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I have enjoyed reading your site. I'm a woman whose good (male) friend is considering marrying the girl of his dreams, who happens to be Russian. Everyone is telling him she's only interested in coming to the US! It's absurd. I have visited St. Petersburg a few times and lived there for a few months 2 times. (I studied Russia for my degree.) Not too many people were impressed with the US - no one wanted to move there, although no one would have minded a visit. (I don't know about men - I didn't get along with Russian men and all my friends were women.) My friend's fiancee will be giving up a lot to live here - family, a good job and familiarity. I was very glad to read your section on scams. Thanks for a great and useful site.

Also, I'm probably alone in this, but it's fine with me if American men find a traditional wife- it's better that they partner up with her than with me and then hate me for not being traditional! There are enough men for everyone - traditional and non traditional! (Fortunately, I think Russian women are great. I might not be as gracious if I didn't like them so much. My friends were beautiful, educated and very self- assured in a good way.)

Autumn (USA)


I'm happily married to a Russian lady for nearly 6 years; we have a baby son together; he is 18 months old. I had a couple of failed relationships here and was sick to death of lazy Australian women who were self-centered, materialistic and hung up with feminist views. I can remember looking at an ad in a local newspaper advertising Russian ladies for marriage. I joined, began writing to two ladies; my choice eventually was
for Yulia, a beautiful petite intelligent girl from the city of Ekaterinburg, Russia. She invited me to visit; I was willing to risk everything; it was the middle of winter in the Urals, it didn't deter me. Then I was afraid of the crime rate. Anyway off I went; I can still remember been in the airport terminal in this strange land, it was minus 17 Celsius. I hoped Yulia would be there waiting; she was waiting there with her brother, in a mink coat, looking incredibly beautiful and mysterious. From the minute we met she and her family treated me like one of their own. The Russian hospitality for me was great. The first thing I noticed about the people was the women were nearly all more beautiful than in Australia and appearance and character, there is no confusion between who the man and woman are. Sometimes here I have to look twice; they walk and talk like men. If anyone has doubts, I say go for it; of course there is good and bad everywhere; but your chances of happiness would be much greater with a Russian lady.

Yours sincerely
Rodney Jeffery (Australia)


Mrs. Elena Petrova

Where do I begin? Ok, Hi for starters!!!

Maybe I've been fortunate to find your site?!! Whether I'm fortunate or not you have obviously put in allot of effort into this site.

I've been reading the numerous QUESTIONS & ANSWER'S you've compiled and I'm really impressed that there isn't any fluff. Your absolutely right when you said Russian women are human beings who deserve to be happy (paraphrased). I wish they all could find a guy who will treat them with the same love and respect that you say they seem to be able to give. As you noted, western women are spoiled and in my opinion they are the gold diggers. 

I'm 51 y/o and I have first hand experience in knowing that a partner can make you or break you.

Best wishes to you and your family and the other women.

Steve


Hello All.  I have read about Russian Scams, seen the pictures posted, etc.  But it doesn't only happen there; at Russian.com.  It happens in your own backyard as well and I can't stress enough about the amount of "Nuts" out there who scam to actually get a rise out of other's emotions.  I for one, three times in a row, will now "Block" any "Match" from California.  Seems there is a "HollyWood" connection to their lifestyle thinking that the others in this world are in their own little 'Dream World' to play out their Soaps. What is a shame, is that I'm a very loyal man, seeking a mate in life, and now from my experiences with the 'connection/match's' made from Cali, there are a few out there who have now turned me totally "OFF" from their area.  One connection I was interested in was backing down from a meeting because (I found out in the end), that she was still married.  Another was when we talked for about 5 months, got interested in each other, and she turned out to be happily married but her husband works late.  The last, was when I was actually threatened to come to my place of business to 'Blow Me Away' because I entered his life as a threat to his wife stating she was Separated, she told him all about me to teach 'him' a lesson, and I was the 'Fool!'

So "ALL!".........  Be careful.  It's not just the "Overseas Brides" and/or relationships that are posted on these "Match.Com's", and it's not just Russia, Germany, Africa, or even California.  My suggestion is to "Be Careful!"  Stick with your local atmosphere, playing pool, bowling, movies, and family gatherings for the first meet.

Yeah! To get my 'last' meet's spouse off of my back from a 'Death Threat', I had to involve the US Marshal's Office, Texas Rangers, etc. etc. etc. And a Criminal Lawyer to call a 'hit' off of me just for talking to his Separated Angry Soon To Be Ex.

