knowing this one was obviously faked. I contacted the Moscow Consular to check if she does have a visa. They stated they have no record of her applying for a visa. Attached are letters from Dina and the Kompas Travel Agency. Dina never got a penny off of me. The only expenses I used were the money to contact the U.S Embassy Moscow Consular Office ($10 - $15). Watch out for her, she is a very convincing in trying to say she a very truthful person. I am in the process of contacting the enforcement agencies, the embassy, the different websites, and the real Kompas Travel agency about this matter. If you receive letters from this person and need any further information, you can contact me at Good Luck, Phil


(First Letter) Date: Sat, 19 Mar 2005 12:39:01 +0000, From: Dina <BUTTERFLY_ME29@MAIL.RU>

Hi, Phil! How are you? Is it smile on your face? I hope so, because I'm smiling, and I'm happy to hear from you! I have to say to you, that I am new in the Internet, and I could not imagine myself, that my message to you will give result, and I'd find your letter so fast! Ok, my name is Dina, I'm 29 years old,I've never been married and I have no children. I can do 2 things: I am the cynologist (trainer of dogs) and I am also the instructor of fitness and aerobics. I give a lot of time to work and I have no time on private life and I can't find a worthy man in Russia. But I won't begin to re-tell you all the information, which was in my profile, I just want to remind you, that I'm from Russia, I was born in Russia, and I live here now.I feel sorry for misunderstanding. This profile was made for me by Internet Cafe worker, and he had to write, that I live in USA in it, because access to Yahoo is closed for people, who live in Russia, and simply he did not find Russia in options there. If it doesn't scare you off me, I'd be happy to keep our communication. So, I have to say, that I am sorry for so short letter, but I have to go now (frankly speaking, I thought, that you won't answer, and I came to the Internet Cafe only to check my mail), and I have to say to you, that I am very glad to keep our conversation, and feel free to ask me, what you want to know about me, I'll be happy to answer to every your questions. I am sending my picture to you. So, I am waiting for your letter, and I won't let you to wait my answer! Best regards, Yours Dina

(First mention of asking for money)Date: Tue, 21 Apr 2005 13:21:04 +0000From: Dina BUTTERFLY_ME29@MAIL.RU
My sweetheart Phil!!!!!! It is really very difficult to express those emotions, that I'm feeling now just by words. I feel, that I have wings growing. I've printed out your photo and take it with me wherever I go and it have it with me whatever I do. I hope, that you understand.:) Thank you for the information concerning the visas. After our talk I made a decision to make a call to my work and said that I feel sick, but in the fact I went to Moscow to the travel agency and I gave 350 USD and all the necessary documents for making visa. I want you to know, that my aunt is working in that travel agency, she has promised me, that my visa will be ready till the 5-6 of May, also she said, that in case we want to meet each other in May it is necessary to reserve tickets beforehand. I know, that you have as strong feelings towards me as I have towards you, but there is a problem - I won't be able to come to you without your help. I've already told you, that the cheapest flight from Moscow to USA costs 1160 USD. As far as I'm going to get visa B2- tourist visa,I have to buy two-way tickets,that's why the price is high. When I gave my money for my visa, I have 100 USD left, but I've borrowed from my mother 180 USD- that is all that I've managed to get. So, there is 880 USD left, that I don't have, to come to you, to be with you, to love you, my sweet Phil. Honey, help me please to believe, that dreams are possible to come true, and we'll be really happy together.
P.S. I'm really very sorry for asking for your help to come to you, but the price of the tickets equals to my salary in a year. I'm a simple Russian girl, who really wants to be happy, and it seems, that she has already found her happiness. P.P.S. I hope so much to see your quick and positive reply and in case you say "Yes", tomorrow I'll find the best and secure way for sending me money to buy tickets to come to you. Yours Forever Dina, Whatever Happens

