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I am very interested in getting your opinion on an area I don't think you have discussed. That area is pre-nuptial agreements & Russian ladies. Please don't get me wrong, I am not looking for something for nothing. I was reluctant to ask for a pre-nuptial in my first marriage because we loved each other and I thought the marriage would last a lifetime... also did not think she would ever want what I had before marriage. As it turned out after 12.5 years she no longer wanted to work and had become a gold digger despite the fact I was working 90 hrs a week to launch our new business. She financially hurt me during the divorce despite the fact that she had become wealthy. How well would Russian women accept a pre-nuptial agreement? I don't mean an agreement where they get nothing but one where what they get is specified if the marriage ends. I am not referring to child support as not wishing to have kids. Please understand, I am looking for marriage to last a lifetime. I am not abusive & have never run around with other women. I just can't afford to marry someone who dumps me & tries to take 1/2 of my assets and go on to another man. Thank-you for responding. Lin
If you really want a prenuptial, find an article on the Internet discussing those issues, especially how a prenuptial can protect a woman, and ask your fiancee what she thinks about the article. When you know her opinion about prenuptials in general, ask if she would like to have one. Do not tell her you will only marry her if she signs a contract; this will ruin the very foundation of your marriage.
I'm a male, 35 living in Australia, Melbourne. I'm single and have 2 daughters whom I'm devoted to. I have a stable job but no-where near rich. I can't afford too much. Could I just travel to Russia for a month and meet women there without going through an agency?
Dear Stephen, Yes, you can just go to Russia and meet women there. But it is still easier to go through an agency because they feature women who are ready to relocate. Not all Russian women will be ready to relocate to another country. Most Russian women will never leave Russia, no matter what. Even though agencies have thousands profiles in their databases, it is not more than 0.1% of the number of single women in Russia that chose this way of meeting a partner. All others don't think about meeting a partner for marriage from another country. How many women you normally can expect to meet and date in 2-4 weeks? Let's (optimistically) say, 20. Then your chance to meet a woman who is interested in marrying a foreigner is 2%, or 1/50. It means, in 49 cases out of 50 this approach will fail.
Dear Elena and John, My name is Richard, my wife's name is Tatiana, and we have a question about helping a dear friend in Russia (also named Lena) find a suitable man abroad. What can we do here (we're in the US) to help her get started? Also, I'm trying to keep my wife's expectations modest on behalf of Lena, simply because, from my perspective, it takes not only perseverance and a discerning eye, but also an incredible amount of good luck. I can't help think that for every woman in Russia who finds a good man, there are many women who don't. I'm also a little concerned because our Lena is a little older now (45) and not so slim anymore, despite her incredible good heart and soul. It drives Tatiana a little crazy that men, in general, are so focused on a woman's good looks when starting out in this internet process! and I can't deny that, even though I have found a kind, loving, wonderful wife with a beautiful Russian soul, I may never have written my first letter if I wasn't struck by her lovely face and slim figure. Do you have any statistics on success? or merely a rough idea about it? Elena, you helped me a couple of years ago, when I had a couple of questions while Tatiana and I were still corresponding. Our first anniversary was just last week. Thanks for your help, then and now. Warmly, Richard and Tatiana
In tip 61 of your 101 tips, you state that you should let a woman know if you are not interested and you provided the following example: "Thank you for your nice letter but I have a clear image of my future partner and unfortunately it does not look like you; you are an interesting woman and will find your true destiny" will do just fine.
If I received that type of response I would be crushed. The way it reads to me is "Your ugly, take a hike" and everyone is beautiful in their own way. How about changing just a few words of what you already have so it reads something along these lines: "Thank you for your nice letter but I have a clear image of my future partner and unfortunately I don't feel that you and I are compatible; you are an interesting woman and will find your true destiny" I hope I didn't insult you as this is only a suggestion. Thanks, Todd, USA
And yes, you can of course write your own version of refusal that you find appropriate.
Hi. My name is Bill McCoy. I am an American, who is 34 years of age. I am currently beginning my adventure of finding a Russian wife. I just spent ten U.S. dollar for her address. She is 43 years of age. My question is, Is it uncommon for younger men such as me to be looking for an older women? Please write back. Thank-you very much.
Is it normal in
Ukraine to use condoms during sexual intercourse?
Hello Elena, My name is David. I have been in touch with a woman from Ukraine and have spoken of meeting. How do I Find out if she is sincere or just scamming ? I have seen her picture on the black list. And have put this to her. She didn't deny it and she still wants us to meet. Could you please help me here as I do like this woman and want to meet her but don't want to be scammed or have my heart broken. Please help me out here I would be extremely appreciative. Thank you. David
Elena, you are very kind to have written me an explanation about how
Russian Scams work. I have been on an American site called LoveAccess and they
can use that for 7 days for free to solicit possible men or woman to start Emails. As
a matter of fact I have another "Russian Woman" that is emailing me. Is there
anything that men can do to protect themselves and is there any program the
Russian Government and American Government that acts to protect against
such fraudulent activity? I would appreciate any information you are willing to
share and I am sure you are a very busy person, but I appreciate you taking the
time to discuss these issues with you. You provide a valuable service and I
believe I would like to take advantage of that service. I believe there are some
wonderful Russian women that deserve a chance to come to America and I am
interested in the possibility of a Russian wife. I have reviewed your guidelines so
don't need information related to that, I just need to know if there is a way to
track these people down so they do not ruin your business and ruin other
peoples lives as they have mine. Thank you, James
Is this all she wants?
Dear Graham, She loves you as a person, as a friend, as a partner and the words "I am not madly in love with you" only mean she is not completely smitten with you as a lover. It does not mean she is not sexually attracted to you, it means what it means, she is not "mad" about you. Most women do not have the same feelings at 34 as they had at 18, and they feel they "are not madly in love" as they used to be when they were in their 20th. Remember when in teens all you could think about was love and making love? This is the condition women would call "madly in love". With the age, the feelings become less intensive but more stable and deep. Most people, men and women, do not realize it, but love is different at different ages, especially for women.
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Why Russian Women? - If you decided to find yourself a Russian wife, you would be inundated with questions of the type "Why Russian Women?" from everybody you cared to share your idea with. Surprisingly, every Russian woman you are writing to will ask the same question: "Why do you want to find a wife in Russia?" After a while, you might start questioning your own sanity in doing the thing which everybody, including your dates in this Internet rendezvous, consider strange enough to request explanations. Here you will find some ready-to-use answers for your family, friends and Russian women you are writing to.Myths and Reality - There is too much prejudice towards Russian women seeking men, both positive and negative. I call this prejudice "myths", and consider them one by one.
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