Sincerely.......  I know!

Be Careful.


Dear Elena,

I have visited your websites many times to gain information for the many articles. Also I have visited your husband's website and found his very helpful also.

But you are again the model of the honest matchmaker; you were the person who started the Blacklist. You were the first to have factual articles that illustrate the reality of life in Russia, what Russian women are really like, and the reality of this international marriage process.

I belong to several groups of men who are in the process of finding Russian women for marriage or are already married to Russian women or all kinds and we share our experiences and information. Your name comes up consistently whenever I recommend an agency or when someone else does.

This single American man thanks you from the bottom of his heart.

Tony ( USA)


Hello again Elena,

I just wanted to write to you once again and express my gratitude for your site.  Not only did your site help to prevent me from being taken in by a "Russian" scammer, but it also educated me about how wonderful real Russian women are. I recently returned from a two-week meeting in St. Petersburg with a wonderful woman that I found through your Elenasmodels.com web-site. I had tried to prepare myself for a visit to Russia by researching the subject on the internet, the internet sources, including my own US State Department, filled my head with a lot of misconceptions about Russia. Because of the research I did, some of my visit was needlessly filled with stress, I will know better next time I visit, Russia is a wonderful place for a vacation. As for my relations with Lena, we both decided that we need to spend more time together and know each other more. Marriage is a big step, not one to be taken lightly, so, we are both being patient and taking our time to make sure we made the right choice. I don't think I could ever find a woman who is as selfless, loving, and intelligent as my Lena anywhere but in Russia.  For those men who view this site before making their own trips to Russia, remember this, Russia is no more dangerous (perhaps its even safer) than the US. Don't believe the stories about corruption, rude people, and bad drivers. Corruption, though it most likely exists in Russia, just like anywhere, never once reared its ugly head during my visit. The people in St. Petersburg were far from rude, in fact, they were much nicer than most of the people I have seen here in the US.  The drivers...well...don't even get me started...I can say that American visitors should decide against driving in Russia (especially in the major cities) because most of us are not skillful enough to drive there without embarrassing ourselves. I spent two weeks in St. Petersburg which was pure heaven, Lena was wonderful (she came thousands of miles on a train to meet me, don't know of any local girls who would make that kind of sacrifice for someone they had only exchanged letters and photos with), her friends in St. Petersburg were warmer than anybody I have met before (Especially Vika and her little boy [he stole plastic flowers from our apartment in St. Petersburg, but, shhh... the landlord doesn't have to know that]).  I'm hoping that Lena and I will have the chance to enjoy a beautiful future together. I would never have found her if I had not found your web-site, thank you for connecting me with the world's most wonderful woman.

Thanks again,
Sean


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Russian Mail Order Brides Do NOT Exist!


By Elena Petrova

When speaking about cross culture marriages, there is an interesting trend: a relationship between a man from the USA and a woman from Australia is an "international relationship", yet a relationship between the same man and a woman from Russia is a "mail order brides" thing.

My site Russian Brides Cyber Guide http://www.womenrussia.com is at the top of many search engines for the term "Russian brides", and as a result I often receive requests for interviews from newspapers and magazines all over the world; USA, Great Britain, Ireland, Spain, Germany, Finland, Hungary, Australia, South Africa, Russia - and the list goes on. And I see a worrying trend - often a reporter already knows what kind of story he or she is going to write, before they even start their interviews.

Marrying a Russian woman is routinely portrayed by the media as the "mail order brides" process. Those words tend to leave a nasty taste in your mouth, don't they?

The first time I heard those words were soon after my marriage when "Cosmo" happened to interview me soon after my marriage, quite by chance. I was sitting at home, bored and decided to send a letter to a competition that the magazine was launching. "Cosmo" was looking for somebody to feature in their article about Russian brides. My letter was like a God sent, and they phoned me asking for an interview. This was my first interview with the Media, and I was pretty naive at the time. I thought that "Cosmo", like all our friends and family, would find the way we met "very romantic". Imagine my surprise when I read the announcement of the future article: "South Africa's Mail Order Brides"! Honestly, I was shocked and humiliated. I had no idea that, that was the official name of the process! (The actual article had the heading "South Africa's Mail Order Romances" which sounded a bit better, and the article itself finished with the words "Welcome!" and "Good luck!" addressed to all us Russian women. All in all, the article was quite all right.)