(Mention of money by Western Union)Date: Tue, 26 Apr 2005 17:57:21 +0000From: Dina <BUTTERFLY_ME29@MAIL.RU>
My dearest and only Phil! I'm so eager to see you! I went to the travel
agency and got the contact information so that you could connect with them. I'm sending you the site of the travel agency "Kompas" , which have made me the visa and where I will arrange tickets: . And their e-mail . I asked about terms of payment and they tod me that there are two possible ways. You can send cash with Western Union to the name of my travel agent: Elena Belenkova to Moscow. To pick up money she will need from you your full name, address, and MTCN-Money Transfer Code Number(10-placed number, which you'll be given when you'll be sending money) Then it's important to send MTCN to me(via Internet), without it she won't be able to get money. I went to the bank and got the information. YThey also told me that you can send the money straight on my bank account from your credit card. Bank information is: Acc. 400927098 of ALFA-BANK, Moscow, Russia (SWIFT : ALFA RU MM) with JPMorgan Chase Bank, New York, USA (SWIFT: CHAS US 33) in favour of ALFA_BANK, Nizhniy Novgorod branch, Nizhniy Novgorod, Russia, (SWIFT: ALFARUM1001) Then, the account number you should send money to is: KVL-4803, the owner of account is Dina Dosaeva (it's me). I'm thinking about you all the time and cannot wait till I see you, feel you! My dream is so close to come true! I cannot believe this, I'm so excited! I love you Phil! Your Dina forever.

(Message from Travel Agency about her Visa)Date: Tue, 17 May 2005 16:47:22 +0000From: kompas-travel 
Dear Mr Nicks! We are glad to send you the copy of the B2 visa of Miss Dosaeva. We are ready to answer any questions concerning this matter. You also requested the information about the possible flights for Miss Dosaeva, we can obtain this information only after Miss Dosaeva books her flight. We have to remind you also that the airplane tickets should be booked 10 days before the actual date of the flight. Thank you for the cooperation The chief manager of the agency "Kompas Travel". Elena Belenkova Here is my information about my scam Signed byPhil

Irina Kislicina (Arkhangelsk City, Russia)

My name is Daryl, one healthy, still fairly attractive 48 year old man living in Colorado. Sometime (last Feb. 05), one Irina Kislicina of Arkhangelsk City, lomonosovaproskekt 64-36, contacted me from my yahoo account. OK, the blue eye's and dark silky hair grabbed me right away. The story of a lost mother, alcoholic dad, the love of her job in health care, and helping people gave her set-up a real people's kind of quality. But man, those blue eye's! I knew, she knew, how to work a camera lens right away. Many fun letter later, with the typical stories of dreaming about, the pressure of no longer waiting, did pull me in. What she didn't know (and lucky for me!) is that it would have been impossible for me to send even $10, as I was that broke. But I wrote along, thinking this was just a lonely lady very interested in America, it's men, and the possibility of breaking free from her poverty way of someone. She did mention too, her tiredness of the endless winter months in Arkhangelsk city. Hey! That was motive enough for me to keeping writing as long as I could stair in those pretty blue eye's, and at her age that will hook this dumb fish any day! THEN CAME this site I stumbled upon, Same name, address, and letter dropped my jaw. But what got me busting-a-stitch laughing my head off...theses photos sent to another gentlemen here in the states did not match the ones I had been receiving! All of these past months, a good 10 or so different pictures in all. So, now I wonder, "Who IS this jewel of Russia?" And is she even aware her photos are being used for this scam? Either way, I'm still amazed the time and effort someone is putting into all of these scams. Well, for now? I'm having fun stringing (someone) on the other side of these e-mails along. Whats good for the goose is good for the gander eh? Last e-mail I told her I was a multi-millionaire, to get exited, get ready, and get packed, cause is ON IT'S WAY! You guy's out there would have laughed at reading Irina's next letter. She (somebody) was good-to-go, and ready to lick their chops at another sweet pay-day. And they wait...and wait... Just boils their blood I bet! ~Daryl


Date: Saturday, 14 May 2005 5:57 AM, From: "Irina" <>
Hello, my dear Daryl! How are you? And if you want to know how am I? - I am o'k, but I can't live without you any more. I always think of you. Nothing can distract me from thoughts and dreams of you. I think a lot about us and about our future. My desire to see you in reality is becoming greater and greater with time. I'm crazy about it. I need you how I need the air. My heart begins to beat quickly, when I come nearer to the Internet Cafe. I wait your letters with great impatience. There was the emptiness in my heart, which couldn't be filled of something. It seemed to me that my life was finished... You can understand me. I had to overcome very difficult situations in my life. I had to be strong. I had ... but I was so tired of it. I think that deserved to be happy. I am tired to suffer... Everybody wants to be happy and everybody has the right on it that is why once upon a time I decided to change all my life and to try to find my happiness. Don't think that this choice was easy. But I decided and... I am not sorry for it - I found you and you changed all my life, you lighted it. And I want to tell you thank you for it. You inhaled the life to in me, thank you. I want to feel that you are real. I want to feel that my happiness is real. I am worry that you don't feel something like my feelings. I am afraid that you are not serious in your feelings for me. I am sure that everybody feels something like, because everybody is afraid to lose dear man. It is very-very important for me what do you think about it. Please, write something about it. I don't know what will be with us in the future, but I am sure I will not to be sorry for the acquaintance with you. You made my life happy and I thank the Destiny and the God for it. Take care of yourself. I kiss you. Your Irina...