Now, getting back on track. The history behind the term "mail order brides" goes as far back as the time of the first American settlers. The settlers, most of whom were men, could not find suitable women to marry and had to write letters to Europe asking women to become their wives. In those days, arranged marriages were common, and marrying somebody you barely knew was nothing out of the ordinary. Back then; the women truly were "mail order brides".

These days the term "mail order brides" is currently used to label the relationship between a man from a first world country and a woman from the third world country or the countries of the former USSR. 

The common misconception is that the women only want a way out of their misery and terrible economic situation. Being incompetent in Filipino, Thailand, Colombian, Mexican and other mail order brides, I can tell you with confidence that this is NOT the case with Russian women seeking husbands abroad.

Russian women have a much better education than the brides from Asia and Latin America. About 90% of the women that apply to our agency have college or university degrees, or are current college or university students. With their fair complexion, their intelligence and their astounding beauty, men have often asked me if our selection is real! Our women appear too beautiful to be seeking husbands on the Internet.

Being intelligent and educated, Russian women are still feminine, warm and gentle. Competing with men is the last thing they seek in their family lives. The Russian ideal of a man is the man with whom she feels like she is "behind the stone wall", the leader, the provider and the protector. Believe it or not, the reason for all these beautiful Russian women seeking their destiny over the Internet is that they cannot find their ideal man in Russia. It is that simple - even if it sounds unbelievable. 

Most Russian women seeking husbands abroad are NOT focused on finding a "foreign husband" but more importantly on finding "The Husband". We often receive requests from Russian women featured in our catalogs to remove their profiles, because they have married Russian men living in Russia - this is a clear evidence that most Russian women seeking contacts with foreign men are not fixed on moving abroad but on finding a serious relationship and getting married. For many of them, finding a husband in her home country would be preferable to moving abroad, and sometimes we even receive requests from women if she can find a man who will move in with her in Russia.

Russian women that decide to look for a husband abroad, don't choose between Russian men and foreign men - they choose between staying single and having a family and a husband.

In Russia, women outnumber men (there are 10 million more women than men, according to the latest census, or 88 males for 100 females - statistics according to The Economist, "World in Figures, 2004 Edition"), and in most situations it is a question of luck if a woman manages to find herself a man or not. Russians marry early, and at the age of 25 most people are already married. If a man is not married, it can only mean he is not willing to commit - even bad men can find themselves a wife! Women must act fast if they want to get married and to ensure that they have a husband, one can only hope he will be a good man. There were even talks about changing the family legislation so that it would allow men to have multiply wives so that there would be competition among men too. (This is not a joke; this question was discussed in Russian parliament.)

Now, what is the general idea about Russian "mail order brides"?

Most men thinking about "mail order brides" services are not even aware that they will not receive their bride delivered to their postal box (or their door) on request and will have to spend time, money and effort to convince a "bride" that he is a worthy candidate for her to consider. Yes, the first contact happens usually by mail, air or electronic, but this is the case with using any Internet personals, isn't it?

The interpretation the media gives to the term "Mail order brides" is that a Russian mail order bride will marry any man, of any age, occupation, and personal virtues, just to get out of Russia. The mail order bride service is interpreted by most people as a service that "sells women", a service that is neither respectable nor trustworthy. Some men still believe they can point their finger at any woman and she must marry him because he paid for her address!

This "mail order brides" idea is an insult to any decent Russian woman.

C'mon, guys! Those women do not think you are doing them a favor by writing to them. They feel as if you were one of the guys who would approach her at a bar: where she can say, "yes" if she likes you, and "thanks, but no, thanks" if she doesn't. She does not owe you a thing just because you selected her from the thousands of other applicants or paid 10 bucks for her contact details. If you dare to be arrogant or offensive in your letter, you are out. She knows your music and movies as well as you know them, and is also SEEKING HER SOUL MATE so remember that! Do not jeopardize your chances with her by letting yourself believe in the "mail order brides" nonsense.