Date: Mon, 16 May 2005 13:17:53 +0400, From: "Irina" <>
Hello, my dear Daryl! Thank you very much for your letter. I like it. How are you? How is your mood? And my mood is perfect and wonderful, because today is so nice day. Fine nature makes good mood. I feel something new in my heart. I have never felt something like that. I want to life, I want to dream. I fly. My heart is so hot, it beats very often. I don't understand what is happening with me. Something new is living in my heart and it changes all my minds. What is it? - I have been thinking a lot about it. And I has come to a conclusion that it is YOU... You have changed all my life, all my minds, all my feelings and you have changed myself... You have made me happy. I want to live. My life has found sense again. I have the new purposes in my life, I have the dreams. Some times ago I couldn't think that it would so. I was like everybody and my life was so usual: one day is similar to another. And suddenly everything has changed. I can not believe up to the end that it is the reality. But I want to believe... I don't want to seem impudent and ill-bred, but I can't wait any more. I want to see you. I think that we must meet in reality. I want to go to your country, to your city I want to go to you. I imagined our meeting. I think it will be wonderful. I dream about it. Please, write me what do you think about it. I don't know what be in the future, what do you feel about me and what will be your actions, but I don't sorry that I said you about my the most treasured dream to meet you. I hope that you share my thoughts and our dream will come true. I will wait your next letter with great impatience! With all my heart to you. Your Irina.

Date: Friday, 18 March 2005 5:54 AM, From: "Irina" <>
Hello dear Daryl. I met you in Internet and you really do brighten my life. I am so happy that you came into my life, and I can only pray God that he connected us. I didn't believe in destiny too much, but seems that I have to start believe! I want to tell you about my dayly life here, seems it will be usuall days. I wake up at about 6:00 am at morning, taking bath, and prepare to breakfast. Then I waking up my father and feeding her with something good food, but light. We always have breakfast together, and talking about nothing. After breakfast I go in my work, it's about 7:30am. I like to start work early, and lately finishing my work (about 5-6pm sometimes). At the dinner, I usually trying to prepare something very taste and special, which consist from three parts. Not sure how to describe that dishes, but believe me it have good taste. I think that you would like it too. As finishing my work day, I am going through all the things which should be done, and observe how much work done already. After that I go in the Internet cafe what to get a mail from you. Then I am sitting at home and writing report about current day. After I writing reply for you, though I writing and translating it during day, each free minute. At evening I have supper, and At late evening, I just sitting and dreaming with you. Oh, I am dreaming about time then we all will be together, I am dreaming how we could sitting at the beach and looking to the sunrise, or sunset, or sitting at the winter near fireplace. Thinking about each other and understand each other without words. We are just all parts of one big family, and we are together. We are talking how it's wonderful to be together forever. We trying to remember that there are was the time when we live not together, and these memories just in deep fog. It's seems for us that we always was together. You want to divide it with me? What are your usual day Daryl? I'll wait your answer soon with great impatience. Irina.

Date: Thursday, 21 April 2005 6:10 PM, From: "Irina" <>
Hi my love Daryl. How your day? I am glad, that you have not forgotten me and have written to me so many letters. Forgive me, I had malfunctions with a computer. But with mine the daddy happened misfortune. It{he} has got in hospital. Urgent operation is necessary for it{him}. If you can, help me with the finance. I have remained completely one. I love you also I want to be with you, I never shall throw you, as soon as mine the daddy will be corrected I can arrive to you. But now your help is necessary for me, to me any more to whom to address. I love you. I shall wait back letter soon. Your Irina.