Let me tell you about myself. Before I left Russia, I was working as a regional manager of a large marketing agency, which had offices in 22 regions all over Russia. At some stage I had 150 people working for me. I lived much better than most of the regular citizens, and my income would fit in the top 10% of the population. I have extensively traveled all over Europe and Asia. I was not miserable because of the economic reasons. I was content with my life style and envied by many people. The only reason that I did not feel completely happy was because I could not find a good husband - and yes, finding a husband and starting a family was VERY important for me - as it is for any Russian woman. Because of this, and only because of this, I decided to look abroad. I made a few disastrous attempts to find a partner using local personals, which I will not describe here because the subject of this article is a serious one and my meetings with the guys from personals would turn it into a sitcom. Being an industrious person, sooner or later I would end up at the "marriage agencies" as they call dating services in Russia. With me it happened later, after 3 years of thinking, because I could not believe that good, faithful, honest, caring, professional, ambitious, career orientated AND single men existed in this world, men who did not have a long queue of hopeful women knocking at their door. This would be too good to be true. Why did I eventually do it? It was the same type of thing that one does when buying a lotto ticket - do you REALLY think you will hit the jackpot? No, but it doesn't hurt to try and if you don't try, you will never even have the "hope" that you might just win.

When I started to receive letters from mostly nice, good-looking, successful guys (far from the portrait of the "loser" that the Media wants you to believe in), I was absolutely smitten. I could not believe those guys were telling all these wonderful words to ME! It could not be real. It could only be a dream. They wanted to have a family and children! They wanted TO GET MARRIED AND SETTLE DOWN. Those were the things that I could never expect from a Russian guy. Russian guys are hunted down, and would only capitulate into marriage after a proper siege. Too good to be true? This was exactly my feeling from all those photos and letters.

You probably get the same feeling when you read ads of Russian women on the Internet, well, Russian mail order brides. It is too good to be true, and there must be something wrong either with the website itself or the women that advertise on it.

Well, well, well… YOU are looking for a wife. You personally, you are OK, aren't you? So are they.

They are NOT looking for a way out of their misery! In fact, Russian women do NOT consider their life miserable, and most foreigners that have lived in Russia will confirm it. 

Foreigners call it "inferiority complex": Russians believe that most systems in their country (i.e. education etc) are better than in the USA! Check websites of expatriates living in Russia, and you will see for yourself.

The reason why Russian women seek husbands abroad is that they REALLY want to get married!

Russian women are ready to go to a new country  and leave their homes, friends and families behind because they REALLY want to get married, NOT the other way around!

EVERY Russian woman feels unfulfilled if she does not have a husband. In Russia, to be considered a respectable member of the society a woman should be married, with children, or she is an outcast. This is why even successful career women in Russia have the need to meet a partner and get married. Yes, for a woman with a child, it is very difficult to find a husband in Russia, but still she seeks a husband, and not making a career instead, because she believes that a woman is made for the family life. This comes first, and only then come other things such as providing for her children etc. Women don't start their search for a husband abroad because they need somebody to provide for their children. They start their search because they want a complete family and a husband. 

This nuance is difficult to explain; but I will try. You know western society is based in the cult of "success", which is mostly defined in financial terms. If you do not have money and do not have a career, you are not successful. The definition of success is the same for men and women.

In Russia, the definition of success for men and women is different. 

For a man, success is similarly defined in financial terms. But for a woman, success is to be married to a worthy man and have a cozy home and bring up good children. 

Now, just imagine you were unemployed and did not have a career, for a long time. How would you feel? This is the way an unmarried Russian woman feels, because for her having a complete family is the necessary condition of success.

How would you feel if you have never had any job - while your friends and classmates all have one? This is how a Russian woman who has never been married feels. 

A divorced Russian woman feels like a person who had lost her job long time ago. Their sense of self-worthiness and fulfillment depend on having a husband and complete family, the same way in America having money and career define the feeling of self-worthiness and fulfillment. 

That's the best way I can explain why marriage is so important for Russian women.

But to understand it, a western person has to accept a completely different system of coordinates, which they of course cannot. It is like explaining to two-dimensional people about the third dimension: they simply cannot place it in their heads. They try to judge Russian women from inside their own system of coordinates, and the only answer they can come up with is that Russian women want to get out of their misery. This is as far from the reality as saying that Sun is rotating around the Earth. Yes, it might look like this for an uneducated observer - but it is not so.

Why you see so many negative stories about Russian mail order brides in the Media? The Media concentrates on scandal stories because they must sell their newspapers, magazines, etc, and horror stories attract more attention than "happily ever after" fairy tales. (When was the last time you saw a story about a happy marriage on the front page? But a "mail order brides" horror can easily make it.) To sell more copies magazines must publish something "newsworthy". Murders and treachery sell newspapers. This is one reason why you will rarely find happy stories about international couples in the Media.