Date: Sunday, 24 April 2005 7:56 PM, From: "Irina" <>
Good day my dear...!!! How are you doing? I need in your help, I need in 140 Dollars for travel to Moscow, also for international passport 150 Dollars, 100 dollars for the visa and 150 dollars to live in hotel The Moscow city. If you will help me, I shall buy the ticket to Moscow on After tomorrow by the plane and to arrive to Moscow. It - ours Destiny and happiness!!!! I feel, that I can spend other part of my life with You. I have gone to bank today and have learned, as you can make a remittance. In bank spoke me, that you can use system of Money Gram of a remittance or the Western Union to make a remittance. As soon as you will help me, I shall begin my trip to Moscow. To do a remittance, you should know my name, my surname and my address. My name - Irina, my surname - Kislicina, my address - Arkhangelsk city, Lomonosova prospekt 64-36. Also I need on your name, your surname, the address and Number the Control Transfers Money is - 10 figures (MTCN number) . I thank the god for you, and I hope, that the God will help us. Also our meeting depends not only on the god but also and from you because if you will not start to help me, we can't meet you never. The god has helped us to get acquainted, but now all depends on you and from me. I shall do limiting more probably to meet you, to cover you and to feel your breath. I want to be yours second half, your second heart, breath, oxygen without which the life will seem boring and without intellectual. My heart you speak me that with my love and happiness. You my destiny for ever. I with impatience shall wait for your letter to begin my trip. Please write to me the letter as soon as possible because I can't wait more. I want to kiss you. Your Irina.

Maria Skulkina (Kirov Russia)

Hello I am a 38 years old Hispanic male living in the U.S.A. I was contacted by Maria Skulkina thru Yahoo personas about two months ago and in the second letters she said that she fell in love with me I follow the game and in the last letter she requested the money. i found your website doing a yahoo search on her city and came acroos of number of people that are doing the same thig i think you are doing a terrific job informing the public and to bringing these criminal to the public eyes ....keep it up. i hope my letter help someone before they fall into these criminals... her address tha she gave me is: Maria Skulkina nekrasov st 17 Yaransk Kirov region 612220 Russia. here are some of the pictures she send me. Nery F.


Letter # 1
Hi Nery Fajardo. I am very glad to receive your letter. It will be possible to you much not clearly in my letter, but I think that it does not become a problem. I know the English language not bad, but all the same to write at me it turns out not so well how to talk. And consequently I sometimes use the interpreter, it is easier for me. In this letter I shall not write much about myself, I shall try briefly to explain the purpose of my acquaintance. But I think that it to not prevent to learn us better. I want to write about myself. And also I shall send you my photo. To me of 26 years. I was born on April, 27, 1978. I not have mother not of the father. I the orphan. I have grown in a shelter for such as I. Certainly I am distinguished from the people who of dews in normal family, but I as well as have all the happiness. The life in a shelter has learned me much, and now it helps me in life. I have got used to do all, and to achieve an object in view. I understand in life that I want also that I do not want. After a shelter, the state has given me an opportunity to study as that trade, on which I want. I have chosen area of public health services. I studied six years in Kazan medical academy. My years spent in academy, have forced me to look at life already on the adult. I studied well and with it I did not have problems. I have finished study with the red diploma. With such good education, I at once have found to myself work, with it I too was helped by the state. Me have directed to work in children's urban hospital in city Yaransk That now I live. It is small city in the Kirov area I work as the children's doctor. My work very requiring and serious, also I love the work with children. I do not know why I have chosen this direction in work, but me it to like. Can that has had an effect that I lived in a shelter, and I remember as with me the children's doctors addressed. The children's doctor should be always polite and understand that the child wants. These qualities are present at me. Now I want to tell where and as I live. I live in a municipal apartment. Probably you are not familiar with it, But now I shall explain all. In our apartment there are four rooms, and in each room, the different families live. I have also room and I live in it one. This state has allocated to me such room. In our apartment one on all kitchen, one on all a bathroom, and one on all a toilet. It is certainly very inconvenient to live in such conditions, but what to do?? Under the law the state owed, To give me an one-room apartment, but it happened. At us in Russia now very weak state, And I understand that the state can not give everyone to the orphan the apartment. In our apartment one grandmother, and two families still lives. One family has two remarkable children. They come to me on evenings to play, and me with them is very cheerful and it is pleasant. Other family too has son, but he already adult and with them does not live. So I live. Probably you will set a question, why I write you???? I at once want to answer this question. I already had relation with the men from our country, and not that good at me has failed. I shall explain why in my the following letter. It is a very sad history. I also already wanted to construct the relation with the man of other country through the Internet, but I have met with such problem As a deceit. I was not seriously injured in this case, but I have made the certain conclusions from this. I have met with two problems: 1) It is a problem Scammers. 2) It is a problem from a photo. And so the first problem for me at first was not clear, but then I have found out very much. I regret that there are such bad people, but it not an occasion to think of all Russian women so. There are in Russia many honour and good women who wants to find the happiness in other country. Both for them and for me now, this problem became one of the main problems of the Internet. Me this problem already has touched once. I do not know why but me such bad words were told. To what I have reacted at once. I do not know with what there was for this purpose an occasion, But I at once have stopped all relations with this man. And I at once want to ask you very important for me a question: You are ready to have the relation with the Russian woman. That is with me????? The second problem is, that very much many men asked me a photo, Including sexual character. What I answered that such photos, I shall not send. And in general many men wanted to see my photos. I can therefore that so reacted to it, I also have found out that such Scammer. For me it is very important to not be mistaken once again. I was deceived and I do not want that it has repeated. With me simply played. And I do not want to hear such words in the address. I speak it at once, because to me is sick to hear such words. When I studied this problem, I have understood that very much many men suffer from this problem. And I understand what very difficultly to find out the man at once, but there are many answers to this question. After that what I now have told you, it is very important to me to know as you concern to this problem???? This problem can become very serious in the relations and prevent still many people, To find the happiness. I have opened this problem at once, because I want to build the relations, On trust and first of all on honesty. I always speak the truth and of what I think. I want to find the happiness in other country and I think that this time at me all to turn out. I had failure last time, but I have made conclusions and is ready to begin to build the relation once again. I write you from the Internet of cafe. I do not have computer. The computers in our country can be afforded only by the people with good earnings. But I do not complain of the life, I earn that to me sufficed on life. I think that we have chance to continue our relations, and I shall be happy to receive your letter. I also would like to hear more concerning you??? As well as where you live?? When were born?? Well and it is possible to tell all what about itself??? I hope that you will answer my questions. I would be very pleased to receive your letter, and I wish to receive it soon. The best regards to you. Yours new familiar Maria.

letter # 2
in this letter she is asking me to approve money for her trip to United states Dear Nery. Excuse that so long did not write. I really do not have opportunity to write to a thicket. I long thought and has understood that my heart already is beaten in the other rhythm. And I do not want that my heart broke. I do not want it most of all. I have one question. Probably I should tell about it earlier. I think that we should decide it now. To arrive in USA many money is necessary. At me such money is not present. Therefore to not be disappointed at last moment, Also I think that we should discuss it now. And I want to ask you for the present we are not so adhered to each other. You thought of it when be??? I honourly speak that I do not have financial opportunity to arrive to you. If you will understand me that I shall be very happy to continue our relations. Only please answer to me my letter. I shall wait for your answer. Kiss Maria.

The last letter she is giving me the Dollar amount
Dear my Nery!!!! I am very glad to read your letter.I promised to find out that to me it will be necessary, for arrival in USA. And so I have found out that I can ask the visa B2. I yet do not know that it behind the visa, but I have found out that I can while receive only visa not of the emigrant. It can be told as the tourist visa. But also it to receive too it is very difficult. Very many any documents and still to prove in embassy are necessary that I do not have not what intention to disappear in your country. For this purpose it will be necessary to give with what be the document confirming intentions to return. Under such visa I can be in your country till 2 years. Then if all will be good we owe, To go in Russia and to ask the visa of the emigrant. The visa of the emigrant I can receive only after 2 years of acquaintance. For registration of the visa not of the emigrant it is required to me about 700 dollars. It including all expenses. Consular payment, payment for the visa, payment for the passport and for the help in registration of the documents and so on. To me will be reached to go in Moscow, In embassy of USA to rise in turn on interview. By the way interview plays the very large role in reception of the visa. On all these expenses 700 dollars are necessary approximately to me and can even more. I do not know how many to me will be reached to remain in Moscow. I spoke you that money at me is not present in general. So all expenses connected with money will be completely yours. And from the party I promise to make so to receive this visa. This next week I shall work then all days, And the next monday then I shall go in Moscow in embassy of USA. There I should submit the application on issue of visa, and make all documents. Most likely interview will be not at once. As to me have explained it will be, Approximately in three four weeks. And still then after interview it will be necessary to wait some time. Most important that I wanted you to inform, it is necessary already then now to begin to do the visa. Since June and up to the end of a summer the tourist season begins. Very many applications on issue of visa will move, Also there will be a large turn. So we should use this chance, if we want to see each other. All process can occupy from 2 weeks and about several months. Looking as I shall make out the documents. But I hope that I shall address behind the help to the skilled companies and me everyone will make as it is necessary. Who receives first time the visa, it is very difficultly. Therefore also will be reached to pay so much money. But I as understand money for you not most important in life, and I very am proud of this character trait in you. I do not love the people for which money more important than happiness in life. I live poorly, but I have happiness. And I am ready to share it with you. Now I understand all your relation to me. You speak to me Very pleasant words and I believe to you and is ready to arrive to you. We will have two years that without problems, To live in USA and then we shall arrive to Russia and we shall ask together visa of the emigrant. But still me explained that is possible as that still to remain in your country and to receive citizenship. But I now do not think of it, I think of that as to me to receive though this visa. Well I have explained to you all that I can do and that for this purpose it is required. You have found out the best way how to send money??? Me have advised two very reliable companies. It is Western Union and MoneyGram. But better speak Western Union. I wanted to go and will find out in branch of Western Union what to be required, For reception of money, but I had no a lot of time therefore yet has not learned. But I necessarily shall go and I shall find out. And so we have time till next Monday that you have helped me from 700 dollars and that I could them receive, Before to go in Moscow in embassy. You see I even do not have money to reach to Moscow. Dear I ask you that you have found out concerning a sending of money too. You can know as to send money, Through such companies as Western Union. I hear first time about this company and yet that I do not know. But I shall try today to go and all to find out. I hope that you have understood all what I have written??? If that that has not understood that please ask. Ok??? I wait your letter. Love Maria.