But there is also a more powerful reason. WHY newspapers want to sell more copies and TV channels to attract more viewers? They would never survive if their only source of income were the regular Joe buying the newspaper on the street corner. 

The driving force behind the Media is ADVERTISING, and newspapers, magazines and TV channels' most important goal is to sell advertising space in their editions. Half of their audience is WOMEN. Ask some of your female friends if they think it is a good idea for their countrymen to look for wives abroad. Listen to their answers. Now you know what half of the population would think if Media promoted marriages to foreign brides. 

Put it simpler, you are not getting all the truth. You are getting the negative information, and seldom the positive.

Let me give the word to people who work in this industry themselves:

Alan, publisher and journalist: "I met Aryna, my Ukrainian bride, through one of these big dating sites and asked the company to publish our story. However, while the site does carry 'true stories' and its service and profiles span the globe, the company's management views and perceptions appear to be parochially American. If the romance is not "N.Y., N.Y. meets Washington D.C." it isn't worthy of publication!"

Anthony Bochene, journalist (also the author of Foreign Bride Guide): "Lena and I are an example of just one more success story that you don't read about in the local newspapers. Added to the dozens of other happy couples I've come in contact with in the last few years who would not have met each other without the help of the international romance tour industry, means the general public is not getting the whole truth about this business."

When a negative report is about your own country fellows, you understand that the case featured in a TV story or an article is extreme; you know very well what the real picture is.

When the report is about some other country, you have no idea about the real picture and often build your impression on incomplete facts.

The thing is, the journalists who write the stories are also only people, and most often, they do not possess the complete information themselves. Often they are affected by the same common misconceptions and myths. The best and most objective stories are usually written by reporters that live in the country they write about. Check expatriate newspapers and you will never see this type of generalizations as that Russian women seeking foreign men only want to escape from Russia. (In most Eastern European capitals there are expatriate communities and they run their own newspapers. Yes, there many Americans and Europeans that permanently live in Russia! With its 12% flat tax rate, it is a tax haven for many foreign investors.)

But even then, writing about something they are not professionally involved with, the reporters often follow the usual stereotypes: "mail order brides" mean something that is highly suspicious, and most likely a scam.

It is not easy to break a common stereotype, built through many years, in the short time allocated to an interview (from my experience, the interviewer will spend with you only 1-2 hours, at most!). The very questions journalists ask show how little most of them know about Russia and the situation between sexes in Russia. Some questions that seem to me crucial in the "Russian mail order brides phenomena", are never asked.

I believe the Media is actually doing a bad service to their countrymen, making them believe that Russian women are hard up and will marry anybody just to get out of their misery. 

This is the concept that is extensively exploited by scammers, you have probably heard about them (if not, read about this phenomenon here). Dating scammers usually contact unsuspecting men through large Internet personals and start professing their undying love and desire for marriage after a few short letters. The scam scenario fits perfectly with the Media's insinuations, and men believe all they need to do is to pay her travel expenses and they will have a perfect mail order bride at their front door next week Friday. When "she" does not show up on "D"-day, they say "All those Russian women are just a scam" and if they are very unhappy, probably another "mail order brides" horror story is born.

Would people believe this story if she were from Cincinnati, Ohio, and not from Ekaterinburg, Russia? No way! But the Media created a "mail order brides" myth, which led them to think this unbelievable situation is possible in the case with a woman from Russia. After all, she is just a mail order bride. See the consequences?

The real, legitimate Russian dating agencies do NOT offer Russian mail order brides.

Russian mail order brides is a thing that does not exist.

There are Russian women that seek contacts with foreign men with the intention of future marriage. Those women are educated, intelligent and smart. They are not going to become intimate submissives or maids. They seek equal partnership and will not tolerate infidelity or abuse. There is nothing wrong with them; they are not doing anything different from women that place ads in your local personals. There is a lack of men in their country, why can't they look elsewhere? We all have the right to seek happiness.

As said by a reporter from Irish TV after I answered their questions about why Russian brides are suddenly so popular in Ireland, "From what you said I see a legitimate matchmaking service and not just some slicky mail order brides operation". And this is exactly what Russian dating agencies offer - introductions to real, existing, marriage minded Russian women. They do not sell women. They offer a way for people from different countries to find each other and be happy.