Nadezhda Mayorova (Cheboksary, Russia)

My name is Hakan T. I am a Turkish pianist-composer living in the United States (Bloomington, Indiana). I got contacted by "Nadezhda" through a dating site: about two months ago. Her profile on the site showed that she is living in USA Pennsylvania. But she claimed that she signed-up for the site that way because the system wouldn't let her appear as from Russia. We corresponded almost daily for two months. There were a couple week-long periods when she did not write at all, and then resumed, claiming that she got busy at work, or sick. I suspect the (or he) was busy writing to other men during that time. We both sent many long, romantic love letters and many photos to each other. I will post only a few samples below, as recommended. But anyone is welcome to contact me at if you'd like to see the rest of her messages and photos. I also received some poetry from her. She called me by phone a few times. Spoke very briefly, saying that she was calling from the post office. She claimed not to have a phone at home. I had not fallen in love in 3 years. And I had not composed any music in 3 years. Two days after starting to write to her, I fell in love, and I wrote one of the most lyric and substantial pieces I've ever written. A waltz called "Nadezhda". I printed out her photos in black and white, and colored them with crayons. Night after night. Writing her name on my notebook in many different colors, shapes, fonts that I invented; I developed a new hobby of playing around with fonts, letters both in cyrillic and latin alphabets, so that I could produce "ambigrams" (words that can be read from more than one angle) which spell out her name in cyrillic when read straight, and my name when turned upsidedown. I wanted to send her a recording and the score of the waltz I wrote for her. I didn't tell her, it was going to be a surprise. I asked for her address, she produced the following: 428031 Russia, Cheboksary, Kalinina Str., 14 Build., 24 App.

S/he wanted to come visit me in the States, and claimed she didn't have the money for it. She had very modest and charming ways of asking for the money. She said there was a travel agency in her town who would get her a visa within a week or two, if she purchased her plane ticket through them. The total amount needed was $1550. I first tried to pay the agency directly by credit card. But I was told it would only work if I sent money to her, and she'd pay them. Then I proceeded to send cash through Western Union. I had just sent the money, and was about to drive away, when it occured to me to call the Western Union office and ask for the Western Union branches in Cheboksary, so that I could give her the address. The Western Union worker who spoke to me was a very nice lady who told me all about these scams, and advised me to withdraw my money, which I did right away. This lady suggested I do a search on the internet for her, which I did right away, and I found "Nadezhda"s photos ON YOUR SITE, under several names and cities, including: Elena Inyutina of Iskitim, Elena Kruchinina of Saratov, Anastasiya Pershotkina of Sumara, Valeria Chekaleva of Cheboksary, Irina Egorova of Kazan, Evgenia of Samara, Natalia Caregorodceva, Irina Galkina of Sokuv, Ludmilla Tarasova, Olga of Vladimir, Natasha... Thank you so much for the great service you are doing for humanity! I hope these scammers can be stopped before they hurt more people, emotionally and financially. I have reported the case to the dating site I met her in. I took the liberty to give them your website, I hope you don't mind. I believe that Love is everywhere. Inside all of us. I believe we all carry a pure essence of Love inside, and it is Love that we seek in all our actions and interactions with other people. I believe it is the same Love which made me write that waltz, which is also making these scammers decieve and steal from other people. These people need to be healed. I am thinking about sending the waltz to the address anyway. Just in case there is a remote chance I can touch their soul. I want to say "Thank you for re-awakening the Love inside me, and making me compose again. I forgive you in the name of Love. And I will do whatever I can to stop you from hurting other people...." Love, Hakan T.


March 22, 2005 (First one) 
Hi! I like you profile and I would like to know you better. Please, check my profile and if you are interested in my person and you are serious, write me to LONLEYWOMAN@INBOX.RU I will send you photo and will tell you about me!!!! I will be waiting your letter, with my best regards,Nadezhda

April 13 (when money is first mentioned)
Dear Hakan How are you my sweet love? I miss you so deeply! Sorry, but I have no home phone. It is costly, to make new phone at home, to have mobile is some cheaply, because for make phone line at home is about 300 USD. I will call you as soon as this will be possible!!!! Ok my love!!!! My feelings to you are so big, that you can't imagine. But sometimes the love and feelings are painful for me. What if I don't get you? I don't want to hink of it. You are only one man for me in the world, you have all the things, that I'm looking for and want to have. You are my ideal man, and Im sure, that you would make me happy. My dreams are becoming to reality, because of you. Thank you for this! If I could give you one thing, I would give you the ability to see yourself, as other people do, then you would have seen, what a dear and special person you are...My sweet, I asked God for a flower, he gave me a garden, I asked for a tree, he gave me a forest, I asked for a river, he gave me an ocean. Asked for a friend and he gave me you. You know, many times ago I had hear of love some words, that if you would love somebody more when God, he will take this person from you I afraid to lost you so much. Sometimes my eyes are full of tears, when I think of you my love. You are my only Love, and will always stay in my heart. I will always love you, today, tomorrow and forever. I will never do something that could hurt you, never. I want to ask you, how you imagine yourself our first meeting?? I want to tell you how I see our first date. First, we will be dinning together, in a place (not important in what place, because I will be happy with you everywhere) where would be nice and romantic. It would be dark and candlelit. After dinner, I want to dance with you slowly and I want to feel your warm. I want to go with you to the beach, walking together along the beach and looking at the stars. I would also bring a blanket so that we can sit on the beach, hug and kiss and watch the sun come up. I really cant wait that moments!!! My dear! I was in the travel agency this morning, and I found out all conditions of my arrival to you in details. Frankly speaking, I was in shock! If I am able to pay for visa with help of my mother, I won't be able to pay for tickets (even for cheapest!). But I can't get visa without buying tickets in this travel agency. Getting of visa is not a problem, agency takes care about it, and they can get it quickly, but only if I'll buy tickets there. My problem is only a tickets. I feel so bad, I even could think about, that tickets to USA costs on 5 times more, than tickets to Europe. I really don't know what to do! I'm afraid, I feel scared by my feebleness. Now I can only dream about my arrival to you. My love, it's a pity, but if I want to buy tickets, I have to save up my year's salary (and don't spend it even for food!)! I'm so sorry. I cant ask you about something, I just can dream I wait reply and I hope that fate would give us chance to be together, I send you my soft kisses and please, take care my love, your Nadezhda

April 16
My love Hakan! How are you my dearest prince? I miss you so much, that now I absolutely have no doubts, that my intentions are very serious. Thank you for taking the time to write me, If you only knew how happy your letters make me. Thank you for being so sweet. Every day I find myself, spending more time thinking of you. Every day, before go sleep, I imagine our first meeting. How I will come from airport, and I would see you at the first time. I really can't imagine how many emotions I'll feel, because even thinking about it, my heart beating is becoming faster and faster. It seems to me, that I did not want anything in my life, as to meet you. My dear Prince, your letters are pure inspiration to me. I want to see you, and tell you, that I miss you more and more as the days pass. I want you to be my happiness forever. A lot of time has passed, I feel nervous, because I think that love has finally found me, can this be Love? Yes. My inner feelings never liar me. I think of the future, many years from now and I see you and me, together, married, our family, I know it may sound a kind of silly, but it is my dream, you are my dream, a life by your side. My dear, I wonder how will it feel to have you in my arms, to kiss you, to love you. It makes me crazy, no, YOU make me crazy! I can stay with you 1-2 months, then if I won't want to come back (or if we'll be married), I'll be able to stay with you, and do everything for new visa or something else from USA. I already got a passport, so I have it, and I need only to buy ticket and visa. I need 330 $ for visa, and exams for getting it. And I need about 1200 - 1400 $ for tickets, it depends on a date of my arrival. I think, that we have to divide charges, because my mother saved some money 400 $. My dear, so, I need 1000 $. Now, may be I have to pay more, but for getting visa, I have to pre-pay for tickets 1200 $. Honey, if you can send 1550 $ it would be better and we leave mothers saved money fund alone. But the agency will not make visa if I will not buy tickets from them. This is obligatory condition. I hope, that it'll be good news for you, as for me, because nothing can prevent us to be together. I miss you so deeply, waiting your reply, your Nadezhda.