But those people are free, and bear full responsibility for their own actions. One would not complain on a national television about problems with his "girl-next-door" fiancee, but if she is from Russia, it is the "Russian mail order brides" problem. 

It is just a problem of a particular guy, with a particular woman! 

There are bad people among all nations; in your country, too, there are probably some men and some women who get ripped off through their marriages - unfortunately, there is nothing we can do about it. Just try to avoid the bad ones to the best of our abilities. No relationship is guaranteed problem-free; it is impossible.

There are hundreds or even thousands of happy international marriages, and there are only a few unhappy ones. One can get into trouble in a marriage with her countryman or his countrywoman; and you know yourself it happens all the time; it probably happened with somebody of your family or friends. Yes, there are gold diggers and social climbers; which nation does not have them? It is not the reason to discriminate against of Russian, or Ukrainian, or Uzbek women.

I do not say a marriage to a Russian woman will guarantee you will live in paradise on Earth. Not all marriages are the same! But it does not mean it has to end in trouble either.

Most things in life are potential trouble-makers. But, for example, no one cancels adoptions because there were a few adoptive parents that abused their adopted children, and a few adopted kids that later caused great problems for their adoptive parents. People understand that they were rather untypical cases.

More people die in road accidents than of cancer; but no one is thinking about prohibiting cars. What is done concerns road safety. 

There are sexually transmitted diseases, including AIDS, but no one is thinking about prohibiting sex. Just take precautions when you do it!

There was a case where an American husband killed his Russian wife. Now what? All Americans marrying foreigners are paranoid murderers?? Was not there ever a case where an American husband killed an American wife? Were marriages in general announced dangerous after that?

Don't throw away the kid with the dirty water, and don't judge a phenomena by some untypical, extreme cases. I went through the process of marrying a foreigner myself, and I was not exploited, or trafficked, or abused, and neither was my husband. It was a story of two people from different countries meeting each other and falling in love.

I am proud to do what I am doing. I am not in the "mail order brides" business. I am in a dating business. I am helping people to find their love. I hope with my input there will be a few more happy couples in the world, and a few less lonely people.

Because good people deserve to be happy!

Elena Petrova - the creator of Russian Brides Cyber Guide

Yours,
Elena Petrova
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From the author: I am taking this opportunity to thank all reporters who ever contacted me with their questions and who were genuinely seeking to find out the truth, and did not try to fit my answers into a pre-shaped mould. They are too numerous to name all of them here; so it would be wrong to think most journalists are only seeking one-sided sensations.

But the important role Media plays in evaluating phenomena of our fast-changing life dictates the need for addressing the way some of newspapers and TV channels still prefer to picture relationships between Russian women and foreign men. Personally, I oppose the very term "mail order brides" as humiliating and suggesting a human being can be ordered as an item, labeling human relationships with a stamp of disgrace. I am NOT a "mail order Russian bride", neither are thousands Russian women who find love and marriage abroad every year - please do not call us "mail order", in our faces or behind our backs.

I was never the one who tried to cover up the negative aspects that accompany international dating, and it was Russian Brides Cyber Guide that was the first to publish its own Black List of Russian Scammers from the dating industry, back in 1999. But I was also the first to analyze all the Myths that were typical for supplying information about Russian women, both online and offline. Being a qualified philosopher, I prefer approaching a phenomenon in its entirety, as opposite to tearing it apart and picking up only those pieces of the puzzle that fit into a particular theory.

I am always happy to answer Media requests and offer my expertise in the matter. To send a press enquiry, please click here .

 

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Myths and Reality
There is too much prejudice towards "Russian brides" - Russian women seeking men for marriage, both positive and negative. I call this prejudice "myths", and consider them one by one.

The Universal Crib On Finding A Russian Wife
In a hurry? Find the most compressed, step-by-step guidance on finding, courting and marrying a Russian woman.

The Big Lies and Misconceptions About "Mail-Order Brides" - What is true and what is not, in regard to so called "mail order brides". Who are the real "losers" - the men who are looking for foreign brides - or the men who are NOT?

Immigration scams: ARE YOU AT RISK?  
Any man who even remotely considers the idea of marrying a Russian woman will face the question of immigration scams:
that a woman will marry him with the only purpose of gaining residence to his country, and will divorce him soon after the marriage. Is it true that there are many Russian women that will marry a man only for the purpose of immigration? How common are immigration scams in marriages with Russian women?


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