April 29
Dear Hakan! Thanks for the letter and for your warm words. My honey I was very very sick some weeks,becouse I was very catched,but I don't forget about you,I'm very missing you my love anddream about you all times. I have to say, that I really just want to meet you, because correspondence will not ever replaced husband and family. I need to meet and spend with you a lot of time, because I think our fist meeting will be base long and strong relationship and family. When we started our correspondence, i told you that I'm looking serious relationship, and I have one reason why I persist about our meeting - I really afraid, that the correspondence between us will be so much long, that we will be boring for each other, because I can't tell you all about myself in the letters and I can't understand you as person, as man with whom I will live all life. Our meeting is very important for me, because I will see your eyes - the eyes are the mirror of our soul, this is Russoan proverb. I want to look at your eyes and try to explane you my thought and wishes, I want to spend with you long time and give us the chance to make our life happy. how we can change our life, if we afraid to make only one step? We should try, without this we will not have hapiness. Why not? Why we can't do this? Why two people can't be together just because we are so far from each other? If you will say this is just because we have no money? I hate people, who think only about money. Money - this is just paper, without feeling and emotions, the thing that are ruler of the world. This is so sad. I'm really sorry that I have no money for travel to you, beacause if I had the money, I would come to you now. If you will say that this is trust... Yes, may be you are right, I don't know how only in letters to make you beleive in my honesty intentions. I'm not good writer, I just simple woman and I want to be with person, who is really important for me. But please, try to think next: If you were me, you would be much more scared to travel so far, to another country, there I have no somebody, no friends, family, just person, with whom I have correspondence. I think about this, but I want to try. This is really big risk for me, but I trust you at first, and I give myself in your hands, from you depend my fate. If I'm not right - may be we are really not for each other? Please, let me know, what do you think, and if you feel that I'm not for you, I'm not your lady, please, say me, because this will be true, don't lie me, will be better if you will sayme true, because I don't understand why you don't want meet me in person... I kiss you my dear Hakan, and I hope that we will be together! Your, with love, Nadezhda.

May 16: My letter to the supposed travel agency who would apply to the US embassy for a visa on behalf of her, and produce her plane ticket as well:
Dear sir or madam, I would like to buy a plane ticket for my girlfriend Nadezhda Mayorova who lives in Cheboksary (Chuvashia), Russia, to come visit me in Indianapolis, Indiana/USA between June 3 and July 3, 2005. She gave me your email and a phone number: 7-8362-455 967. First important question: Is that your phone number? Or do you have a different number I should call? She told me that if one buys the ticket from your agency, you will send in her visa application to the US embassy, and that it will take 1-2 weeks to get the visa. Is this true? And if so, how much does it cost to get a round-trip ticket and visa (for a Russian citizen) to the United States? Nadezhda said she would stop by your office (in Cheboksary) today and give you her visa documents. I was intending to pay for her ticket and visa with my credit card today. So I called the number I wrote above, but the lady on the phone didn't speak English. I had a friend who speaks a litte Russian talk to her. She said that they don't book international flights. She said the only travel agencies capable of doing so are in Moscow. I am rather confused. Could you please explain to me how this works? I need to buy this ticket and start the visa procedure immediately, because her travel date is very close: June 3rd.

May 17: The "travel agency"s respons. Note the phone number. Someone does in fact answer the phone there. In Russian only.
Good afternoon Mr. Hakan A. Toker, If we understand you right, you mean the woman Nadezhda Mayorova. She visited us not too long time ago. Yes, we provide this servise and she must pay for all documemts and tickets 1550 dollars. The process of getting the visa would take 1-2 weeks. You had conversation by the phone with our manager, she don't speak English and your friend doesn't understood her right. The sell tickets, but don't work with foreigner. The flight for Nadezhda Mayorova are regular (every day) and you can choice the date. We are sorry, but we can take payments just in national currency - rubles. We need to apology, but we don't work with foreigner, because we have no official rights for financial deal with other countries. If you would like to make a payment for your lady, you can send her money, and she will pay here. Her documents are complited, and she would get the visa after 1 week of payment. We are sorry for inconveniences, regards, the travel agency's administration. Travel agency "Dilijans" 7(8362)455967,, Russia

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